A question for our non-smoking, non-drinking, non-recreational-drugs-using, romance seeking Escapees

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quiet_samurai

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Spinozaad said:
I peronally know alot of people who fit the description you described. Some of them are happy, some not. But most of them don't do those things because they think it's beneath them, I work with a guy that thinks he's better then everyone who partakes in any sort of vice. It's beneath him to drink, smoke, use drugs, or have sex. And he would have ALOT in common with alot of people on this site, now don't get me wrong, not doing these things is perfectly fine. But when you walk around with an undeserved sense of accomplishment and an elitist attitude I will call BS on you faster then hell.

It annoys the hell oput of me when people look down on your style of life as an outsider and have no real knowledge of it. Sure it has it's highs (haha) and lows, but it's my deal, so.... fuck off.

And the guy I talked about, he's a 26 year old virgin who still lives with his parents and is the completely stereotypical "basement nerd" type of person, except he has a job... that's the only thing that may set him apart.

I have actually gotten him into a social gathering, and he's a complete party pooper. I will point out a totally gorgeous girl and he'll find something trivial to make her look bad. Like... "Oh, she's wearing those shoes I think suck, she must be dumb" or "Look at her shirt, you can see her cleavage, she's a slut".

It's just sad, but in my professional opinion, for people like that it's a defense mechanism brought on by an internal need to justify their obvious fault in social behavior. To make themselves feel better they ridicule others to give themselves a sense of worth. It's really easy to talk shit about a girl that is out of ones league, so instead of admitting it a guy like him makes them seem beneath him because it's easier then admitting he has no chance and that he may be undesireable.

So yeah... that's what I think.
 

Premonition

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Well, there's a difference between overusing things and being an occasional user. Like for instance alcohol. Some drink it on occasions. Others add alcohol as an additive in food.

Is this a bad thing too? Not at all.
 
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As Someone whose not opposed to any of those but does not do them on a regular basis because he is 15, I would say that, yeah, my life is boring. But I assure you: I am very happy.

Do you now what I did just now? I went to the Hardware store near my house, and bought 3 feet of PVC pipe, plus 4 quarter turn pipes and 1 30 degree turn pipe. And do you know what I did with them?

I made a fucking Digeridoo. And it is awesome.

all for under 20 bucks too.

I have all of the things I need, which is music, food, a place to sleep, an inquisitive mind, and a source of knowledge with which to stimulate it. And a sense of humor.

And to me, being able to see PVC pipe, and think Digeridoo, is what happiness is all about.
 

Natmonkey

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I don't smoke (well, very rarely), drink occasionally and have lots and lots of sex with my one and only lover (been together for >9 years). No drugs either. I'm happy. And a little drunk at the moment.
 

dex-dex

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i have already broke all of those in the past.
DAM! wait does it count if i have not done it for years?