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Moonlight Butterfly

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Tippy said:
I know the above look like a bunch of handpicked pictures, but ideally I should be struggling to find such pictures if females truly cared about gaming as much as they claim to.
Are you seriously saying to me that I don't care about gaming.

Really

I guess I'm totally imagining my massive games collection and the fact it's been my major hobby for 26 years. Thanks for telling me I must have been delusional all that time! -.-

One of the problems I have is that I'm kind of stuck in the north of England, there are loads of cons I would love to go to but they are unfortunately way down south or in America. I can forget getting a job in gaming here too (more likely to get a job in farming...) Although I have been praised for my gaming reviews from people already in the industry.

The first review I wrote had a dev comment on it and he thanked me for pointing out a feature that they could implement.
 

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The sign I put on the clubhouse door clearly read, "NO GIRLS ALLOWED!"

Who the fuck tore it down? Now there be bitches everywhere.

Oh...

Wait...

Hmmm....

Some of them are pretty good it turns out...

I don't get it, why didn't we want them in our community again?
 

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Tippy said:
Moonlight Butterfly said:
Do you see how ridiculous it is that men might watch my little pony to impress women? That's how ridiculous is it when someone says 'Women play games to impress men'
You've got it completely backwards. Women watch My Little Pony to impress men (or atleast, that is far more likely) because the MLP fanbase is already overwhelmingly male. Most women just don't find the show as amazing as men make it out to be, MLP:FiM has become a "man" thing (along with being a little-girls show).
'Scuse me love, I have some female Bronies who'd like a word with the both of you.

No one I know is watching that show to impress anyone else; we just like it and we like the community (and some like to sexually fantasise about the ponies, but let's not talk about them)

I have yet to meet a Brony who's been watching the show just to impress someone else, please feel free to introduce me to some so I can love and tolerate them ;D

OT: When my raiding teams in WoW found out their top DPSer was female, via hearing my voice on teamspeak/vent, some were confused, some were amazed, some suddenly became a lot nicer and more polite, some became jackasses. The ones I really like said 'hey, nice DPS' and got straight back to tactics.
 

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Fappy said:
The sign I put on the clubhouse door clearly read, "NO GIRLS ALLOWED!"

Who the fuck tore it down? Now there be bitches everywhere.

Oh...

Wait...

Hmmm....

Some of them are pretty good it turns out...

I don't get it, why didn't we want them in our community again?
Because they are icky and have cooties!

To be honest that isn't really shocking at all I mean I say "Girls don't play videogames" or "Girls suck at videogames" but I am pretty sure at this point its a big joke with say that one shut-in that doesn't realize it is a joke yet but hey whatcha going to do.
There was a girl on the ventrilo I frequent at one point.. Things often went in the gutter but it was still some of the most fun I have had online.
Of course there are things like "Frag Dolls" which just make me laugh every time I see anything related to them.
 

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Snowbell said:
Tippy said:
Moonlight Butterfly said:
Do you see how ridiculous it is that men might watch my little pony to impress women? That's how ridiculous is it when someone says 'Women play games to impress men'
You've got it completely backwards. Women watch My Little Pony to impress men (or atleast, that is far more likely) because the MLP fanbase is already overwhelmingly male. Most women just don't find the show as amazing as men make it out to be, MLP:FiM has become a "man" thing (along with being a little-girls show).
'Scuse me love, I have some female Bronies who'd like a word with the both of you.

No one I know is watching that show to impress anyone else; we just like it and we like the community (and some like to sexually fantasise about the ponies, but let's not talk about them)

I have yet to meet a Brony who's been watching the show just to impress someone else, please feel free to introduce me to some so I can love and tolerate them ;D

OT: When my raiding teams in WoW found out their top DPSer was female, via hearing my voice on teamspeak/vent, some were confused, some were amazed, some suddenly became a lot nicer and more polite, some became jackasses. The ones I really like said 'hey, nice DPS' and got straight back to tactics.
One of the best Rogues on my old WoW server was a girl. She got a lot of shit for it XD
 

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One of the best Rogues on my old WoW server was a girl. She got a lot of shit for it XD
Most of the guilds I knew of on my server had female guild leaders, mine included. And a lot of great tanks I knew were female, but although we were good we did get a lot of the same comments such as 'tits or gtfo' or 'you here to make your party sandwhiches?' which annoyed the hell out of me.

See, this is yet another reason why I'd rather be counted as a guy; I've been gaming since I was allowed my first handheld at 9 and soon demmanded an xbox and gamecube so I could play me some real games. My gender keeps holding other people's judgement of me at a funny angle, and if you can't beat 'em, join 'em and be a positive role model. I've never touched Angry Birds in my life, and I'll punch anyone who says I'm a casual or doing it for attention just because I'm female. And you can hit me back because I'm totally one of the dudes.

I'll say what I said in the thread about that ridiculous video; I play video games because I LOVE playing video games, and always will!
 

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Tippy said:
^ That is generally what I was talking about. Now they all seem like a bunch of guys being guys, and can they really be blamed if they neglect to develop female characters as extensively as their male counterparts, or go a little over the edge in sexualizing/objectivising females?
After that long post I made out for you, I almost feel a bit insulted you didn't address a single point I made :-\

Also, I think it's odd that you make a huge deal about women not being in competitive gaming, and totally brush off the fact that women are now 42% of the gaming industry's customer base. Last I checked, most games made are made for people who just play games. Developers don't take into account who is competing in game tournaments when deciding what game they should work on next. So to say that the lack of women in competitive gaming has or should have ANY sort of bearing on what games are made and whether or not they should appeal to women (or at least be gender-neutral, as I explained in detail in my previous post) is just ludicrous.
 

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From what I'm reading it basically comes down to this:

Dem wominz tuk yer jewb!

 

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Fappy said:
The sign I put on the clubhouse door clearly read, "NO GIRLS ALLOWED!"

Who the fuck tore it down? Now there be bitches everywhere.

Oh...

Wait...

Hmmm....

Some of them are pretty good it turns out...

I don't get it, why didn't we want them in our community again?
While I agree with most all of the sarcasm being played with here, I have to add that this is a misconception, that the gaming community collectively forbid females from being allowed in. Really, video games began and until recently remained a mostly masculine occupation. There was no fence built from the inside. On the contrary, mostly due to the idea that the lot of us were pudgy, pimply nerdtards, gaming was just sort of overlooked or avoided by the lot. Now that people casually play Pokemon and Halo is getting a movie, nerd culture fetishism has pushed video games into the mainstream. I honestly think it's a mix between sexist undertones and a sort of 'spite' for the mainstream that denied gamers that makes male gamers so apprehensive to open up their clubhouses to the XX's.
 

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KRAKENDIE said:
Fappy said:
The sign I put on the clubhouse door clearly read, "NO GIRLS ALLOWED!"

Who the fuck tore it down? Now there be bitches everywhere.

Oh...

Wait...

Hmmm....

Some of them are pretty good it turns out...

I don't get it, why didn't we want them in our community again?
While I agree with most all of the sarcasm being played with here, I have to add that this is a misconception, that the gaming community collectively forbid females from being allowed in. Really, video games began and until recently remained a mostly masculine occupation. There was no fence built from the inside. On the contrary, mostly due to the idea that the lot of us were pudgy, pimply nerdtards, gaming was just sort of overlooked or avoided by the lot. Now that people casually play Pokemon and Halo is getting a movie, nerd culture fetishism has pushed video games into the mainstream. I honestly think it's a mix between sexist undertones and a sort of 'spite' for the mainstream that denied gamers that makes male gamers so apprehensive to open up their clubhouses to the XX's.
Does that make the men who detest female gamers hipsters then? :p
 

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Fappy said:
KRAKENDIE said:
Fappy said:
The sign I put on the clubhouse door clearly read, "NO GIRLS ALLOWED!"

Who the fuck tore it down? Now there be bitches everywhere.

Oh...

Wait...

Hmmm....

Some of them are pretty good it turns out...

I don't get it, why didn't we want them in our community again?
While I agree with most all of the sarcasm being played with here, I have to add that this is a misconception, that the gaming community collectively forbid females from being allowed in. Really, video games began and until recently remained a mostly masculine occupation. There was no fence built from the inside. On the contrary, mostly due to the idea that the lot of us were pudgy, pimply nerdtards, gaming was just sort of overlooked or avoided by the lot. Now that people casually play Pokemon and Halo is getting a movie, nerd culture fetishism has pushed video games into the mainstream. I honestly think it's a mix between sexist undertones and a sort of 'spite' for the mainstream that denied gamers that makes male gamers so apprehensive to open up their clubhouses to the XX's.
Does that make the men who detest female gamers hipsters then? :p
In the future, everyone is a hipster. Everyone.
 

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You know, I've given plenty of thought into the whole issue of sexism in the gaming community, but for all the pages and pages I've written and could continue to write, it all comes down to this:

Sexism is dumb; let's all just try to make video games a more friendly environment for everyone, regardless of sex and gender. Then the only people complaining will people who want to abuse video games as an excuse to be a dick. And then it just sucks to be them.
The End.
 

Tippy

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Lilani said:
After that long post I made out for you, I almost feel a bit insulted you didn't address a single point I made :-\

Also, I think it's odd that you make a huge deal about women not being in competitive gaming, and totally brush off the fact that women are now 42% of the gaming industry's customer base. Last I checked, most games made are made for people who just play games. Developers don't take into account who is competing in game tournaments when deciding what game they should work on next. So to say that the lack of women in competitive gaming has or should have ANY sort of bearing on what games are made and whether or not they should appeal to women (or at least be gender-neutral, as I explained in detail in my previous post) is just ludicrous.
Stop throwing this "42%" like it is a fact. It is a statistic brought up by one or two sources, a number that is hovering on it's own with no substantial backing, a figure that isn't felt in gaming culture or society because it fails to specify exactly what KIND of gaming these females are into - browswer flash games? iPhone games? I would believe that.

I can walk into E3 every year and see maybe <5-10% of the women there who are actually there for the games (booth babes don't count). On the topic of booth babes, where are the booth HUNKS? Oh wait, almost nobody would be interested in buying games from shirtless muscular men because jack-all female gamers turned up to the event!

I can walk into local cybercafe's at midnight and see maybe 1-2 girls out of 30+ guys who are there for an overnight session of LAN gaming. In my 6 years of WoW I haven't come across anywhere NEAR 42% females, saying that 4 million+ girls play WoW (it's got 10 million + subs so it's a fair sample) is unimaginable, unbelievable, it can't be felt and it can't be seen.
Stumbling across a female in Vent is a rarity. I dont' care if "they're too shy to speak up" or "don't want to identify themselves", that's their problem for being so hiding something they should be proud of. I can walk into a local gaming store like EB Games and see ~1 girl for every 6 guys. Gamer girls EXIST, but this "42%" figure is completely and utterly lacking any real impact.

What I probably CAN believe is that 42% of people playing Angry Birds on their iPhone are female, because I can simply look around the city and see that for myself.

I know you'll most likely reply "but women shouldn't have to prove anything, they don't have to prove they play games, they don't have to show their presence." Well if they to sit in the shadows and play in secret, that 42% means nothing. Absolutely nothing.
Guys don't have to show their presence either, so why do we do it? Why do we turn up to gaming expo's in huge roves, why do we rejoice in gaming culture, why do we have huge LAN fests, why are games were females are over-sexualized so WELCOME in the industry, why did Bayonetta, Lollipop Chainsaw and Dead or Alive: Beach Volleyball sell so many copies? Such games should be flops if 42% of gamers are girls and therefore aren't interested, or atleast we should've seen a MASSIVE backlash, correct? Why didn't it happen? Where is their presence, I ask for the thousanth' time?

Moonlight Butterfly said:
Are you seriously saying to me that I don't care about gaming.

Really

I guess I'm totally imagining my massive games collection and the fact it's been my major hobby for 26 years. Thanks for telling me I must have been delusional all that time! -.-
At no point in any of my posts have I said that female gamers don't exist, and I honestly have no clue how you deduced that from my post. My point was that while female gamers exist, they are in a minority as you get deeper in the gaming culture. Do you understand what "minority" means? It means people like you exist, but compared to guys there simply aren't very many of you. Certainly NOT 42%.

Read my reply to Lilani above - I am simply trying to show examples of why female gamers aren't considered a big part of the equation at the moment. Because their PRESENCE isn't being felt. While guys move out in roves and openly show their interesting in gaming, females aren't doing it. Again, their presence isn't being felt.
Trying to say "but 42% play games!" is just sounding like a blind statistic at this point and nothing more.



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Yes, the male majority absolutely plays a part in women being poorly represented in some games - but why should that be okay that they do that? The point of a lot of the discussion about it is that these male developers should have the wherewithal to try making good female characters instead of just throwing them in as eye candy or a damsel in distress. It is understandable if they do, in some cases more than others, but it isn't okay that they do. Every game developer and designer should be held to a higher standard than that.
And most of them do hold a higher standard than that. It's just some developers who resort to their own weird perceptions (or atleast what sells in the market) and base their games on that, if they are lacking creativity then throwing in some boobs is bound to grab attention. I'm saying that's alright as long as the MAJORITY of games don't become like that - and they aren't, it's just a handful of games which feminists are blowing on about (rightfully so).


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This is just plain offensive. Women have to prove to you their claims of being interested in games and gaming? This is the thing that most makes the community feel like a boy's club. "Hey girls, I guess you can come into our clubhouse, but first you have to prove to us boys, the leaders of gaming, that you like it how we think you should!"
Wrong. Wrong, wrong, wrong. Girls were always welcome to the clubhouse. They just choose not to show up, they're either too shy, embarrassed or whatever - the end result is that this "clubhouse" ends up getting filled with boys.
This is what I want to say: "Hey girls, you are WELCOME into the clubhouse (it's not OUR clubhouse, it's belongs to everyone) - so please come in and show us guys that we're NOT the leaders of gaming".

See my reply to the above two quotes to see what I mean because I hate having to type the same thing in response to everyone :p










I'll eat my own shoe if anyone convinces me that 42% of the people in the above photos are women.

Those photos were just randomly searched of gaming expos. This time I didn't show tournament winners (because the lack of females in that department is scary), this is just random gaming expos.
 

Moonlight Butterfly

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I think you are being dismissive of those statistics. I don't understand why it's such a hard thing for you to believe that so many women play video games. It's almost like you are offended by the suggestion.

You ever think maybe we don't go to cons and the like because they are geared towards men and have half naked booth babes everywhere. Also btw cons do not equal all the gamers in the world. The Sims 3 community is 90% women I assure you.

The fact is female gamers have to put up with oversexualisation in games otherwise we would only be able to play indie games wouldn't we? I mean hell even a point and click game I was playing has a 'sexy elf' in it. You can't get away from it.

I can't go to cons because I don't live anywhere near any. Maybe that's a fact for other female gamers.
 

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Moonlight Butterfly said:
Tippy said:
I think you are being dismissive of those statistics. I don't understand why it's such a hard thing for you to believe that so many women play video games. It's almost like you are offended by the suggestion.
Not offended. Simply unconvinced. I need to see it with my eyes. Since I haven't exactly traveled the world, I can only resort to photos, videos and my experiences. I can say "women are everywhere in the workplace" because I see and feel their presence. I can say "women are everywhere in sports!" because I see and feel their presence. I CAN'T say "women are everywhere in gaming" because...you guessed it, their presence is minor at best, no matter how hard I look for sources of their presence/influence in gaming, I can't find it. Not in game development roles, not in expos, events/tournaments, not in MMORPG's (from my experience). Again, they EXIST, I know because I've met a few, but certainly nowhere near 42%. That's nearly half of all gamers!

You ever think maybe we don't go to cons and the like because they are geared towards men and have half naked booth babes everywhere. Also btw cons do not equal all the gamers in the world.
Guess why they're geared towards men, honey? Because men turn up. Because men have always turned up, and will always turn up. The customer is king, the customer determines the trends, the hosts of the expo's only cater to the trends. They can't change it. Female gamers can, and choose not to. 42% is a huge number, definitely worth catering and selling products to - why on earth would the gaming industry shun such an opportunity to sell games? Why wouldn't corporations (their sole goal being to make money) sell to females if made up 42% of the gaming population?

The Sims 3 community is 90% women I assure you.
Perhaps. That's another floating statistic.

The fact is female gamers have to put up with oversexualisation in games otherwise we would only be able to play indie games wouldn't we?
Wait, what? There are heaps of AAA games where there is no oversexualisation, I would say the majority of them are fine. You don't have to restrict yourself to Indie games. I'll name some: Most Bioware games, Ubisoft games, DICE games, Crytek games, Activision/Blizzard games have no oversexualization. Granted some of them have an absesence of females, but atleast you don't run into sexed-up dolls around every corner do you? The majority of them are fine.

I can't go to cons because I don't live anywhere near any. Maybe that's a fact for other female gamers.
Meaningless because we're talking about the ratios and percentages. Women make up half the world, and in developed countries (where these events/expos happen) they occupy the same places and regions as men.
 

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I am part of a "clan/regiment" for a game called mount and blade, we get together on teamspeak a few times a week and we play mount and blade.
We have one girl in our group out of 20-something active members. She is a human of the opposite gender. When she first joined I thought: "right she's a girl" and then just acknowledged her like anyone else. She doesn't talk much, though I think that is more to do with her not generally saying anything until she starts yelling at us to do something.

There is no way in hell though that 42% of gamers that you would meet are women.

I think it could be 42% of gamers are girls, but they would likely prefer single player games and not Call of Duty, because due to genetics and stereotypes/gender roles (I'm not sure what the correct term is here) women are expected to be more docile and not like violent things.

I shouldn't need to say this, but some girls do enjoy Call of Duty, I do not know that I have met them, but it is almost certain they exist when you think about how many copies of Call of Duty are sold.

When someone mentioned how we should make a female orientated version of Dead or Alive: Volleyball I laughed, it just seems ridiculous, but the day that is a viable sort of game, I think sexism is all but abolished.

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It says Audi, then:
Desribe this brand with any words.
What the hell am I supposed to put, cars?
 

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Tippy said:
Moonlight Butterfly said:
Tippy said:
I think you are being dismissive of those statistics. I don't understand why it's such a hard thing for you to believe that so many women play video games. It's almost like you are offended by the suggestion.
Not offended. Simply unconvinced. I need to see it with my eyes. Since I haven't exactly traveled the world, I can only resort to photos, videos and my experiences. I can say "women are everywhere in the workplace" because I see and feel their presence. I can say "women are everywhere in sports!" because I see and feel their presence. I CAN'T say "women are everywhere in gaming" because...you guessed it, their presence is minor at best, no matter how hard I look for sources of their presence/influence in gaming, I can't find it. Not in game development roles, not in expos, events/tournaments, not in MMORPG's (from my experience). Again, they EXIST, I know because I've met a few, but certainly nowhere near 42%. That's nearly half of all gamers!
You do realise girl gamers hide?
Do you know what happens if I state my gender? Abuse happens.
I can say with 100% certainty that female gamers hide because I did it myself. Even now I will not `out` myself unless I know someone well, and I get annoyed when other people `out` me.
And I don't mean hide as in `never state your gender but make it pretty obvious`, I mean straight up fibbing about it.

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I've never gone to a con for several reasons
-Can't afford it. I'm living hand-to-mouth right now.
-Don't live anywhere near cons.
-A feeling of exclusion: I don't want attention for being a girl in a con, I'm extremely uncomfortable in crowds, and with the abuse I've recieved online, why would I want to go to a nerd gathering? I certainly wouldn't go alone.
Can you not see at all why a female person would feel uncomfortable at a con?

Captcha- think twice
 

Moonlight Butterfly

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Don't call me honey it's patronizing.

It's a self perpetuating problem if game devs don't feel that turning women away is an issue.
I spent a lot of money on games last month. Do they not want that money?

I have been part of The Sims 3 community for years and I assure you the majority of players are women.

Most AAA games have a lack of female characters and oversexualisation. Crysis 2 wouldn't even be that different if you had a choice of male and female protagonist right? There are no women in COD. Female characters in the WOW universe are often portrayed in skimpy clothing.
I'm pretty sure you guys don't realise how much everything is geared towards you and how much that can effect female gamers.

Again it's this issue of a self perpetuating problem. If they made things more welcoming for both sexes perhaps they would see an equal turnout.