A question to you asexual people.

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Gildan Bladeborn

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While I'd never describe myself as asexual, I am pretty much in the same "no sex life or desire to have one" boat that those self-described asexual folks find themselves in, so I'll answer anyways: Nope, I genuinely have no interest whatsoever in procreating, and I don't really think I'm missing anything. I understand and experience pure physical attraction just fine, but I choose not to act upon it - celibacy is simply a life choice I've made that I've never had cause to regret.

As for the physical act of sexual congress, the idea itself generally tends to disgust me, but not for the reasons you might suspect: I really do not ever want to even imagine other guys naked in any context whatsoever, let alone actually look at them having sex (blech!), so I find heterosexual intercourse to be something I'm perfectly fine with on an intellectual level but consider pretty darn yucky in actual practice.

The problem with that is I'm a heterosexual male - the way my brain works, even imagining myself engaged in sexual congress comes with a mental disconnect such that I interpret those images as if I'm watching some other guy naked, and I would genuinely prefer to look at horribly bloated rotting carcasses for hours than even so much as momentarily glance sidelong at a naked guy's junk. I think you can see how this presents a problem. Or rather, would present a problem if I actually wanted to think about having sex (which I don't, because I don't actually want to ever have sex for a variety of other reasons so I see no reason to imagine it).

I'm completely cool with watching or imagining women having sex though, it's just the involvement of guys in the process that repulses me, so watching several attractive women going at it instead is a far more appealing prospect - essentially the last several paragraphs were a roundabout explanation for why I watch a lot of lesbian porn, ha ha!
 

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shootthebandit said:
lol im asexual and i reproduce asexually, every now and then ill just divide
You know Godzilla is asexual too!

Roland Emmerich said so.
 

michiehoward

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I'm curious of how many Asexuals or Nonsexuals have had extensive hormonal tesing or plan too in future?
 

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No, and my reasoning is, I'm 16, and I don't need to be in something like that and eventually dropping out of school cause I chose to be in a relationship at the time I was in school.

Edit: Also, I'm FUCKING 16. -.-
 

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Woodsey said:
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In my personal experience many of my asexual friends haven't ever had sex and say they don't have interest in it.
This is the part that struck me as strange. You have many asexual friends? I've been walking around this planet for almost 24 years, and never once has someone identified themselves to me as asexual. I know people who don't have sex for various reasons, and some who simply have not yet, but nobody who claims they're completely indifferent to it. Isn't the drive for sex supposed to be a biological imperitive?
It does seem to be the latest craze at the minute - a couple of years ago everyone was suddenly bisexual.
Thank God I'm not the only one who seems a little puzzled by this surplus of asexuality.
 

Ironic Pirate

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I'm not sure if I'm asexual or have an incredibly low sex drive. Does anyone know how to tell the difference?

Anyway, no I haven't. Due to a mix of being 14, shy, and not very attractive.
Tharwen said:
I have another question!

Do you find people physically unattractive, or is it just the act of sex itself that you don't like?

Well again, I'm not sure if I'm asexual or just have a low sex drive, but I do find people physically attractive. I just don't like sex, or nudity either for that matter.
 

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I think most asexual people are just masquerading as such because it's more flattering than saying they've never had any relationships and are a virgin because no one wanted to have one with them.

Not all, of course. I'm sure there are people who feel no sexual urges at all, but I think it might be possible with enough stimulation and possibly alcohol to change all that.
 

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dogstile said:
omega 616 said:
Couldn't you have just messaged or even typed this in the other guys thread? I assume thats were you got he inspiration for this thread from.

'cos I don't see you getting alot of accurate answers, since the only ones who can accurately tell you are asexual's and I don't think theres a massive amount on this site.
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Wait, what other thread? I've probably posted in it too knowing me >.>
"Being asexual in a sexual society" ... quite a good name for a thread I think.
 

Underground Man

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Nope. Not interested.

I heard a good analogy for this once. Say you're a straight male and trapped on an island with all men. Whether you have a "drive" or not, no one on that island is gonna do it for you. So just expand "island" to the whole world and both genders, and that's what it's like being ace.

I find some people attractive in the same way I find a sculpture attractive. Sure it's nice to look at as far as statues go, but I haven't the urge to fondle it or anything.
 

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Ironic Pirate said:
I'm not sure if I'm asexual or have an incredibly low sex drive. Does anyone know how to tell the difference?

Anyway, no I haven't. Due to a mix of being 14, shy, and not very attractive.
Tharwen said:
I have another question!

Do you find people physically unattractive, or is it just the act of sex itself that you don't like?

Well again, I'm not sure if I'm asexual or just have a low sex drive, but I do find people physically attractive. I just don't like sex, or nudity either for that matter.
Dude if you're 14 they you're far to young to really be worrying about this sort of stuff. Everyone is confused at that age but it'll all become clear sooner or later.

To be honest I don't think anyone can claim to be asexual unless they are in their early to mid twenties and have slept with people (or at least given it a go).
 

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omega 616 said:
dogstile said:
omega 616 said:
Couldn't you have just messaged or even typed this in the other guys thread? I assume thats were you got he inspiration for this thread from.

'cos I don't see you getting alot of accurate answers, since the only ones who can accurately tell you are asexual's and I don't think theres a massive amount on this site.
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Wait, what other thread? I've probably posted in it too knowing me >.>
"Being asexual in a sexual society" ... quite a good name for a thread I think.
Oh, brilliant, so I have.

First page even. Silly me.
 

Underground Man

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PayJ567 said:
Underground Man said:
I heard a good analogy for this once. Say you're a straight male and trapped on an island with all men. Whether you have a "drive" or not, no one on that island is gonna do it for you. So just expand "island" to the whole world and both genders, and that's what it's like being ace.
Except that analogy just doesn't work. Mmm a place where you are trapped with nothing but your own gender... Oh yeah, prison!

Last I heard men raped other men there thanks to their drive.

Just saying is all.
Prison rape seems to be more of a power thing than a sexual thing.

Considering that you seem to be of the opinion that sex is such a powerful urge that people just can't control themselves and will do anyone just to release such urges, I'd be interested to know your opinion on other sexualities.
 

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PayJ567 said:
Underground Man said:
PayJ567 said:
Underground Man said:
I heard a good analogy for this once. Say you're a straight male and trapped on an island with all men. Whether you have a "drive" or not, no one on that island is gonna do it for you. So just expand "island" to the whole world and both genders, and that's what it's like being ace.
Except that analogy just doesn't work. Mmm a place where you are trapped with nothing but your own gender... Oh yeah, prison!

Last I heard men raped other men there thanks to their drive.

Just saying is all.
Prison rape seems to be more of a power thing than a sexual thing.

Considering that you seem to be of the opinion that sex is such a powerful urge that people just can't control themselves and will do anyone just to release such urges, I'd be interested to know your opinion on other sexualities.
Not really thats just basically the truth in regards to normal human males.
Key word there is normal. o_~

I am willing to accept that my asexuality is definitely not "normal," on the spectrum. It's far off on the left side of the bell curve.
 

Underground Man

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PayJ567 said:
I just going to guess that you are either under the age of balls kicking in. Or you where treated badly by a girl who you really liked and hope that some day you will look back on how you used to be and laugh.
I'm 22 and have never dated. I've rejected a handful of offers though, from both genders.