I'm not a theologist. I'm just a simple Christian woman. Being a Christian means being a follower of Christ. Christ treated all people with kindness, no matter who they were or what they had done. He would sit at the tables of some of the most abhorred men like they were his next-door neighbors. He was perfect, and had a destiny that was fully revealed to him. I will never be perfect in this life, and I do not have my destiny laid plain before my eyes.
Christ told us in Luke 6:37-42 about the dangers of judging others and hypocracy. That doesn't mean I never do it, because of the above acknowledgement of imperfection, but I understand that to usurp God's right to judge will bring me only misery in the end. I do not know the future or have unlimited knowledge of the present and past, or have the ability to see into others' hearts and minds. I do not have the right to judge them. Because I believe that only God has that power, I believe that only God has that right.
Do I know exactly what happens after someone dies? Not even the angels have the full knowledge of God's plans (Mark 13:32). I can't know what exactly is going to happen to someone after they die; I can't know their destinations. People that have knowledge of Christianity and reject it are the ones that I grieve for; my religion has clearly laid out what happens to them. But even then, I can't be sure that that's exactly what's going to happen. I just don't know, and I never will be certain.
Being a follower of Christ is about following his example. Would Jesus scream "You're going to hell!" to a homosexual and spraypaint ******! on their garage door? Certainly not. Would he stand a soldier's funeral carrying a sign saying the dead soldier is going to hell? Never.
Matthew 22:34-40 and Mark 12:28-34 tell of the greatest commandment. It was the first of ten handed down from God to Moses. It is restated by Christ though in such a way as to define it precisely. To say that "you shall have no other gods but ME" is a good start and then to say "Love the Lord your God with all your heart, soul, mind, and strength" really lays it out. If you are doing the latter, there is no more room to have something else come before God. The second Jesus gave after it: "Love thy neighbor as thyself. All the Law and the Prophets hang on these two commandments." In Mark, the person whom Jesus is speaking to replies as he realizes that doing these two things are "more important that all burnt offerings and sacrifices." And Jesus gives him the figurative "thumbs-up," that's he's got it right. And if you do these two things, you have done it right. You aren't perfect and you will stumble and fall, but in the end you know the reward will be great.
After Jesus rose from the dead he gave us the Great Commission (as found in Mark 16, Luke 24, John 20, and Acts 1): "go into all the world and preach the Good News to all creation." I have a God-given directive to tell you of the Good News: Jesus Christ rose from the dead and those that believe in Him will be saved. That's all. My job is done. If you choose to believe, then my heart rejoices for you. If you choose not to believe, there is nothing I can do about that, and my heart grieves for you. But even if you don't believe, I'll still play with you, go to movies with you, and have dinner with you. Just don't expect me to behave any differently around you. I'll still pray before I eat. I'm not going to make a big deal about it, but if my eyes close and my head drops a bit, you can assume I'm not (just) inhaling the aroma of my steak.
I'm sorry that there are Christians out there that give Christians like me a bad name. But sometimes others forget that Christians are people too. We have bad days. We have addictions, sometimes. We get road rage. The difference is that we feel badly for having behaved in such a way and try to do better because we believe there's a reason to BE better. Sometimes we even need a swift kick in the pants to see that we've been wrong. We're people just like you.
The best part about being a Christian is that it costs me virtually nothing. There's a psychologial or theologial principle whose name escapes me, but the point of it is, what does it cost me in the long run to believe? I behave in a way that is prosocietal and as a reward I get everlasting happiness. If there IS no god and I behave in a way that is prosocietal and am happy because I have been a good person, am guilt free, and am content and there IS no afterlife in heaven, what did it cost me? I died happy. I had a good life, living for something I believed in that made me a better person. What do people really want out of life? Generally, it's happiness. And some say that money, drugs, or sex will get you that. Money can make living easy, but it doesn't make you happy. Drugs and sex can feel good, but the happiness doesn't last. To be happy, you have to LIVE. You have to work at living. Believing in God makes me happy. It makes me want to live, to better myself. Some people say they don't need God to do that, and maybe they don't. But I believe that everyone needs God for one reason or another. But I'm only me, I don't know what your reason would be. But even if the only reason you needed God now was to have a perfect afterlife later, isn't that reason enough?
Christians believe that the reason why we need God is that sin or doing wrong stains our eternal soul. It makes us unworthy of being in the presence of perfection aka God. Before the coming of Jesus, the Jewish people believed that blood sacrifice was the only way to make that sin go away. Jesus came, died, and rose from the dead so that we would never have to kill goats, calves, and doves ever again to be perfect before God because he gave the ultimate sacrifice for us. Belief that Christ DID THAT is what makes us clean and worthy of God's presence and grace. If you ask me, havering on about whether dudes are doing dudes and chicks are doing chicks is a mite insignificant after that.
You know, there's even a 3-step program to becoming a Christian. It's pretty streamlined. First, you have to admit that you do bad things of your own free will. Pretty easy. This next one is harder. You have to believe that Christ came, died, and rose from the dead. Considering that this goes against everything we believe about the natural world, I understand why some people have trouble with that. The last part brings the first two together. If you can get to step two, then step three is a little easier. All you do is say, I do bad things and I'm sorry. I want a place in heaven. Will you save my eternal soul and in return I will let you run things down here for me? Considering that God is perfect, it's got to be pretty handy having someone that knows the itenerary running the show. Really, the hardest part about becomming a Christian is getting over step two. That's called faith, now. The thing is, it didn't have to be taken on faith two thousand years ago. There were witnesses. Hundreds of people. (1 Corinthians 15, Matthew 28, Mark 16, Luke 24, John 20, Acts 1)
Christianity is a choice. For some people it's easy, for some people it's impossible. And it's got its hangups like every other religion in the world. An imperfect man has been meddling in the perfect plan of God and having arguments about what belongs in the manual and what doesn't. But Christianity really isn't about that stuff. Christ asked it of people two thousand years ago and he asks it of us now: Follow me. He taught me everything I needed to know. One, believe - not hard, Jews have been doing it for a few millenia. And two, behave - theoretically not hard, there's only two rules anymore.
I know this opens me up to a whole lot of scorn. But I'm not doing this because I expect or even want a reply, positive or negative, of any kind. People ask all kinds of silly questions about Christianity that don't even really matter. What matters is what's above. And a whole lot of these silly questions would be answered if some people would pick up the manual and READ it. I don't know if they're afraid they'll burst into flames or it'll plant some horrible idea in their minds that they have to be nice. Even I haven't read the entire bible fron beginning to end (yet) but I'm getting there. Let me answer a quick few with my paltry knowledge. YES God killed everyone but Noah and his family. Why? Because in Genesis 6:12 it says "God saw how corrupt the world had become, for ALL the people on earth had corrupted their ways." He wasn't killing innocents. Everyone was guilty. Did God kill everyone from Sodom and Gomorrah? YES, and why? Because in Genesis 18, starting at verse 16, Abraham pleaded with God to spare them if he could find even ten righteous people there. God sent two angels and they found Lot and his family (a wife and two daughters). Four people were led away, and three were saved, because Lot's wife turned back to watch the destruction and "became a pillar of salt," aka died. All you had to do was read the very first part of the bible.
A few more important things get set out in the second half of Exodus and most of Leviticus. The old laws. Alright. Really. How many laws are there in all the United States? Moses just hauled thousands of people out of slavery and now they are free. They needed a government. They needed rules and laws. God set out the basic ten laws, and then proceeds into the details. We have something like that called the Constitution and Bill of Rights and Ammendments. Except our Constitution has a little more in it than the Ten Commandments do. God wasn't laying down the details for people several thousand years later. Moses might have been raised as the son of a Pharoah, but that doesn't mean he knew squat about being one. They needed a leader and some guidlines right away. God made a bunch of disposessed slaves into a nation. Nations need laws. When Christ came later, he reaffirmed the first law, and then said, really, you don't need the rest so long as you do this other one, because all the rest come from it. Because he knew with his death and resurrection, that a lot of the rest would be unnecessary.
Before everyone keeps running with silly questions, pick up a "Quest Study Bible" and read it. It answers common and sensible questions in the margins. The NIV (new international version) is a decent translation and it's the version for the Quest Study Bible, and HCSB (Holman Christian Standard Bible) is good, too. KJV (King James version) makes my head hurt and beginners should steer clear. Start in Genesis and get through Exodus. Then skip a bit and either pick it back up in Joshua (and read Numbers if you have to, it's a bit of a jump) or go from there to the New Testament and read on until the end, even Revelations. Leave Psalms for the very last, it's long.
I'm sorry I've havered on, I don't think I've ever created a wall of text quite this bad before, but I tend to post like this when I have something to say. These threads suffer from the worst kind of ignorance. Please read up on something you don't understand. You don't have to say anything back whether you like it or think the worst kind of drivel is seeping out of my brain. Just think on it. Thanks.