A MAN'S TOPIC: Why are They Obcessed with sex?
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women are just as focused on it as men, if not more so in many forms...big difference is we women are sorta conditioned to keep it more suppressed when in public.
On a biological level though were a troop/clan based species like most primates, hence more females to male ratio in our reproduction rates, and even the types of sperm males carry are not all " seeders" only about of a quarter of them in any load can fertilize an egg, rest of them are for attacking foreign sperm ( meaning someone else) and can lay dormant for weeks after the deed. And others act as blockers...
also as with most males in the animal world, males need to do ANYTHING it takes to secure breeding rights, so they are programed at the core to be constantly on the look out for opportunity... only social conditioning in our society really has any effect on how well they suppress that.
Why are we obsessed? because it's hardwired into our biology... all life has 3 major functions, consume, reproduce, and die.. anything else is superficial
On a biological level though were a troop/clan based species like most primates, hence more females to male ratio in our reproduction rates, and even the types of sperm males carry are not all " seeders" only about of a quarter of them in any load can fertilize an egg, rest of them are for attacking foreign sperm ( meaning someone else) and can lay dormant for weeks after the deed. And others act as blockers...
also as with most males in the animal world, males need to do ANYTHING it takes to secure breeding rights, so they are programed at the core to be constantly on the look out for opportunity... only social conditioning in our society really has any effect on how well they suppress that.
Why are we obsessed? because it's hardwired into our biology... all life has 3 major functions, consume, reproduce, and die.. anything else is superficial
What a wonderful little world you must live in. I've known my share of sex-hungry women, and ones with no interest in having children whatsoever. Biology certainly plays a part, but I would say a great social stigma against women having excessive sex (whores, sluts, etc.) would also be at work here.KaZZaP said:
Edit: Damn, ninja'd.
best quote ever from 2 of my friends
Friend 1: Ah here you are what kept you?
Friend 2: I was with *my Girlfriend* ah I have the worlds worst case of blue balls, shes on her period.
Friend 1: Just stick a towel under her and be down with it.
Friend 1: Ah here you are what kept you?
Friend 2: I was with *my Girlfriend* ah I have the worlds worst case of blue balls, shes on her period.
Friend 1: Just stick a towel under her and be down with it.
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NERD ALERT!
Sorry guy's I couldn't resist.
I love you all.
A womans take on this subject:
We think about sex just as much as the other gender. Its just we tend to think of the consequences more, the future, would this man be right to be my partner, would I enjoy concieveing a child with him, would he make a great father, will he end up harming me and my child, will he be a good role model in the future, and what is that stuck in his teeth?
Now, some of us have thise biological imperatives put on mute, case in point Chris and Rhianna, we know she is a fool for taking him back.
Now as a species in the whole, we are unique, we can mate all year round, very few species can do this as well, and also what makes us unique is our mindsets, Normal species dont mate with the same gender, but we do. I for one think myself as fond of both sexes, and I would mate with both.
But back to the topic at hand. Yes i believe men are obsessed with sex, its just Women tend to control it on a deeper level. We will ache your pole by not letting you stick it in our hole.
We think about sex just as much as the other gender. Its just we tend to think of the consequences more, the future, would this man be right to be my partner, would I enjoy concieveing a child with him, would he make a great father, will he end up harming me and my child, will he be a good role model in the future, and what is that stuck in his teeth?
Now, some of us have thise biological imperatives put on mute, case in point Chris and Rhianna, we know she is a fool for taking him back.
Now as a species in the whole, we are unique, we can mate all year round, very few species can do this as well, and also what makes us unique is our mindsets, Normal species dont mate with the same gender, but we do. I for one think myself as fond of both sexes, and I would mate with both.
But back to the topic at hand. Yes i believe men are obsessed with sex, its just Women tend to control it on a deeper level. We will ache your pole by not letting you stick it in our hole.
Define 'Obsessed'. During my time on the Internet, I've noticed that people who have a negative opinion about something tend to view anyone who has more than a grudging acceptance of said thing 'obsessed'.
For example, everyone here in this forum is 'obsessed' with videogames since they care enough to look at a website about it rather than just playing Solitaire or playing an arcade game at a laudromat to pass the time when one's clothes are in the machines.
For example, everyone here in this forum is 'obsessed' with videogames since they care enough to look at a website about it rather than just playing Solitaire or playing an arcade game at a laudromat to pass the time when one's clothes are in the machines.
awh, but luvy remember our gender is also loaded with the quite stupid ones who are obsessed with the ones that will harm them, and often too weak to back away... but then again, I know many of my male friends have spent time with an utter soul killer who sucks the life out of them ( and NOT in the good wayAlisonPrime said:
)but they atleast get to the point where they can walk away from things that are not healthy.but again, I think you and I are on about the same page in what were getting across " and yes I have shared my chambers with men, and many women before officially settling down into the family life... it's at the point that I really dont see a distinction anymore between the two.. both sides have the same quirks, just how they manifest may differ alittle
It feels good, but I agree it isn't that important. I'd rather have a decent job and a fun pass-time. Best way I can say is it feels good, it is fun and you get to watch something that on an instinctive level makes you happy.
The difference in the sex drive of a man and woman is this:
The male's biological imperative is to spread his seed to as many willing females as he possibly can.
The female's biological imperative is to seek out the single best male with which to share her genes. This is the female's way of enacting semi-population control, thereby insuring the species doesn't become ruled be genetic deformities and mental retardation.
Obviously, this biological programming has become somewhat (greatly) diluted over the past millienia.
If the internal programming of people were actually that efficient, the earth would be ruled by scientists by now, with the jock becoming extinct after the second generation.
The male's biological imperative is to spread his seed to as many willing females as he possibly can.
The female's biological imperative is to seek out the single best male with which to share her genes. This is the female's way of enacting semi-population control, thereby insuring the species doesn't become ruled be genetic deformities and mental retardation.
Obviously, this biological programming has become somewhat (greatly) diluted over the past millienia.
If the internal programming of people were actually that efficient, the earth would be ruled by scientists by now, with the jock becoming extinct after the second generation.
Since no one seems to have commented, I'll just bring up the evolutionary part:
Evolution favours those who produce more surviving offspring.
Women have a fixed number of potential offspring, based on the fact that they have an extremely long period between procreation (For humans, 9 months, for example). This means that, for a woman to have more surviving offspring, she needs to have the best offspring possible; this means waiting and selecting the 'best' male.
Men, on the other hand, are only limited by the rate they can produce sperm. This means that a man need only have as many offspring as possible to increase the number who survive.
Because traits are hereditary (including behaviour), more females are born who are more choosy about sex, and more men are born who are hard-wired to mate as often as possible.
Also, I think 'fault' was a rather insulting term. It's like me saying that there's something wrong with girls with small chests.
Evolution favours those who produce more surviving offspring.
Women have a fixed number of potential offspring, based on the fact that they have an extremely long period between procreation (For humans, 9 months, for example). This means that, for a woman to have more surviving offspring, she needs to have the best offspring possible; this means waiting and selecting the 'best' male.
Men, on the other hand, are only limited by the rate they can produce sperm. This means that a man need only have as many offspring as possible to increase the number who survive.
Because traits are hereditary (including behaviour), more females are born who are more choosy about sex, and more men are born who are hard-wired to mate as often as possible.
Also, I think 'fault' was a rather insulting term. It's like me saying that there's something wrong with girls with small chests.