shrekfan246 said:
Well said...
It's true. I have had 2 friends commit suicide in my lifetime. One of them in front of a train I happened to be on. (I didn't see it, or know until a few days later. All I knew was the train stopped, and the police came, but we didn't know why.) It's horrific, and you are right, nobody apart from the people who knew them, or the people involved ask 'why?'.
On the other hand, being in the military has shown me the many different ways in which people deal with information like that. Some people after dealing with loss of people they even knew with crack jokes. It sounds terrible, but it is the only way some people can deal with that kind of news when faced with news like that.
You also find that people, such as myself, become desensitised a great deal to this kind of event, and will often sound harsh, or inhumane compared to others who still find it shocking. This doesn't mean they are, it just means they are talking with a different tone, sometimes different to how they actually feel.
Then you get the bastards who actually are just being malicious. They just need to seriously have words with themselves... Or they will actually find out the seriousness of the event, when it actually happens close to them...