jimbob123432 said:
Wow, the first quote hurts. As a black belt, self-defense DOES exist, and it can severely reduce the amount of violence in a situation, if you do it right . Grabbing a weapon, unless you've just "liberated" it from your opponent, just escalates the level of violence, sometimes to a lethal level. If a kid is being bullied, the best thing for that kid is martial arts training. It boosts self-confidence and if they get in a fight, they can put the other guy down without doing undue damage and no one will want to mess with them again.
As someone who has studied full-contact martial arts, martial arts classes
do not teach kids how to "take someone down." Classes that use point-bout teaching systems perpetrate several myths that cause even BIGGER problems:
1. Kids learn that they can take an opponent out of a fight with one or two "special attacks."
2. Kids don't learn how to
take a real hit, because they are led to believe that can "fight well enough" to never get hit. This is a complete and total myth.
3. Kids learn all manner of grossly impractical "moves" that they then try to apply in a fight. Jump kicks, for instance, are laughably ridiculous in any kind of
real fight -- you're sacrificing every bit of balance. Kicking someone in the head? You may as well punch them in the foot for all the sense that makes.
Now, yes, a well-taught martial arts class can increase a child's balance, flexibility, body awareness, and self-confidence. But unless it is full-contact (unethical with kids), it is
not teaching them how to fight.
In an actual self-defense situation, your goal isn't to "take your opponent down," which is waaaaay harder than people think. Bear in mind, people get
hit by trucks or
shot in the head and still put up a fight. Your goal is to buy yourself time and room to get away. If you're surrounded or cornered, especially when outnumbered, your job is to do
whatever it takes to create that opening.
In this case, the kid was cornered to the point that he was put in a panic. The sad fact is that he tried to avoid the situation, but it was forced upon him by the assailant(s). Any failing results from the parents of these kids not taking steps to keep things from escalating
before it got this bad.