Bros Before Hos?

[googleit6]

Friends first, or romantic interests first?
The degree with which you like your romantic interest is up to you. If you are madly in love with them, would you ditch your friends for them? What if your friends had gotten tickets to that concert you had been DYING to go see, but it is your partner's birthday? Feel free to add your own past experiances/ original situations.

Discuss.

 

[Xpwn3ntial]

Friends first, even if they're of the opposite gender.
Friends will always be there if you want them to.

 

[Marter]

I'll always take friends over romantic interests, unless of course, they fall into both categories.

 

[Deofuta]

I'll always take friends over romantic interests, unless of course, they fall into both categories.

This pretty much. Although my love interests have always started out/ended as friends. So I dunno in that case.

 

[Quaxar]

Friends. Friendship probably lasts longer than relationships to be realistic

 

[TimeLord]

*Creates a time bubble with a kettle and some string*

If I had the perfect partner then they would come first. All my friends are tools

 

[Treefingers]

Well, if it's say, a partner who you've been with for several years... he/she should come first imo.

 

[sunburst]

If you're dating someone and you honestly consider ditching them on their birthday, no matter how much you want to see that concert or whatever, that relationship is unlikely to last very long. If I like a girl enough to actually date her, she tends to come first as long as it doesn't derail prior plans with friends or completely cut me off from them. My friends will always be there for me. Relationships require more work.

 

[Gigaguy64]

Friends first sometimes.

Relationships can be tricky but, if you find a true Bro, that friendship it can last a lifetime.
And if my partner cant respect my friendships then id start to question our relationship.

But also friends need to respect the relationship you are in with your partner and be understanding if you put that relationship first.

 

[Armored Prayer]

Friends first, then romantic interest.

But I also like to add family first. After all your family is the closest thing to you.

 

[Ossian]

Friends can always wait, they understand why since they have been throuigh the same thing. New romantic interests might not understand if you cancel a date. Besides, real friends want what would be in your best interests.

 

[lSHaDoW-FoXl]

Neither. If my friends have a problem with my Boyfriend/Girlfriend then I'd be disappointed in them. If my girlfriend/boyfriend has a problem with my friends then I'd be disappointed in her.
Overall, I'd try and fix the dispute the best I can and if friends wish to leave me just because I don't want to pick my friends or my love life over the other then I guess I'd stick with the person that stays.

Then again I'm a person that doesn't really care too much for relationships.

 

[ladyredcap]

What if you and your love interest were in the same group of friends?

 

[PurpleSky]

lead the way joseph ducreux:

 

[Redlin5_v1legacy]

Friends first, girls second. If the girl likes me for who I am, she'll recognize that me and my friends need our time just as I recognize she and her friends need time together. Its finding a balance that is hard.

 

[photog212]

If you have to choose, chances are you're surrounded by ass-hats.

 

[oppp7]

If I was to get a girlfriend, she'd probably be my best friend anyways, so the question is invalid for me.

 

[esperandote]

Only if the friend has deep feelings for the person and i dont, otherwise i would try to talk to the friend.

 

[Billion Backs]

My "bros" are girls, for the most part.

With that out of the way, everything should be decided on case by case basis.

 

[Dr. wonderful]

Bros damn it,

It's a constiution:

http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=bro%20code