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Nimcha

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Talal Provides said:
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Talal Provides said:
Most people are at least a little bi. People who are 100% straight/gay are very, very rare.
I'm curious what you mean by this, could you elaborate? I'm not sure I agree with this but if you explain it in greater detail I may concur.
http://www.kinseyinstitute.org/research/ak-hhscale.html
That doesn't really say people being on the extreme ends of the spectrum are rare... Or I missed something.
 

Katherine Kerensky

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Rasputin1 said:
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I'm curious; do they fill it well?
Well enough. I feel I am better off for my lack of sexual urges, and linked lack of sexual thought.
Means I can use a blank stare in any occasion. Makes things fun, I suppose. I can make people uncomfortable :D
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Huh. Never heard of it. Although I've thought about the idea before.
There are a few other nonsexuals on here, although there are also a lot who just say "Pah! Who needs sex!" and call themselves nonsexual, without fitting the correct criteria >.>
 

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I thought I was bi for a while. But then I guess I just forgot about the "sexual" part. And all my ambivalence came from me thinkng that a guy who looks like a greek god looked good and was charming. Take that however you want, but I do not want to have sex with men, (any kind) so I'm not bi "sexual".
I have nothing against people who are. According to me love is just a small, tiny part of life, and fussing about who is dating who is really REALLY missing the bigger picture. Who you want to have sex with isn't what defines you as a person.
 

Vryyk

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Talal Provides said:
Vryyk said:
Talal Provides said:
Most people are at least a little bi. People who are 100% straight/gay are very, very rare.
I'm curious what you mean by this, could you elaborate? I'm not sure I agree with this but if you explain it in greater detail I may concur.
http://www.kinseyinstitute.org/research/ak-hhscale.html
I asked you to explain it, if you really understand what you're talking about a short summary shouldn't be hard. I'm not very intelligent, all those fancy graphin's and what-not hurt my head.
 

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I'm practically a bisexual. I prefer guys in every way but I don't mind women. I believe that every one is at least a bi bisexual simply because every single straight person I've ever known has done far gayer things then me.

So that's one point from experience.

Historically the very infrastructure of some cultures would even be built around bi sexuality. Two good examples are Greece and Japan.

And that's one point from fact.
 

Rusman

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I am Bi-sexual so I think it's pretty good. And no it's not because I am greedy I just think both men and women can be attractive and I quite enjoy both relationships and sexual experiences with both genders.
 

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Talal Provides said:
Most people are at least a little bi. People who are 100% straight/gay are very, very rare.
I must be a rare kind then. I have zero romantic/sexual feelings towards men.
 

Talal Provides

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Vryyk said:
Talal Provides said:
Vryyk said:
Talal Provides said:
Most people are at least a little bi. People who are 100% straight/gay are very, very rare.
I'm curious what you mean by this, could you elaborate? I'm not sure I agree with this but if you explain it in greater detail I may concur.
http://www.kinseyinstitute.org/research/ak-hhscale.html
I asked you to explain it, if you really understand what you're talking about a short summary shouldn't be hard. I'm not very intelligent, all those fancy graphin's and what-not hurt my head.
Human sexuality isn't just either, or or both. It's a gradual scale, with totally straight and totally gay on either ends, and 5 steps in between, based on how strong your sexual attraction is to either gender. Most people are between the absolutes, even if it's something as minor as a man who has no real sexual interest in other men seeing a guy and finding him to be handsome. If someone is exclusively straight, they would find other men to be repellent.
 

Jorias

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Greyfox105 said:
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Nonsexual? You don't get any urges at all?
Indeed, that is so.
It doesn't mean that life is grey, just that there is one "major" part missing... a void. A void that I fill with videogames, reading, animé, spending time with friends, etc.
One of my good friends is like this from what i can tell. Has a few friends, hides in his room and plays video games, and reads anime off of crunchy roll. Doesn't have a gf or a bf of any kind and seems to be socially disconnected from any form of sexual interaction what so ever with anyone or anything.....matter of fact that person could be you since he does read escapist articles as well.....

So yes it is possible to be non-sexual...

P.S. i don't think i saw anyone mention George Allen Reckers (or however u spell it). Prime example of everyone being a "little" bi...
 

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Bi-sexuality is not a phase, as some would think.
It's not a stop in the road before being gay or straight, it is just as valid a choice as either of the previous two.
 

LadyRhian

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On the Kinsey scale. I'm a 1. Almost completely heterosexual, but with incidental homosexual attractions. Once I saw a large-bosomed lady and wondered what it would feel like to lay my head on her chest. And that's pretty much it. I've seen porn movies with the obligatory "Girls with their head in each other's muff" scene, and they do nothing for me. Actually, neither did the rest of the movie, because most porn is damn unsexy, being "In. Out. Repeat eight or nine times, change to the next position, rinse and repeat. Then the male pulls out and jerks off on the woman." Not sexy. At all.
 

Katherine Kerensky

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Jorias said:
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One of my good friends is like this from what i can tell. Has a few friends, hides in his room and plays video games, and reads anime off of crunchy roll. Doesn't have a gf or a bf of any kind and seems to be socially disconnected from any form of sexual interaction what so ever with anyone or anything.....matter of fact that person could be you since he does read escapist articles as well.....

So yes it is possible to be non-sexual...
Well, it could have been me, apart from the part where you identified him as male.
And I'm in a relationship >.>
Just because I'm nonsexual, doesn't mean I can't be in love >.>
Some people just assume that to be impossible because of being nonsexual >.<
 

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I'm bisexual. In practice, for me that generally means twice the rejection, but twice the amount of porn I can enjoy. Have never had a partner of either gender, but my right hand gets one hell of a workout. I often fear that, as Yahtzee once said, i'd look like a wonky Popeye.
 

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I am attracted to girls for the most part, but there are some feminine looking dudes I wouldn't mind, ahem. . . "experimenting" with (I'm topping!). But males that I'm attracted to are few and far in between.
 

Vryyk

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Talal Provides said:
Vryyk said:
Talal Provides said:
Vryyk said:
Talal Provides said:
Most people are at least a little bi. People who are 100% straight/gay are very, very rare.
I'm curious what you mean by this, could you elaborate? I'm not sure I agree with this but if you explain it in greater detail I may concur.
http://www.kinseyinstitute.org/research/ak-hhscale.html
I asked you to explain it, if you really understand what you're talking about a short summary shouldn't be hard. I'm not very intelligent, all those fancy graphin's and what-not hurt my head.
Human sexuality isn't just either, or or both. It's a gradual scale, with totally straight and totally gay on either ends, and 5 steps in between, based on how strong your sexual attraction is to either gender. Most people are between the absolutes, even if it's something as minor as a man who has no real sexual interest in other men seeing a guy and finding him to be handsome. If someone is exclusively straight, they would find other men to be repellent.
All right, I suppose that makes sense. In a practical sense though I'd say most people are "straight", but I can see what Kinsley was getting at here. I wouldn't really say I have an attraction to males, but I can tell if a guy is good looking or not.
 

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Lambi said:
I don't have any trouble with bisexuals. I myself am pansexual (it means that I am able to love and date anyone and everyone, from your typical males and females, to TS', to...just about everyone), and I was bisexual before that. I believe that everyone is at least a bit bi. Some people just haven't realized it.
You and me both

And anyone who think that because someone is bi or anything else that they are more likely to cheat can suck it, they are no more likely to cheat than your average straight or gay person, and its a shitty stereotype to have and I wish it would just die. (/rant)


Sorry, I know that seemed a bit impassioned, but I really hate when people say that, it annoys me to no end.
 

Byere

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Being pansexual myself, I have to agree with a LOT of people on this thread. It's not always a choice, and the times it is shouldn't be classed as greedy. While it's true I still find women attractive, I prefer guys. No offence ladies, but much of the time men are just easier to deal with (though not always as easy on the eyes :p).