A MAN'S TOPIC: Why are They Obcessed with sex?
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In my experience, and according to science, women over 30 are just as obsessed with sex as men are from 16-25. I've read many articles on this and it all leads back to propagation of the species and the biological clock. While it is kinda annoying that the two sexes are never on the same page, I learned all my tricks from older women when I was in my early 20's 
...and now in my 20s enjoy seducing the younger women >~
...and now in my 20s enjoy seducing the younger women >
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With that kind of girl its only okay to stare if they fancy you. And no, you won't know until its to late.JWAN said:
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I get so sick of this battle of the sexes rubbish. A line is drawn, men are A women are B, generalisations fly around everywhere. Its this kind of thinking that gets films like "What happens in Vegas" made and keeps Ashton Kuchter out of the charnel pit he deserves to be buried in. Do you really want that?!?!?
If you think all men are obsessed with sex then you're hanging out with to many immature or dull guys. Find some who are more interesting.
On a side note, I think male drive for many is fuelled socially as other posters have discussed. Sleeping with lots of people is a form of acquisition, this, concisely, grants bragging rights. As such many seek validation through this. This inversely parallels with the female equivalent who sleeps with many men to see themselves as worthwhile. Fundamentally these types of people are fulfilling a deeper insecurity be it loneliness or inadequacy. Don't envy the player, it only encourages them.
Well, genetically, it makes sense. Guys can impregnate as many women as they can to pass of their genetic code. Women have to go through a 9-month pregnancy. So natural selection favored men to do it all the time, and women to wait for the best father.Chaz D said:
Its amazing how you missed my point completely. A woman can not look at you and know about your genes from one glance. Stop putting words in my mouth. I never said scientists were genetically superior, just like jocks aren't either. As a species, human beings are pretty much past the stage of worrying about getting killed by the nearest wooly mammoth. We are at the stage where intelligence should be the deciding factor in moving the species forward. However, biology is slow and sometimes acts like the retarded cousin of common sense.Kryson said:
You do realize that none of the shit you just said actually applies to humans beings in the age of the internet right? How the fuck does a gorilla of all things have anything to do with human beings in this day and age? Gorillas can't speak, have only the absolute basic motor controls and problem solving abilities. Hell we can create computers smarter and more adaptable than gorillas. As I said above, we are living in an age where we no longer have to worried about wild animals killing use. We are at the stage where we can now go to places to see wild animals dance for our decadent amusement. None of the shit that mattered 4 million years ago at the dawn of Homo Erectus matters now. At all.Not Good said:
The Bottom Line: The problem with all of this is that biology moves at such a slow pace, that just because we are ready to move on to more important things, we are still stuck in the fucking dark ages.
All of that depends on which species you are talking about. From what you said, it seems like you are talking more about lions than humans. We don't really know what our evolutionary behavior was before the advent of speech and written language. To assume that because one species' social behavior is one way, does not mean every other species of animal is the same.Saskwach said:
Penguins for example, choose a life mate, yes even the alpha male. The alpha penguin does not go around screwing everything that moves.
However, even if you are correct, there is still my argument that all this social programming hardwired into us are hopelessly outdated at this stage in our evolutionary line. Its about time our code was reformatted and rewritten with a little more competence.
Can you imagine, how long we would last in outer space if we were still concerned about such trivial tripe as to who will keep the wild animals at bay?
While its is true that most men, can put their carnal desires on hold for a while, dont go thinking that we just forget about it. The desire is always there, like a thorn in one's mind.Eskay said:
Many guys like to make believe that sex is below them, as if denying themselves of pleasure makes them a higher form of human. This is complete bull. Its a hopelessly contrived attempt to impress the opposite gender.
Got to love those tramp stamps. Some women, ugh.JWAN said:
Anyway, if a man is obsessed with sex, at least he's usually bloody up front about it.
Women are just as bad, if not worse than men. Some are subtle about their desires, some are not. Some will deny it and just get bitchy at everyone else who is getting sex, some will play mind games and tease to no end to satisfy themselves.
Bah. This topic is starting to bore me but I shall have input none the less. The drive of any living thing is to create more life. It just is, we don't decide that. The reason women care less is because, years and years before we evolved into what we are today, the women had little to no input on who they mated with and so didn't have to search for a partner. The male would find them.
I thought the goal of any biological species was to reproduce regardless of gender? Maybe our sex drive is just stronger and more uncontrolable than a woman's.
The reason I worry about sex is because I think that at the rate I'm going I'll never get to have it. As a 19 year old nerd with asperger's syndrome who's never once had a girlfriend or been on a date I worry that I'll be a virgin all my life.