hanselthecaretaker said:
Zhukov said:
hanselthecaretaker said:
Not to mention it?s pretty useless.
Speaking as someone who has had to call the cops to intervene in a domestic violence situation, that's a pile of sloppy, steaming bullshit.
It must not have been that serious then. If someone is posing an immediate threat to your life, having viables means of self defense, whether through training or a weapon, will
always trump waiting for the cops to show up. Most often they?d arrive ?just in time? to investigate the damage that?s already been done, unless you?re incredibly lucky to have one driving by at the time.
Alrighty.
Before we continue, I have to ask, what is your experience in matters of self defense and violence, domestic or otherwise?
I realise that's a potentially very personal and sensitive question even on an anonymous forum, so if you don't wish to answer for any reason then say so and I'll drop it immediately.
For my part, I have witnessed multiple instances of domestic violence of varying degrees of severity, against family members, friends, housemates and complete strangers. In those instances where I was able I intervened, verbally, physically and by contacting the cops. I have several years of combative and self-defense training, predominantly of the unarmed variety, and I have had to employ that training roughly a dozen times (depends on what exactly counts, some incidents were defused just by verbal warnings and making it clear I knew what I was doing).
In short, I know all too fucking well what I'm talking about and I cannot but take exception to statements like "it must not have been that serious then".
Lastly, in any kind of violent situation in which you are trying to stay safe the first and best option is to flee if at all possible. It isn't sexy, it won't feed your ego, it doesn't make you look like a badass and it won't give you a fun story to tell, but it is 100% the pragmatic course of action.