Dastardly said:
People, people. Don't get so defensive about this.
When accusations of 'this game is racist' and 'this game is sexist' and 'The Sims 3 is offensive to people with mental disorders' (that last one is real by the way, I wish I was kidding) come up pretty damn frequently it isn't that hard to understand why some people, myself included, get more than a little frustrated with this issue croping up again and again in some form, somewhere.
There is definitely a problem with the "dialogue" in Arkham City, when it comes to over-use of the word "*****." Yes, the villains are "criminals." Yes, they're "mean." But the writers are lazy, and can only think of one insult to pile on all of the female characters.
And what other words would you have used that a) feel like natural dialogue for street thugs who likely aren't very well educated and don't have a wide vocabulary and b) doesn't violate the T for Teen rating (that's what I've heard it's going to be)?
They can't just use the same insults they use for men, or some more generalized ones. Nope, they go straight for "*****" and stay there. And every woman, really? They're all the same type of bad, such that it can only be termed "*****."
There really aren't that many TV friendly insults for use against women (and insults do seem to be very gender-specific, even a seemingly generic one like 'arsehole' seems to have use specifically against men, I have never once heard a woman being called an arsehole) so it's not overtly suprising that '*****' is the first and only port of call (the only other words that come to mind as insults against women are: ****, twat, whore, slut, slag, hoe and dyke, notice how most of those aren't exactly very flattering and would probably be recieved as being
more sexist).
Anti-men swear words are more common and varied because insulting men isn't considered to be as large a problem (we can take it, no problem) but the list of specifically anti-women swear words which aren't considered taboo or heinously offensive is considerably more limited because, as a general rule, we
don't like insulting women and hurting their feelings.
It's like the whole 'you can't hit a girl' thing, it's fine to spew abuse at men because we probably deserved it and we can take it, not so with women so it's only natural that the tools for doing so are more limited.
This isn't the kind of thing that is intentionally sexist, and no one is saying the writers hate women or anything ridiculous like that. It's "sexist" in that it shows a lack of real thought, originality, or variety when writing about the female characters. The unoriginal, repetitive use of any particular epithet shows laziness... but it just so happens this particular epithet is 99% of the time directed at women.
It doesn't show laziness, the word '*****' is an extremely common word to use in order to insult women, it's more natural to have the thugs spam the word '*****' because I'm sure someone who's job prospects don't reach higher than hitting people doesn't really have the poetic mindset or inclination to stop and think of a witty and biting retort
in the middle of a fist fight.
It would be weird if the enemies had a wide plethora of retorts, insults and one-liners to throw at you unless you happened to be squaring off against an amatuer Shakespearian theatrical society (which would admitantlty be pretty funny).
It's not the same kind of sexism, but there is clearly a problem there. Let's be grown-ups about it, rather than being reactionary -- some of us are acting like allowing the game to be called sexist is allowing ourselves to be called sexist... and if you feel that way, it's time to do some soul-searching rather than finger-pointing.
This is not sexism at all. Sexism is an intentional, explicit hatred and contempt for women and the people who commit acts of genuine sexism are vile and evil people (I hold the same view towards all forms of discrimination).
People who think it's fine to beat their wife because she displeased them are
sexist.
People who believe that women don't belong anywhere but the kitchen and take every oppertunity to remind us of this are
sexist.
People who believe that all women are evil, heartless beings who exist solely to screw with our heads are
sexist.
A video game that uses the word '*****' a lot isn't sexist, and if you feel that anyone is being reactionary or doing finger pointing then the most likely candidates would be those decrying this as sexist (without really understanding the enormity of the word and the history behind it).