I once met this girl on Halo 3 when playing with my friends on Xbox Live. She was AWESOME! She was on the other team, but I couldn't deny her skill. She had more points than anyone!
When I was playing Modern Warfare 2 by myself online, I found her again. I sent her a message saying how awesome she was. I bet her I could beat her in a sniper match just between us (I am best when I has sniper rifle). I won, 25 to 24! The next day, I met her in my math class (IRONY).
So yeah, depending on who you are, male or female, you could SUCK, or you could totally kick everyone's ass!