I was very dateable but now i'm withdrawn.
for the last two years I've found myself not caring (much) about relationships and as a result have kind of pulled away from people. The only time I really meet people now is at Anime conventions because the atmosphere is totally different, but outside of that I find myself lacking the drive to really go out and meet people any more.
And I don't blame people for not approaching me. I don't look friendly unless im with friends, I rarely initiate conversation with people I don't know an ymore, and my life is at such a crossroad that I'm really not 'together' enough to even imagine sharing my life with someone (as much as, some days, i really wish i was).
I've become more concerned with myself and less concerned with those around me.
All that coupled with the fact that I fall for the girls that don't return the feelings, and the ones that do end up liking me I don't like back makes for funtimes... lol