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The Stonker

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Sex drive.

Thinking of boning.
Is she moaning?
For humping too hard.
Will make her start
like a heart.

But you will struggle!
You will spill.
Hopefully not in
her pretty little
sin.

Now it's finished!
You're a man.
Or so they think.
Because what is a man?
Is it being an illiterate bamboon?
Or is it being a bafoon?
Whatever it is then I'm ashamed.
Ashamed of having made love to her.
That disease ridden maiden of
may.

Does it make sense?
I hope not.
 

Breaker deGodot

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You're overanalyzing. If you have a boner over something, that is your sex drive. If you get boners seemingly exclusively from a specific gender, then that's your sexuality. I get boners looking at women, not men, so I'm a straight male. Simple.
 

The Stonker

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MassiveGeek said:
Wow.

I can't tell you how relieved I am to hear someone refer to themselves as "only sixteen"(comes from a 17 year old, lol). Most people I know lost their virginity at 12-14 or are still virgins. Where's the damn middleground?!

From personal experience, I can confirm that it's easier to feel sexdrive once you've actually had sex - wanting to have sex is a sex drive. You'll probably feel it, either by being horny or just by longing to be that close to someone.

Because to me sex is about just that - being REALLY close to someone. I don't see anything appealing about having a one-night stand or anything, but being with my boyfriend is something I really look foward to.

Messy post, should go to bed. >_>
<_<
Btw. Most people that are on the age of 12-14 and say "I've had sex,Lulz". Haven't.
 

Fox242

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Sex drive, to me, is just one of those primal urges that has stuck with us since the days of cave men. It's something that you can't fight and you should do what you can to satisfy it. If you don't try to fulfill that primal urge to screw, then you are going to drive yourself crazy. For me, my sex drive and my desire to have sex was something that was always lurking in my mind and kept me awake at night. I didn't lose my virginity until a year and three days ago and it wasn't until then that I was able to relieve the stress that my sex drive was causing me. Not to say that it has gone away, but it is not as demanding as it once was now that I have had actually had sex.
 

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I usually regard my libido as riding high when I'm noticing I'm prone to involuntary sexual fantasy and erections. I might feel "pent up." However, these two things are the whole of my consciousness of it, no level of introspection can really determine how charged the libido is.

At the point where you're noticing some kind of uncomfortableness from your sex drive, most psychologists would recommend seeking release. If you've got a receptive girlfriend, that's fabulous, but prone to serious possible consequences. Masturbation gets the job done with minimal negative societal fallout, provided you conduct yourself discretely. Hint. [http://laurenoutloud.com/main/wp-content/uploads/2010/11/u_of_t_masturbating.jpg] Either way, after release, the libido will lower and you're free to move on with your life relatively free of mental distraction until it recharges.

How often will this happen for you? More when you're younger, but it's really tricky, because there's a definite difference in different people's libidos. Some can repress it without much consequence, others find that extremely uncomfortable. The important thing is to not let your libido push you into doing something stupid you'll regret. Just because you're mildly addled by the animal within doesn't mean you get a free pass not to use your brain.
 

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Drakmeire said:
A desire to have sex is all a sex drive is.
This practicly sometimes you can wake up being "in the mood" it sucks that I dont have a girlfriend.
 

thenumberthirteen

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It feels like a sharp stabbing pain in your chest. At least I think that's what it is.

I suppose it's sort of hard to describe. Like Hunger. You find it hard to put into words. You just know you really want a Bacon sandwich right now, and if someone else had a bacon sandwich nearby and you're really hungry then you just want to run over and eat it. Like that only with fewer Bacon Sandwiches and more Sex. Though if you're really lucky there may be post-coital sandwiches.
 

AndyFromMonday

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Have you ever wanted to have sex or gotten the urge to masturbate? Aka, have you ever had a boner? If you answered yes to any of these then you can be sure as fuck you've got a sex drive.
 
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Biosophilogical said:
Before I begin I think it's necessary to point out a couple things; I'm only 16; I'm a virgin; I don't know my sexuality; the whole 'not knowing' thing is starting to irk me.

Now to my main point. As humans we experience our world through a subjective view, and we can only sympathise with others through experience (at least, I imagine that is a limitation most of us have). So when it comes to the idea of a sex drive, I can't tell whether I'm normal or not because I can't get inside the head of other people[footnote]And I would prefer to ask through the anonymity and wider audience potential of the internet than throw my parents/siblings/some of my friends a curve-ball[/footnote]. My issue is this; I ca't tell what a sex-drive is meant to feel like because I can't experience what others can, and therefore I can't know if what I feel (or lack thereof) is what others feel or not.

So this is my question; What does a sex drive feel like to you? I ask because I want to know if I've experienced it and simply dismissed it as nothing, or if I haven't experienced it (yet?). It's also an interesting social experiment as well, to see if everyone who thinks they have/does have a sex drive feels it the same way as everyone else.

NOTE: Apologies to all those getting sick of these gay/sex/love/relationship threads, this has been bothering me for a while and I figured it would be less annoying if I throw it in as part of a whole bunch of threads rather than have it as a stand-alone sex-thread.
My sex drive is so repressed, I hardly feel it anymore.
 

thenumberthirteen

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It feels like a sharp stabbing pain in your chest. At least I think that's what it is.

I suppose it's sort of hard to describe. Like Hunger. You find it hard to put into words. You just know you really want a Bacon sandwich right now, and if someone else had a bacon sandwich nearby and you're really hungry then you just want to run over and eat it. Like that only with fewer Bacon Sandwiches and more Sex. Though if you're really lucky there may be post-coital sandwiches.

Unfortunately for me I too have yet to indulge in that sweetest of nature's pleasures, but there are times I feel that if I don't soon I may go mad, and others when I don't care at all. I don't know whether having sex may effect that, but I'd assume that since it's such a strong part of human nature that it wouldn't help much.

EDIT: It seems I double posted. Sorry folks. the first one didn't seem to go through and I've been having connection issues all night.
 

PleasantKenobi

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Are people purposefully not discussing masterbation here for a reason? Long before I ever had sex with a girl, I still had urges to want to have sex, or at least attempt to, with women or girls I foudn attractive. Masterbation was the way I coped with such wanting going un-full filled.

Now I don't mean you need to be worried if you aren't havign the 'urges' for any of this. Everyone is very different. It ties in with puberty and hormones, and things you simply can't control without severe medical intervention as much as it does with your mental state of mind or 'subjective' view of sex. If some of your friends are walkign aroudn with constant hard-ons, that is normal. I have friends now who are in their twenties who are not very sexually active, nor does it bother them.

As you nailed it on the head in the first post, everyone is different. But to not just leave it there, sex drive is the need for sexual release. This can be with a partner, or on your own. Unless, of course, due to external social factors such as religion you are forbidden to masterbate.
 

The Stonker

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Zeithri said:
The Stonker said:
Sex drive.

Thinking of boning.
Is she moaning?
For humping too hard.
Will make her start
like a heart.

But you will struggle!
You will spill.
Hopefully not in
her pretty little
sin.

Now it's finished!
You're a man.
Or so they think.
Because what is a man?
A MISERABLE LITTLE PILE OF SECRETS!
BUT enough talk! Have at you! :D
Oh please! You flatter me.
I'm simply a hollow shell filled with stories and poetry.
 

Rockchimp69

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I agree with everybody who's said your overanalyzing OP, a sex drive is just a natural longing for sexual encounters and it starts at different ages for different people. For me it was about 3 years ago when I was 12.
 

Mcupobob

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There is no real understanding it, whatever gives you a wood/boner/has you pitching a tent/ long list of boner jokes ect ect.

Whatever you are attracted to, and maybe your body has flipped the switch yet or something. I don't know what the fuck do I look like a doctor?!?

The best advice I can give you is the next time you get your hard on in a private setting start tugging the worm, jiggling the keys, giving yourself the low five, masturbation jokes ect ect.

Oh and do it gently, don't want to be tearing it off now do you?