A MAN'S TOPIC: Why are They Obcessed with sex?
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Biological imperative...see, I know that's the underlying cause of why people find things attractive. However, who in the hell actually has that thought in the forefront of their mind?
When people see someone attractive are they saying to themselves: He/She would make a good mate!
When people are dating what's going through their heads: Must continue species!
When people are looking to get married: We need to be biologically compatible!
I mean...are you people honestly saying that the science of actively looking for someone is actually the primary thought in your head rather than 'Hey, that guy/girl is pretty hot!'?
Humans may be animals, but hell, I thought we at least had enough dignity to not think of ourselves as little more than sex organs on legs at the end of the day. Why the need to over-analyse things?
When people see someone attractive are they saying to themselves: He/She would make a good mate!
When people are dating what's going through their heads: Must continue species!
When people are looking to get married: We need to be biologically compatible!
I mean...are you people honestly saying that the science of actively looking for someone is actually the primary thought in your head rather than 'Hey, that guy/girl is pretty hot!'?
Humans may be animals, but hell, I thought we at least had enough dignity to not think of ourselves as little more than sex organs on legs at the end of the day. Why the need to over-analyse things?
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Another reason would be because it's fun, the thrill of the "hunt", the act itself, of course the whole "because it's necessary to survival" thing and finally the fact that the human brain releases specific hormones only during specific moments and sex=moment of greatest release.
Another reason would be because it's fun, the thrill of the "hunt", the act itself, of course the whole "because it's necessary to survival" thing and finally the fact that the human brain releases specific hormones only during specific moments and sex=moment of greatest release.
Women learned along time ago, that they can get what they want, by not just 'giving it out' like men do.Chaz D said:
People say, women never had any 'power' until the woman's rights movement... But thats totally innacurate.
Who do you think controlled the kings/presidents/diplomats/ministers/ect?
Women!
Guy wants to increase taxes on the poor.
His wife sees this as unnecissary.
He wants to raise taxes, she doesn't.
She says 'Touch the taxes, I won't touch you'.
After 3 weeks on the couch, the man agrees.
If a mayor has one agenda, and his wife disagreed, she can gaurntee his dinner tastes like mud, gets the cold shoulder, and every voting man would have the same treatment.
Quite simply, Women know, men like to have sex. Women like it to, but they know, they can have it 'when ever' they want. Men, can only have it 'when the woman wants to.' (cause lets face it. If your wife says 'lets go up stairs and fool around' 9 out of 10 times your not going to say 'no!' your gunna rush up the stairs with your pants around your ankles.
If you said the same thing to your wife/gf she'd probably say 'not now, I have a headache'.
This it right.Fineldar said:
And for the record, there are plenty of women who are "obsessed" with sex.
However, people who display an obsessive or compulsive behavior when it comes to sex, and are unable to stop, even in light of negative circumstances, are usually people born with the addiction gene, and for them, sex is a form of "drug" or drug-like substance. In fact, a lot of addicts will end up becoming addicted to sex, when they try to quit their substance of choice. That's why they have "SA" or Sex-Addicts Anonymous.
For anyone who seems to have an obsession with sex, but is NOT an addict, (i.e. your obsession does not cause negative circumstances, or if it does, you are able to stop and/or control your behavior.) Then that's just how that person is, and that can be for both a man and a woman.
There is some research that shows that men DO possess a certain drive for sex, that is different from what women have, in that a man has a subconscious desire to spread his "seed" as much as possible. Women, on the other hand, display a drive to have children, that men obviously do not have, as men cannot become pregnant.
So, point being, there is nothing 100% definitive to say that men are obsessed with sex, and women are not. Personally I think there are all kinds of people, and it's not so much a gender thing, it's more of an individual thing.
screw all that genetic mumbo jumbo. its not about procreation, its not about survival about the species. It all comes down to one point:
Sex rules. I'd be having it right now if my girl wasn't in school right now.
Sex rules. I'd be having it right now if my girl wasn't in school right now.
From what I've read it's a little more complicated than that. Women in fact have a couple competing desires. Firstly, they want to get the best genetic...sample they can. That means getting it from Big Strong Alpha Male. However, Big Strong Alpha Male, by his very nature as the alpha male, is very unlikely to hang around, especially for kids. This leaves the woman in a pickle: she needs a man who'll raise these kids. In many cases, she'll then go with Reliable Loser (to put it harsher than it is) who will love her and his kids - or are they? This theory partly explains the drive for adultery, at least on the female side of that issue: you play around with the milkman, but stick with your hubby, who you know will stay with you. In other words, women can't be checked off as the monogamous sex; they have their own biological imperatives towards playing around.matrix3509 said:
Oh, and the jock has as many, if not more, biological reasons for being than the geek. Fitness, health and good looks (an indicator of good genes) are all good things. Of course nowadays things are a bit less on his side, but tell that to the cavemen whose best chance for survival was a strong spear arm.
I'm male, and I really don't think I'm any more interested in sex than most women I know. In fact, when they get the chance, they talk to me about a lot more graphic stuff than the kind of crap I get from other guys.Not Good said:
Maybe it's because I'm Dutch, and there's a kind of cultural difference?
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This analogy is bordering the offensive. Please note that male animals as well as men are quite a bit more than cum dispensers.
Pain: it's the physical manifestation of a biological imperative. But no one actually thinks "This kettle is hot; maybe I should let go of it before the heat seriously damages my physical structure." Sex drives are the same thing: the body grasping humans by the (funnily enough) balls rather than the mind. People can talk away the voice in their head but a deep physical urge - that gets to you.GothmogII said:
Personally, I wish pain could be a bit more polite about its messages. Something like "hey, let go of the kettle quick and I won't zap you with all the pain receptors in your left hand".
like everyone else said: it's what we're programmed to do. we must fight to pass on our genes, and this is done with sex, so we must be obsessed with sex
Survival instincts tell me to pass on my genetic code so a half-clone of everyone to ever exist in my family tree can try to come back into existence.
Yes, but there's a difference. Sex doesn't just happen, you have to have two people willing to engage in the act, it's not an uncontrollable urge like pain, if you get hit with a pipe, yes, you instinctively react, you get turned on you don't try and have sex with the first applicable person you see.Saskwach said:
Oh yeah, properly place those parentheses! Don't stop there, I'm almost there... ALMOST THERE!GyroCaptain said:
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Sorry, anyways men and women think about sex for the same amount of time every day, it's just that men get it more often, but we don't think about it for as long. Women get it less often and they think about it for a longer period of time. I have no idea if anyone will understand what I said but yeah.
i agree with what you say about thinking about it for the same amount of times, but women pretty much get it as much as men if not more, the thing is with todays society women don't like to be perceived as easy but they will still sleep around and not tell anyone, even their best friends!!!SuperFriendBFG said:
Women are predators just like men are, i knew times were changing when i was in a bar and i overheard one woman say to another "i could do with some head tonight......."
Why are women obsessed with wearing miniskirts and tube tops and drinking and then not sex? And of course the real attention grabber is the tattoo they have about 1/4 inch above their butt crack and then WE the MEN get yelled at for taking notice.Not Good said:
I just get confused is all, when I see a girl at a party falling out of her cloths I just assume she wants a dude to drop a pickup line, if you wanted to "just talk" to someone its difficult for someone to pay attention to your face if your breasts are coming unlatched from that tube sock you call a shirt. Its like If a guy wanted to talk to you and his piece was hanging out the front of his pants mildly obscured by his saggy shorts. I freaking dare you to tell me that would not grab your attention.
Dressing like that is sending a very mixed message. Is it fair for men to stare at you, sometimes it is, but is it fair to show yourself off like that and then shut every guy down and call them sexist? What is fair anymore? What is this world coming too!!!!
If you don't want to get stared at wear a baggy sweatshirt and sweatpants avoid obscuring facial blemishes and wear some ugly ass glasses. Then you wont get stared at.