EVE was fun for me for a couple months. I started out waning to be a trader and eventually took alot of PvP skills for self preservation purposes. My biggest eye opener came 10-12 days in, I had a shiny new terrible transport ship, and was running some NPC goods. I figure 1 jump through low sec cant be that bad, so I go through. As soon as I hit Low Sec im dead before everything finishes loading, podded, and had to literally start from scratch with nothing left money wise.
I played for another 2-3 months. After deciding to never enter low-sec again, I got in a corp/alliance working on their first low sec player station. Most of us were very noobish, very very few with over 1 year old characters. I started reaizing EVE wasnt the game for me while working in low sec. More numbers = win, unless theres one 3-4 year pvp player then you're just doomed.
I figured PvP would be fun, but it ammounted to nothing more than gathering the biggest squad you can and demolishing people who dont stand a chance. And finally, seeing an old player in a ship you could never touch, at all, wipe out most of what you worked 2 months for with absolutely no recourse other than "sorry, start over" just wasnt appealing. "If you cant afford to lose it dont fly it". The only way to play is to automatically assume what you are flying at the time is already gone. Always remember if you're flying the best thing you can, theres someone going to kill you, and he has 100x the resources and 100x the money making power as you, so he risks nothing to make you lose everything. If he loses a ship, he loses maybe 5 hours of gathering up a new one.
I spent the last 2 weeks trying to get back into the trading game, this time trading player comodities almost all in high sec space. On my last day hauling a measly 1M isk worth of goods through high sec space, I got jumped and killed/podded by a group of some alts with nothing to lose and more than enough firepower to kill me before the "police" showed up. I turned the game off with 2 weeks left on my subscription, and never looked back. Its one thing to have risk vs reward. This game is so heavy on risk, and the rewards are tilted heavily in the favor of those who already have the resources to trivialize any risk. This makes it very very difficult for a new player to get a foothold in the game world, especially as any non-combat oriented play.