Depressed

[ideitbawx]

I go out often and i do work out but the thing that get's me is why why do anything

you're here. why not do something? even if it won't last forever, fuck it, just enjoy the moment and appreciate what you have. if you don't like what you got, why don't you change it?

Drink booze, lots of booze.

you, are an idiot. you might as well tell him to take up a trendy coke habit. we might get a laugh out of it sitting on the sidelines, watching him plummet into a downward spiral, but that ain't gonna help him much.

smoke a fatty, score with a fatty, anything to get your mind off of your problems.

you ... might be on to something. ok, maybe not, pot can turn people into shut-ins.

seriously, any medication can be a bad choice. mine was prozac at first, which made me worse; then seroquel, which made me tired; then pot, which made me mellow; then mushrooms, which made me realize we all have our purpose in life, and that purpose comes from the decisions we make (or, that's how i interpreted in).

"people take prozac these days like flintstone vitamins, man, prozac is the #1 selling drug today. ... because it's easier to take a pill to be happy, than it is to take some time to get happy ... our society today, they're treating the symptom (depression), not the problem, right? and the problem is you're just dissatisfied" -ray young, highest-earning salesman in canada, primerica financial services

maybe there's something you want to do with your life, but you don't know how to approach it? i may be wrong, but if there's something on your mind, talk about it with someone you care about. they might even offer to help you.

i've spent a lot of time reading self-help and psychology books to really look inside how the human mind works, and how it interprets the world around us. don't be afraid to find what you really want and need

 

[NeonZombie]

Its saturday night and i didnt get invited to my mates house tonight where he is hosting a small gathering

I feel really rejected and the worst part is there is no reason

It makes me wonder if he even likes me at all

((((

 

[Bat Vader]

I don't know I'm just bored with life seems to monotonous and i don't have the money to go to a real professional i was happy with a bit with someone but they won't talk to me anymore and the depressions gotten worse

You will eventually get over it. I have days like this once a week. I border on depressed to close to suicidal.

 

[ideitbawx]

The thing is i have a good job i have good friend that i talk to about my depression and i do work out and life still just seems meaningless ...

talking about depression can have the opposite effect that you want, reinforcing what already depresses you instead of finding what excites or motivates you.

you say you have a good job, what do you do? how long have you worked there? what else do you do with your friend? videogame showdowns, maybe?

 

[WeevilStew]

take a sad song and make it better

Drink booze, lots of booze.

smoke a fatty, score with a fatty, anything to get your mind off of your problems.

None of this is actually helping out I've tried it all except the score a fatty and as i said i do work out i exercise at least three times a week

Hey I work out a lot too, doesn't stop me from searching out the big girls.

Gotta have those child birthing hips. Always makes me feel better

 

[Lord_Ascendant]

Didn't we have a thread just like this just a couple of hours ago?

apparently they've heard of your WONDERFUL advice Scam. =D

 

[Bulletinmybrain]

I've been depressed for a while and i was just wondering if anyone had any experience on it and could help

Gun+Mouth+Trigger

Shut up and suck it up kid, if you spent less time raging and being a sad little fucker and went ahead to put yourself out there.. Well you wouldn't have this problem would you? An idle mind is dangerous.

 

[Grimm91]

Well first, what is it your depressed about? Then what have you done to change it?

 

[IrrelevantTangent]

George Carlin also helped me give a more cynical view on the worlds problems. In case those things worry you. I actually helped a ladyfriend of mine with her problem of "I think the world would be better off if all humans were dead" by recommending watching George Carlin.

George Carlin worked as a therapist for me too I also think that world will be better without people around, you think that's wrong? :/

Carlin pretty much tought me to be cynical about the worlds problems in order to deal with it mentally. Humanity will manage. Nature will always find a way (ask the volcano victims in pompeij) etc.

Tru dat.

And OP, my advice to you is basically this-

1. I know you've probably heard this from every single psychologist or psychiatrist or doctor you've talked to about this, but if you even think about hurting yourself, go see a doctor/psychologist, and tell someone close to you about it. Suicide is even more pointless than life viewed from the rose-tinted glasses depression gives you.

2. Have you ever considered that your problem isn't mental, but chemical? Certain chemical imbalances in the human body that are often brought about via puberty can cause serious depression problems. It's happened to many, many people and it's perfectly natural.

3. And no matter how you may have acquired your problem, therapy and possibly medication approved by your doctors is the best solution. Alcohol/other bodily contaminants are not. Just don't, it will only impair your judgement and make the problem worse.

4. More than anything, I cannot stress this enough: talk to someone close to you about it. A friend, a girlfriend, your parents, a relative, a psychologist- anyone, I don't care how you do it, only that you do it. It can make all the difference in the world.

And as someone suffering from depression problems for a while, I wish you well, and hope that you find a way to deal with your depression.

 

[IrrelevantTangent]

I've been depressed for a while and i was just wondering if anyone had any experience on it and could help

Gun+Mouth+Trigger

Shut up and suck it up kid, if you spent less time raging and being a sad little fucker and went ahead to put yourself out there.. Well you wouldn't have this problem would you? An idle mind is dangerous.

You. Get out of this thread. Now, please.

 

[Bulletinmybrain]

Oh yeah, go see a therapist. If your problem is that bad they will give you some cool pills for you to trip out on.

They might give them to you anyways depending on who you go too.



...Drugs are bad mmmmkay?

 

[RetiarySword]

GO OUT, DRINK SOME ENERGY DRINKS AND BE WITH FRIENDS! Also physical excersize helps get over it.

 

[FallenRainbows]

I've been depressed for a while and i was just wondering if anyone had any experience on it and could help

Are you sure your actually depressed? Not just over blowing little things and you've been off for a week and claim to be depressed? Are you absolutely certain? Because most people who are depressed don't know it, being there myself I can say that you wouldn't ask the internet for help as you would fear ridicule over your problems. Want help? don't think that everyone is against you, it might seem it, but there not. Also don't dare take Prosaic or something it doesn't help. Drinking is again a REALLLY stupid idea (believe me on that) Just find one thing you love, and hold onto it, if it goes, its not worth it, if it doesn't give it no reason to leave.

I've been depressed for a while and i was just wondering if anyone had any experience on it and could help

Gun+Mouth+Trigger

Shut up and suck it up kid, if you spent less time raging and being a sad little fucker and went ahead to put yourself out there.. Well you wouldn't have this problem would you? An idle mind is dangerous.

You ignorant piece of shit, Go burn in hell. Being depressed isn't anything like ignorant fucks like you believe. I hope YOU get depressed lets see how you handle it.

P.S: I don't care if I get probation or something for attacking him he deserves it.

 

[Bulletinmybrain]

I've been depressed for a while and i was just wondering if anyone had any experience on it and could help

Are you sure your actually depressed? Not just over blowing little things and you've been off for a week and claim to be depressed? Are you absolutely certain? Because most people who are depressed don't know it, being there myself I can say that you wouldn't ask the internet for help as you would fear ridicule over your problems. Want help? don't think that everyone is against you, it might seem it, but there not. Also don't dare take Prosaic or something it doesn't help. Drinking is again a REALLLY stupid idea (believe me on that) Just find one thing you love, and hold onto it, if it goes, its not worth it, if it doesn't give it no reason to leave.

I've been depressed for a while and i was just wondering if anyone had any experience on it and could help

Gun+Mouth+Trigger

Shut up and suck it up kid, if you spent less time raging and being a sad little fucker and went ahead to put yourself out there.. Well you wouldn't have this problem would you? An idle mind is dangerous.

You ignorant piece of shit, Go burn in hell. Being depressed isn't anything like ignorant fucks like you believe. I hope YOU get depressed lets see how you handle it.

P.S: I don't care if I get probation or something for attacking him he deserves it.

Hehe, I am depressed. Not of my own machinations but because of a round of medicine. You know what though? I apply myself, I don't sit around and brood TOO MUCH.

That said, when I hear somebody say they are depressed I always think that they are just looking for the attention that it garnishes. The same way people that say they are suicidal are almost always the ones that fail at it.


If he gives me 2 good reasons why he would consider himself depressed and I may humor him.

 

[FallenRainbows]

I've been depressed for a while and i was just wondering if anyone had any experience on it and could help

Are you sure your actually depressed? Not just over blowing little things and you've been off for a week and claim to be depressed? Are you absolutely certain? Because most people who are depressed don't know it, being there myself I can say that you wouldn't ask the internet for help as you would fear ridicule over your problems. Want help? don't think that everyone is against you, it might seem it, but there not. Also don't dare take Prosaic or something it doesn't help. Drinking is again a REALLLY stupid idea (believe me on that) Just find one thing you love, and hold onto it, if it goes, its not worth it, if it doesn't give it no reason to leave.

I've been depressed for a while and i was just wondering if anyone had any experience on it and could help

Gun+Mouth+Trigger

Shut up and suck it up kid, if you spent less time raging and being a sad little fucker and went ahead to put yourself out there.. Well you wouldn't have this problem would you? An idle mind is dangerous.

You ignorant piece of shit, Go burn in hell. Being depressed isn't anything like ignorant fucks like you believe. I hope YOU get depressed lets see how you handle it.

P.S: I don't care if I get probation or something for attacking him he deserves it.

Hehe, I am depressed. Not of my own machinations but because of a round of medicine. You know what though? I apply myself, I don't sit around and brood TOO MUCH.

That said, when I hear somebody say they are depressed I always think that they are just looking for the attention that it garnishes. The same way people that say they are suicidal are almost always the ones that fail at it.


If he gives me 2 good reasons why he would consider himself depressed and I may humour him.

While I may agree that he may just be looking for attention, but you make it sound like people who actually are should go do that which is incomprehensibly stupid of you also if its drug induced et off them. (Now I for one chose not to take drugs for my...Complications), but yours may be not more serious but more... Drugs or death situation in which case my only advice is to counter balance it, i.e exorcise or go be an adrenaline junkie... Personally...Skydiving is amazing. (If you meant your early post at just him I'll apologise for my inherent anger but if you meant it at everyone who is/has been depressed I'll just redouble it.)

 

[SmartIdiot]

Break some bottles. That'll take care of any simmering aggression. Be pro-active. That'll give you a distraction and maybe some feeling of accomplishment. Nope, don't drink, if you do just cut it out. That'll also make you feel better and stronger. Don't take anti-depressants, it's either a placebo effect or it will bring out the worst side of you. Don't beat yourself up, in fact, if you can, treat yourself from time to time. Finally, if you really have to, force yourself to do things which yuou normally regard as taking too much effort or think aren't worth it. It's these little things which can help you grow more confident. Taking risks is also fun too

 

[[Gavo]]

Go on really long walks and try to meet new people. that's what I did.

 

[Sergeant M. Fudgey]

I've been depressed for a while and i was just wondering if anyone had any experience on it and could help

How about not whine about your problems, we all have problems. You know what, though? The rest of us don't go and complain. The rest of us set it aside and get over it, because we don't feel the need to further dilapidate an already overflowing cesspool like the internet.