Are you a dateable person?
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im sure you are all familiar with this one.
If you are in a relationship, everygirl wants your attention and wants to take you home, the second your actually single those same girls arent so interested. My point, girls want what they feel they can't have or what seems like a challenge to get
If you are in a relationship, everygirl wants your attention and wants to take you home, the second your actually single those same girls arent so interested. My point, girls want what they feel they can't have or what seems like a challenge to get
Hmmm.... personally I can't see anything wrong with me (oh how humble) BUT! Judging from what has actually happened in my real life I would say I'm not.
I've had only one girl which has gone past a first date with me (that was the ex, I spent two years with her), everyone else, all...5, 6 maybe? Lasted one date and that was it. Going by that example there must be something very wrong that I'm doing, but I'm not sure what. It actually doesn't worry me, I'll just keep on doing what I'm doing and eventually someone will continue to go out with me, all I need is patience.
I've had only one girl which has gone past a first date with me (that was the ex, I spent two years with her), everyone else, all...5, 6 maybe? Lasted one date and that was it. Going by that example there must be something very wrong that I'm doing, but I'm not sure what. It actually doesn't worry me, I'll just keep on doing what I'm doing and eventually someone will continue to go out with me, all I need is patience.
It seems that I'm not, seeing as that I've never been asked out or anything. But I can see my good qualities: I've got a sense of humour, hopefully a proper one, I make sure I look clean and taken care off, I dress myself quite good if I may say so myself and I think I could manage pretty well in a long-lasting relationship (I'm a good listener, just general stuff that I think would make me a pretty solid boyfriend).
But again, I've never been asked out, I think it's because my nerdy qualities are pretty visible. That combined with my dislike for regular parties (because I don't like alcohol very much, and I especially don't like watching people get drunk) and going out in general (no bars and clubs for me thank you), I guess I'm anything bút dateable for the local female population.
Concluding, I think I am dateable, but only for a certain type of girl. Yes, nerdy chicks, how did you guess that? And of course, there aren't any around these parts. I've got to leave this place.
But again, I've never been asked out, I think it's because my nerdy qualities are pretty visible. That combined with my dislike for regular parties (because I don't like alcohol very much, and I especially don't like watching people get drunk) and going out in general (no bars and clubs for me thank you), I guess I'm anything bút dateable for the local female population.
Concluding, I think I am dateable, but only for a certain type of girl. Yes, nerdy chicks, how did you guess that? And of course, there aren't any around these parts. I've got to leave this place.
Not sure, I don't consider myself bad looking but I can say that I'm 18 and never been out with a girl (on a date), the main reasons being that I hit the 'friend' stage before I even know there's a break (the girls who have told me they liked me ended up rejecting me the moment I asked them out because they can no longer see me in a light other then just a 'friend') and that I'm not really emotionally available, I only open up to one person and to be frank I don't think there's anything for me to gain other then sex from a relationship (which while is nice, I see myself spending less time, effort and money by going to a brothel). Also, I don't see myself holding a relationship up long enough before she discovers that as far as getting to know me goes, she's reached a dead end that's not worth penetrating.BrotherhoodOfSteel said:
Short answer, not sure.
That's a shame. With my city, I live in the area that's just 6 blocks, south, east and west from people who are rich snobs, with equally snobby daughters.Ziadaine said:
NO!
I'm cynical, misanthropic, materialistic, selfish and, clingy ... so of course every teenage girl with an internet connection wants me. I can't understand the logic behind it and sometimes wish I was physically capable of living without the magical, invisible band which connects this magical fun box to others like it
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not to mention the asexuality
I'm cynical, misanthropic, materialistic, selfish and, clingy ... so of course every teenage girl with an internet connection wants me. I can't understand the logic behind it and sometimes wish I was physically capable of living without the magical, invisible band which connects this magical fun box to others like it
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not to mention the asexuality
I could not agree more with you. The best sex I ever had was with someone who was Bipolar. Of course, at the time, she was not diagnosed, so she was full force. Girls with daddy issues also apply to this rule.Dj_Trip said:
I don't know if we are talking about in the same league here. I have dated girls with borderline personality disorder, Bipolar, clinically depressed, not just someone you would call "crazy," these broads actually were crazy. Plus tack on the fact that a few of my ex's were raped in the past (not by me) and most (if not all) tend to have daddy issue, I am usually prepared for a very bumpy ride. Fun though.justhereforthemoney said:
Can I handle relationships? A little.
Can I handle dating? No, I cannot.
I was "with" a girl about 2 years ago, she was the friend of quite a few of my friends, and we really hit it off. So, we went out and everything was awesome. She kissed really well, she made me happy, but there was a problem. She didn't want a "boyfriend", she just wanted to "date". So, I read it as she wants to be able to go out and snog the face off other guys.
Yeah, I got out of that quickly. Do I regret it? Of course, she was amazing. But, I think I saved myself a lot of problems in the long run.
So, to answer the question, I'm not datable. It's either only me or not me
Can I handle dating? No, I cannot.
I was "with" a girl about 2 years ago, she was the friend of quite a few of my friends, and we really hit it off. So, we went out and everything was awesome. She kissed really well, she made me happy, but there was a problem. She didn't want a "boyfriend", she just wanted to "date". So, I read it as she wants to be able to go out and snog the face off other guys.
Yeah, I got out of that quickly. Do I regret it? Of course, she was amazing. But, I think I saved myself a lot of problems in the long run.
So, to answer the question, I'm not datable. It's either only me or not me
No idea,
I make friends eaily enough and most people like me.
But I don't care about my appearance alot or leave the house enough to actually meet anyone.
Plus the fact I tend to treat my friends worse than people I've just met.
I make friends eaily enough and most people like me.
But I don't care about my appearance alot or leave the house enough to actually meet anyone.
Plus the fact I tend to treat my friends worse than people I've just met.
All my evidence points to the fact that I am in no way datable or fit for normal society. That said, it does kinda suck...
Seeing as I've only had about three boyfriends before I'm going to say no. It might have something to do with the fact that I'm quite shy, don't talk much, don't go out much, spend too much time reading, act/dress like a tomboy and don't really like being touched (unless it's a quick hug). Although I've been told I have a likable personality. Guess you'd have to tell me really, I don't have the self-esteem to judge myself =p
Well, I don't know about that,( I can't get into their heads, can I)
But my answer to them would be that I'm not a dating person.
Quite frankly, I find the whole thing repulsive.
One night stands and such..
If you have good chemistry with somebody, you'll see it right a way.
No need for "dating"
Some call it love
But my answer to them would be that I'm not a dating person.
Quite frankly, I find the whole thing repulsive.
One night stands and such..
If you have good chemistry with somebody, you'll see it right a way.
No need for "dating"
Some call it love
