I'm Bi and i'm not greedy, but i'll tell ya, IT GODDAMN ROCKS! although i must say i find that sometimes it annoys me that jocks think that girl on girl is hot, but guy on guy is just wrong thats pisses the fuck off.
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Well since the thread creator no longer say what the thread is about I am unable to reply.
I have no problem with any kind of sexuality, being an atheist I'm open-minded and tolerant =) It's not wrong, greedy or against nature since it occurs among other animals too.
Seeing how some says "it's not greedy" I'll assume that was what the thread maker argued about, so I say it's not greedy because you cannot choose which gender you like.
I have no problem with any kind of sexuality, being an atheist I'm open-minded and tolerant =) It's not wrong, greedy or against nature since it occurs among other animals too.
Seeing how some says "it's not greedy" I'll assume that was what the thread maker argued about, so I say it's not greedy because you cannot choose which gender you like.
Hi guys.
This is the only time I've ever felt compelled to respond to a thread here, mostly because a lot of the people who are on my side seem to be confusing the matter.
So hi. I'm Bi. I've been in relationships with both men and women. Men and Women are different. There are certain emotional aspects of dating women that I really enjoy, and certain emotional aspects of dating men that I really enjoy. Rather like a straight girl might enjoy the way a guy from North Carolina would treat her, and the way a guy from New York, or London would treat her (it's not a perfect analogy but it's really the closest I can get to describing this phenomena), some girls will hate the way New York boy acts or what he has to talk about, so even if he's incredibly attractive, she probably wouldn't pursue a relationship with him. That's fine.
Sex itself is neither here, nor there, and no one's business anyway, so suffice it to say that I wouldn't be open to both if I wasn't attracted to both.
As for "everyone being a little bi," I think the kinsey scale is more about what people have *done* rather than their actual sexuality. I know lots of straight people who have hooked up with people of the same sex, decided it wasn't for them but really are straight. they'd still technically be a "1" or a "2," but bi, they are not. I also know some gays that tried to pass as straight in high school, or or college, but then just came out. still based on "experience" they fall in the middle of the scale. But bi, they are not.
It's not a choice. Because if it was I wouldn't and lah di dah you've heard it before. But seriously, say you're bi to a straight guy, he thinks you're trying to impress him. Say you're bi to a Lesbian, she's wary OR thinks you're kidding yourself. It's a bit annoying.
I can't really get angry at the people who judge me. After all, we can only form opinions based on our own experiences - it's easier for a straight person to understand a gay person ("it's like me except instead of guys they're attracted to girls"), than a bisexual, ("it's like me... except... um. Both?"), because it's difficult to wrap your head around something so different from your own experience. This is also probably why a lot of bisexuals like to think that everyone is bi. Because it's just as difficult to imagine someone only enjoying the emotional and physical company of one gender when you can enjoy both. But I do think that people are straight and gay more than they are bi.
Also there aren't really many media role models for people familiarize themselves with. We have Torchwood, and. um. 13 from House :/
I wish I could single-handedly stop the bias. I can't, but I hope some of you can read this post, and feel a little more enlightened on the subject.
If you have any questions, I'd be more than happy to answer them (nothing rude, please) thank you for taking the time to read this.
This is the only time I've ever felt compelled to respond to a thread here, mostly because a lot of the people who are on my side seem to be confusing the matter.
So hi. I'm Bi. I've been in relationships with both men and women. Men and Women are different. There are certain emotional aspects of dating women that I really enjoy, and certain emotional aspects of dating men that I really enjoy. Rather like a straight girl might enjoy the way a guy from North Carolina would treat her, and the way a guy from New York, or London would treat her (it's not a perfect analogy but it's really the closest I can get to describing this phenomena), some girls will hate the way New York boy acts or what he has to talk about, so even if he's incredibly attractive, she probably wouldn't pursue a relationship with him. That's fine.
Sex itself is neither here, nor there, and no one's business anyway, so suffice it to say that I wouldn't be open to both if I wasn't attracted to both.
As for "everyone being a little bi," I think the kinsey scale is more about what people have *done* rather than their actual sexuality. I know lots of straight people who have hooked up with people of the same sex, decided it wasn't for them but really are straight. they'd still technically be a "1" or a "2," but bi, they are not. I also know some gays that tried to pass as straight in high school, or or college, but then just came out. still based on "experience" they fall in the middle of the scale. But bi, they are not.
It's not a choice. Because if it was I wouldn't and lah di dah you've heard it before. But seriously, say you're bi to a straight guy, he thinks you're trying to impress him. Say you're bi to a Lesbian, she's wary OR thinks you're kidding yourself. It's a bit annoying.
I can't really get angry at the people who judge me. After all, we can only form opinions based on our own experiences - it's easier for a straight person to understand a gay person ("it's like me except instead of guys they're attracted to girls"), than a bisexual, ("it's like me... except... um. Both?"), because it's difficult to wrap your head around something so different from your own experience. This is also probably why a lot of bisexuals like to think that everyone is bi. Because it's just as difficult to imagine someone only enjoying the emotional and physical company of one gender when you can enjoy both. But I do think that people are straight and gay more than they are bi.
Also there aren't really many media role models for people familiarize themselves with. We have Torchwood, and. um. 13 from House :/
I wish I could single-handedly stop the bias. I can't, but I hope some of you can read this post, and feel a little more enlightened on the subject.
If you have any questions, I'd be more than happy to answer them (nothing rude, please) thank you for taking the time to read this.
I've nevr had an attraction to another man :/ And whenever I see any two males kissing on the street I can't help but be a bit disgusted. Don't get me wrong, I have nothing against gay people. All these anti-gay laws are complete b/s and are relics of the past.
Don't know what all this talk of a completely straight male being rare are about...
Don't know what all this talk of a completely straight male being rare are about...
People saying that "everybody is a little bi" might want to start making compelling arguments instead of copy-pasting Kinseys report. His work is interesting and promotes debate but that´s about it. I´m straight, never felt attracted to a man and i dont feel like i belong in a museum.
On topic: Sexuality is not a choice, so there´s no greed involved in bi-sexuality.
On topic: Sexuality is not a choice, so there´s no greed involved in bi-sexuality.
Yeah, you've made a couple of good points. I'm very firmly straight (or at least as straight as you can be with the sex drive of a bloody panda), but have had same sex encounters. Nice as they were it just was not my thing.girlisanerd said:
A lot of people I know have told me they're bi, but very rarely do I see any evidence of it. It's like a status thing in my area. it's edgy.
Well, I say that. There's a line you can draw through my town, right down the train tracks (how I wish I was kidding) on one side being Bi is hunky dory, on the other, you'll get stabbed and have your kidney nicked.
I'd argue that there are 3 types of love; sexual, friendship and unconditional.treeboy027 said:
People of all sexual orientations can experience these 3 kinds of love, the only element that changes is who they feel sexual attraction towards.
Bisexual people can feel strong sexual, friendship or unconditional love towards either sex.
They annoy me. Well, the 16 year old girls who go "I'M BISEXUAL" because they got drunk and a girl kissed them on a cheek. They then proceed to go out with only guys and when you call them out on their bullshit they call you a "pervert who only wants to see girls kiss." If I want to do that I have the internet, and you're probably an ugly ***** anyway.
that doesn't really make sense.Talal Provides said:
also, I thought saying someone's sexuality is aberrant was a taboo around here.
Can you look at a man and recognize that he is handsome? Or do you look at a man and feel not just neutral, but turned off? People who are 100% heterosexual have trouble being aroused by hardcore pornography because the presence of a penis it repellent. I know you want to show how manly and not a fag you are, but saying "everyone is a little bi" is not the same as saying "everybody wants to have sex with both genders". Do you understand now?marcogodinho said:
I have no attraction to women. I've made out with women on a number of occasions just to see and I've felt nothing. I can appreciate when girls are good looking but I have no sexual desire for them, nor do I wish to be in a relationship with one.Talal Provides said:
Human sexuality doesn't suddenly change to suit the times. Just because the Kinsey scale exists doesn't make it definitive.
what about the sex? homosexual sex happens all the time in nature.treeboy027 said:
If your going to say that you think sex should only be for procreation well then your going to live a very miserable life.
Alright, fuck this thread, no matter how many times I explain it to people, they ignore it anyway to get all defensive.
Anything to say you're TOTALLY HETERO NO HOMO, right?
Anything to say you're TOTALLY HETERO NO HOMO, right?
Congratulations, you're 100% straight.Czargent Sane said:
I have never been attracted to the same sex, still only being capable of romantic/sexual feelings towards one single sex seems to me a bit shallow. It's likely that, as Talal mentioned early on, that a huge majority of the population really is at least a bit bi, but I'll add that maybe most people don't accept it and block out any bi/homosexual feelings due to social pressure or something without even noticing.
Woo! I'm rare!Talal Provides said:
OT: Depends if it's a woman or man.
Woman: HELL YEAH!
Man: .. Eh.
Bet you can't tell I'm a guy.