So, should I request a CV or a resume if someone breaks in to my house? I'm sorry, sir, are you here to merely rob me of valuables or are you here for a more nefarious purpose? I'm not saying that I'm necessarily going to shoot someone, but in the case that someone is in my house, well, that's a risk THEY have taken. But, I do give fair warning. My shotgun has nothing in the chamber. It's a Remington 870, and happens to have an amazing deterrent... the sound of a shell racking in to the chamber. I'd rather not shoot someone, and will give ample opportunity to scare them off. Same reason my Sig doesn't have anything in the chamber around the house.
As far as the relaxation goes, I can go to the range with a friend, practice a skill, and then drive home. I don't have to worry about impaired judgment while driving. Now, don't get me wrong, I love to go out and have a beer, but it's another form of relaxation. I thought you'd realize that. Apparently I'd hoped for too much. Also, getting stoned is illegal. Not to mention that I just don't enjoy it, and haven't since I was young and stupid. So, I show that guns have another use besides murder, defense, or hunting, and you mistake the intent and suggest that I break the law or risk breaking the law. Sure thing.