CrossLOPER said:
Moonlight Butterfly said:
Yeah but it;s not a conscious choice. We don't sit there and decide 'Oh I will wear this because some random man will like it'. -.-
OK, just to make sure: you firmly believe that women NEVER dress attractively to be attractive?
I think you, and others, are totally misunderstanding her.
Women (and men for that matter) dress attractively to make themselves feel good. This feeling good comes from others, including men, admiring and appreciating their looks.
Men are a means, not a goal, in this.
They do not dress attractively so that anyone else may feel good about looking at them. How others feel whilst appreciating them is irrelevant, as long as they're being appreciated.
Just examine the feeling you get yourself when you're dressed up in a fancy suit or any other clothing you think you look good in and someone else notices that.