Asking a girl out

[thebrainiac1]

Use this line...

Do you have an inhaler? Cause you got ASS-MA

I think he wants a date, not a slap.

 

[Bretty]

Ignore her... then when she asks why, which she will if she likes you, tell her that you would have liked to go out with her but just got nervous about asking.

 

[Whitefeather]

Woot, freshman FTW. Make sure to tell me how it goes, I may be using some of these techniques. (most notabley flaming cats XD)

 

[Manbro]

Doesn't have to be overly complex or anything like that. Just simply ask her out. One of the things I hate about cliche Hollywood films is that a lot of the time they depict asking a girl out as a massively time consuming thing; that it takes weeks upon weeks of sexual frustration and awkwardness before you two find yourselves in an increidibly comprimising position (ie she comically falls on top of you in Karate or something like that) before you can ask her out. It's not true. If you like her and if she likes you then something like "Wanna go to the movies sometime?" is going to work. Most girls will give a guy at least one chance, just don't screw up that chance.

Oh, btw I know there may be some hesitiation at first because you don't want to ruin your friendship or you just don't want to stuff up your chance with this girl but you just need to have a go. At the end of it all it's always the stuff you didn't do you regret the most, rather than the stuff you did.

 

[scrambledeggs]

"Do you wanna go to the movies?"

Has that ever worked? Always failed me. Had much more success phrasing it like this "We should get together sometime and catch a movie(or grab a bite to eat). After you ask, try to read her body language, if she seems like she doesn't want to(diverts eye contact, turns her head, seems hesitant) then its probably best to just leave it at that. You'll definitely now if shes interested though.

heh rejection only makes you stronger!

It's worked for me countless times. Girls never don't want me.

 

[inflamessoilwork]

Yeah yeah another one of those threads.....
Ok so I'm a freshmen, almost 15 and have never asked out a girl unlike most people I know.
So there is a very attractive girl in many of my classes who I would like to ask out. I however am unsure how to do so, where to ask out to etcetera, being a total (excuse the term) noob in the area.
The girl is someone I've known for a while, has been talking to me more recently.
So my question to you, escapists, is what should I do? (Besides the cliche just talk to her)
EDIT: Just btw, I'm well known as a huge nerd...I can tell the difference between an Asuran and an Alteran (Stargate nerd) and the ins and outs of every bit of world of warcraft and she is a really smart, decently popular person.
EDIT 2: Oh and BTW she is a twin and someone I know dates her twin

I have always found movies to be a bit awkward, due to lack of being able to talk with that person. If you wanted something intimate go with dinner. However if you want to try something more fun, go for things like minigolf, bowling, etc.

 

[dantheman931]

write a note saying "do you like me?" with 2 "y"s at the bottom YOU CANT BE TURNED DOWN.

I'd like to point out that paper is flammable. Yikes.

 

[Woem]

EDIT: Just btw, I'm well known as a huge nerd...I can tell the difference between an Asuran and an Alteran (Stargate nerd) and the ins and outs of every bit of world of warcraft and she is a really smart, decently popular person.
EDIT 2: Oh and BTW she is a twin and someone I know dates her twin

These two edits will save your life. One thing that binds you is that you are both really smart. So there should probably be a couple of topics that you have in common. Do you know of any? And if you know someone that dates her sister, try going out on a double date. You might start out with something fun and innocent like going out bowling or going to the movies.

 

[Callex]

I didn't even bother asking my current girlfriend out... I figured I'd just 'go with the flow' and see what happens.

We ended up making out before I'd even asked her.

Although, the patient route only really works if there's no competing guys around.

 

[Stalk3rchief]

If you don't know her, it won't work.
lol
You need to at least be on speaking terms with her. And!
If you can make her laugh, that's gold.
Other than that, just suck it up and ask her in whatever seems best to you. Don't be nervous, women love confidence.

 

[axia777]

How long have you known her? If it is a short time take some more time to try and get to know her. It is has been a while take a shower, brush your teeth, wear some nice clothes, have confidence in yourself and then just ask her out. If she says no then no harm no foul. Every guy gets turned down some time or another. But pick up lines and that BS are just stupid. Just be open and honest with her.

 

[inhuMANATEE]

This advice works everytime. Be a man dammit

 

[Stalk3rchief]

Two words: flaming cats.

Seriously, just unleash a bunch of flaming cats into her home, then stroll in wearing a long black robe holding a torch and scream "MY HEARTS BURNS FOR YOU!"

If she doesn't strip down right then and there like some... I don't even know what, we're in a whole different realm of what the fuck right here, but think about it: you have to find a bunch of cats. That takes commitment. You have to set them on fire. That takes desire. And gasoline, which in this economy shows you have money and can support her. And the robe, well, that shows that you have no fashion sense so she has something she can work towards fixing.

You are just a broken soul, and she is the fire extinguisher to the flaming cats that are your love for her.

I want to track you down and hug you. That was probably the best post I've ever read on here.
o.o

 

[Gaias]

This advice works everytime. Be a man dammit

Exactly. The problem is that you are 'asking'. These predators can smell hesitation and indecisiveness, never let them see you sweat. Change your tone from the classic line; "Do you want to go for some coffee?" to "You know what, lets go get some coffee".

 

[riskroWe]

Don't date girls, go graffiti and take drugs. That's what being young is supposed to be about!
In fact, ask her if she wants to go graffiti and take drugs with you. You can't lose.

 

[default]

Hmmm well, I'm 16. I've never asked a girl out, nor had a girlfriend.
You know why? I get waaaaaaay more attention otherwise.

Why just have one person you can hug and kiss, when you can walk down a corridor and have five girls jumping on you?
I know this sounds reaaaaaaaaally arrogant, and I'm sorry for that, but I've never really been one for relationships.
I think I'm too quiet... although some of the girls do like that.