Wow hun, I suggest blood tests before you commit, but damn... I'm no virgin, but I don't forget my trust friends RUBBER AND PILLZ.
Dear Escapist, I F*cked up.
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Psychic vampirism at it's finest. It sounds to me like she's trying to trap you. Don't let her get away with lying to you like that. This may very well ruin your life, so don't fuck around. Go get a paternity test. Then go from there.
You have my sympathies, pal. Really. But also, try to keep it in your pants. Any 'nice' girl who spreads her legs that quickly should immediately signal a huge, bright red warning flag.
You have my sympathies, pal. Really. But also, try to keep it in your pants. Any 'nice' girl who spreads her legs that quickly should immediately signal a huge, bright red warning flag.
If she purposely went off the pill, and then broke up, I don't think you should have responsibility for that. I mean, it was half your fault, you should have worn a condom, but it was her choice. If she won't abort or adopt, I'd just tell her to fuck off and do her own thing.
Dangerous question... but have you talked to *her* parents? Assuming they're hoping their little angel goes off to college / uni and gets a nice degree they presumably wont be overly chuffed - much as it'd be a harsh conversation for you they'll probably make it harsher for her.
Oh, and the other plan is simply to get back together with her but insist that she has to find a way to abort if she wants to be with you (because you want to be able to trust her and to willingly make a baby together later). Then, when you've cleared that up tell her to hit the road because you don't trust her for being a scheming lunatic ho.
Oh, and the other plan is simply to get back together with her but insist that she has to find a way to abort if she wants to be with you (because you want to be able to trust her and to willingly make a baby together later). Then, when you've cleared that up tell her to hit the road because you don't trust her for being a scheming lunatic ho.
Someone earlier suggested you plead your case in front of a judge, claiming you are both not ready to raise a child. I think this is actually a good option.Ruzzian Roulette said:
But seriously what kind of a person purposely goes off birth control just to get knocked up.
Hopefully the kid isn't yours!
Unprotected sex is a big no-no if you don't think you are ready for fatherhood. I'm sorry but to tell the blunt truth: You brought this on yourself. Sure you can be angry at the girl and sure you can convince yourself that she tricked you but who decided to have sex?
It was you.
I hope you can move on without doing anything drastic. Slow down and think. Oh and don't listen to some of the more radical ideas this thread will certainly produce.
It was you.
I hope you can move on without doing anything drastic. Slow down and think. Oh and don't listen to some of the more radical ideas this thread will certainly produce.
Lesson be learned, always wrap it, even if she's got PEELZ HERE!!
If there's any shadow of a doubt that it might not be yours, there's tests for that. Otherwise, be a man about it, it's a sucky situation, and it somewhat seems like she trapped you, though if you still have feelings for her, then I guess things will turn out ok then, right?
If there's any shadow of a doubt that it might not be yours, there's tests for that. Otherwise, be a man about it, it's a sucky situation, and it somewhat seems like she trapped you, though if you still have feelings for her, then I guess things will turn out ok then, right?
Well if her parents don't believe in abortion, or she wants it (which she appearntly does), than all I have to say is, CONGRATULATIONS! YOUR GOING TO BE A FATHER! THE REST OF YOUR LIFE WILL EITHER BE SPENT AS A HAPPY FAMILY, or a divorced couple who care nothing for the child and want to make the other miserable. So basicly your either stuck with the two of them/paying wellfare for the rest of your days, or your off the hook, hope it's the latter.
EDIT: If you don't want the kid just tell the mother-to-be how bad labour is. It's basicly shoving something the size of a watermelon out a piece of rubber with a hole roughly the size of a grape, with lots and lots of pain, drugs, screaming, crying and panic.
EDIT: If you don't want the kid just tell the mother-to-be how bad labour is. It's basicly shoving something the size of a watermelon out a piece of rubber with a hole roughly the size of a grape, with lots and lots of pain, drugs, screaming, crying and panic.
With only a 20% failure rate and it cannot be your body tempeture for long periods of time with a whole list of do-not's.TheTim said:
Listen bud, do not convince her to abort cause simply, it is not the fetus' fault. She 'forgot' to take her pills so it is crystal clear that she is the problematic member of the trio.
I do not know how else I am supposed to tell you this but if you fucked up, you have to live with it. You are gonna be a dad. This is a real fast forward for anyone but again, that kid will be your responsibility when it hits the hospital blanket. Even though she made a huuuuuge mistake, you can't just leave her with a fucking baby.
Also, a thing that most people here said, we are not the best guys to address as a whole. You can make that out from the majority of posts that have no purpose except to make a joke out of the situation. Talk to someone you trust cause frankly, we are mostly nerds and AS nerds, we tend to suck at this kind of topics.
Yell at her, make her understand whose fault it is but do not bail on her and do not abort. The right thing is almost never the easy thing to do.
I do not know how else I am supposed to tell you this but if you fucked up, you have to live with it. You are gonna be a dad. This is a real fast forward for anyone but again, that kid will be your responsibility when it hits the hospital blanket. Even though she made a huuuuuge mistake, you can't just leave her with a fucking baby.
Also, a thing that most people here said, we are not the best guys to address as a whole. You can make that out from the majority of posts that have no purpose except to make a joke out of the situation. Talk to someone you trust cause frankly, we are mostly nerds and AS nerds, we tend to suck at this kind of topics.
Yell at her, make her understand whose fault it is but do not bail on her and do not abort. The right thing is almost never the easy thing to do.
Well it sounds like you just set your self up to be a daddy for the rest of your life!
(at least until they're 17,then you can tell he/she to GTFO)
NOTE:Get to know the person your with very well before you start doing anything foolish
(at least until they're 17,then you can tell he/she to GTFO)
NOTE:Get to know the person your with very well before you start doing anything foolish
In all seriousness mate, focus on the main objective, bringing a life into this world. Do NOT let anything thing else come between that. You must stay focused and just live one day at a time.
Kia Kaha and stay strong man.
-JB
Kia Kaha and stay strong man.
-JB