BNguyen said:
You know, even if a lot of people are poor and can't afford contraceptives, there is always the surefire way to prevent an unwanted pregnancy - KEEP YOUR FUCKING PANTS ON!
JUST BECAUSE YOU CAN HAVE SEX DOESN"T MEAN THAT YOU SHOULD!
UrKnightErrant said:
Regardless of what MTV wants you to think sex is an ADULT RESPONSIBILITY not a hip way to pass the time, and certainly not a game. If you aren't prepared for the consequences, DON'T DO IT.
You know, all the people who could control their reproductive drive through sheer force of will died out before we assembled our first spear. Statistics show that humans get stupid when it comes to sexual encounters (even sans alcohol), no matter how icky or somehow wrong you guys might personally think it is. (Sexually active people statistically are healthier and live longer than those of you who aren't, so maybe it's your own sensibilities that are askew.) And in those regions in which abstinence is emphasized (the keep-your-legs-together approach) have (by magnitudes)
worse unwanted-pregnancy and abortion rates than those areas that push for public sex education and responsible sexual activity. And while there are some excellent methods of birth control, none are perfect, and many are outlawed in the US because the religious right can't stand the idea of people having frivolous non-reproductive sex, and their lobbyists pressure the FDA to halt certification of countless contraceptives that are legal in Europe.
So this is a situation that guys like you helped create.
Keep in mind the pro-life community pushes for no support for single mothers. No support for public pre-natal care.
No support for children, one of the most impoverished demographics in the US. An unwanted child lowers a single mother's chances of rising out of poverty to scant levels, and there is
no advocacy by the
pro-lifers to improve this. They put
no effort into the development of either birth control or ectogenic incubation. They have
no interest in improving our abysmal foster-care system or our byzantine adoption services. One might infer from such a narrow position they're less interested in protecting
unborn life and more interested in punishing the mother for
being a slut. In fact, I've heard more than once women who advocate birth control or abortion access of being called exactly that, or of
encouraging promiscuity.
Eskimo women will leave an firstborn daughter out in the snow as a necessity of survival. Other cultures will kill baby daughters because women are regarded as obligations (say, if another dowry would impoverish the family) Outside the industrialized world, infanticide based on gender selection is rampant. I'm not saying that's the way it should be (quite the opposite). That's the way it
is, unless we, like (say) Germany institute a shitload of state-supported programs to actually help single mothers raise children. Germany, as an example, has abortion access on demand,
and the lowest rate of abortion in the world (including places where abortion is unlawful) because they treat single mothers and children like something better than rats.
Now granted, Gosnell's clinic is a last resort for women. Mothers don't typically wait until late-term if they're disinterested in having children, rather require a late term abortion if there is a complication that is detected late. Of those infants that Gosnell murdered with scissors, it hasn't been confirmed by anyone that any of them were healthy, or viable. We don't know the circumstances, and sometimes neonates are so badly deformed that they are better off stillborn (e.g. If a child is going to live his entire life of six years on life support and excruciating pain, is that a life you want to preserve? Something to ponder). Here in the US, we have very few doctors who perform late term abortions, especially now after Dr. George Tiller was gunned down in his church by a lone assassin, so we've set the stage for doctors like Gosnell to set up shop in back-alley clinics.
For the rest of women who detect pregnancy early, those who don't have access to a medical abortion will be referred by Google to the dozens of herbal emmenagogues that are available nationwide (many of which are ubiquitous as spices, teas and so on.) So we get to see women kill themselves with a pennyroyal overdose, or getting sick on too much mugwort or citric acid. The abortions are not going to stop because we criminalize the safe procedures. They're only going to become unsafe.
Get a fucking clue, guys.
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