Aprilgold said:
Because smoking is a habbit that grows worse and worse unless the person knows how to control it properly, its like with drinking, smoking and drinking go hand an hand, people who smoke usually drink, people who drink get drunk, people who are drunk become stupid, simple. But also, people who ONLY smoke have a very large tendency to not be bothered to move else where to smoke, I've seen it in a CHILDS HOSPITAL at one time, a man was standing in line, smoking a old timey cigar, so it obviously was unfiltered, making even more smoke, when a person asked the man to leave, he wouldn't budge, and blew smoke into the old mans face, I helped the old man get up and into a chair [he was VERY old, the smoke could have probably killed him if there were more of it] it was very nasty of a site to watch, but then the man was escorted off the premises by 2 security guards until they had his cigarettes and lighter in hand.
Wow, this is the stupidest post ever. I can honestly sit here and say I can count how many times I've smoked while having a drink on one hand, not to mention I can definitely say this has never occured to me; "Oh, I'm craving a cigarette, better pour myself a rum and coke."
"Well, I just picked up a carton, better get a 40 of vodka to wash this down with."
Smokers do not USUALLY drink, there are some smokers who SOMETIMES decide drink when they smoke, CERTAIN people drink to get drunk, and...you know what, your blanket statements are too insane to continue on with. It must be nice to see the world through ignorant tunnel vision all the time.
I've seen non-smokers get wasted and plow their car into another car, I've seen chain smokers do the same. And at the end of the night, it came down to the person being a jackass and having horrible judgement, and sure as hell not because they lit up a cigarette.
I can go out, have a few smokes, and extremely rarely, have a few drinks (just to simply enjoy a drink, not to get wasted) then call myself a cab / walk home, and wake up the next fucking day. Where exactly in your chain reaction statement do I fall?
Regardless, my opinion on the matter has already been written and voiced much better than I could ever put very early on in this thread. Even when I wasn't a smoker I wouldn't care if someone lit up in my room, my house, my car, next to me on bus, or in my hospital room. Do what you want to do, everyone else does anyways and they sure don't give a fuck what you think.
Honestly though, I try to dodge non-smokers when lighting up. If I was waiting for the bus alone as a kid in a bus shelter, even if it was raining if a non-smoker came in I'd go outside of it. I'm not going to force my habit on you, but at the same time if some asshole sees me light up 5 feet away from him and decides to give me some free medical advice about how horrible I am for smoking within a province of him, I'm so, so much more inclined to give him some medical advice back about how to get my boot out of his ass.
The dating thing, either way. As a non-smoker, I dated smokers, now that I'm a smoker I've dated non-smokers and smokers alike, although prefer the smokers for not ragging on me about quitting, just like I hate vegetarians that willingly come to a restaurant with me then chastise me for ordering the endangered species special on the menu. Fuck off and live your own life, don't you have your own shit to criticize?