Easily offended people on sex

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smokeybearsb

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I don't know if I have the same view on this as other people do (in fact, I'm damn sure there's some people that are gonna disagree) but one thing that gets on my nerves is people who are very scrupulous and offended when jokes are made about sex or something. This might be more of a problem for me because I'm in high school and there are some people still maturing, but I think there's still people like this. At my school, I hang out with a group of people that is okay with joking around or talking about sex and matters relating to it, but there are some people who just abhor talking about it. I don't understand why sex is such a (for lack of a better word atm) taboo thing. People should be open about it. Parents hide it from their children and some are sheltered. It is natural and healthy.

I read a book called Brave New World (which I guess I can fit into this thread) which is an incredible read. The book is about a dystopia in which people are genetically engineered and how exactly they are made depends on their social caste. The children are encouraged to engage in "erotic play." Basically, when the children are five, they are encouraged to explore their and the opposite sex's bodies. The book described a whole group of them running around doing this. One girl came back crying, saying that this boy would not engage in it, and he was sent somewhere for mental conditioning. For one, I would have loved to do this when I was five. Second, it would have answered a lot of questions instead of the internet. Also, this to me is start. It seems a better way of conducting things then making people sensitive about the subject.

I think people should be more open about their emotions, as they are humans. For some reason Rome to me seems like that. And the late 1800s and the 1900s.

I guess I wanted to say how much sensitive/scrupulous people sometimes get on my nerves.
Oh yes, please do refine my opinion, as I find it hard to articulate everything.

Edit: Erotic play as in just seeing what the deal is and getting comfortable.
Although, in the society they live in, everyone has sex with people, not forming long-lasting relationships. That seems a bit much.
 

teisjm

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Some people are mroe or less againt pre-marriage sex, and htinks you'll go to hell for it or something.
maybe some people might be afraid to talk about it, cause they're virgins but lie about it to seem "cool"
Maybe the ppl who talk about it are just horrible about making good jokes about itm so it's more the bad jokes and not the sex part.
Some people will just tell you to stfu about sex cause it's "immature" to talk about (though it's more or less illegal for kids to actually DO it... ironic) and they'll do whatever they can to seem oh so adult and mature.
 

megapenguinx

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I don't either. I don't really see why you should either. Just wait until college/university then you'll get sick of all the jokes.
 

Kpt._Rob

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While I think that encouraging very young children to partake in sexual activity might be overkill in the desensitization department, I would agree with you that the attitude on sex is frequently too rigid. If you want to know why, there's a one word answer: Christianity. I know people are sick of hearing that, but the protestant system intrudes even into the secular areas of our lives, and it will take many more years before society is over the affects, one of which is the rigid attitude towards sex.
 

Kogarian

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I do agree with you, but I fail to see how that book has anything to do with the situation. Why would you want children to start feeling each other up before the actual sex hormones kick in? It'd be a pointless activity for children that age, like telling kids that they should raise themselves and their siblings so they 'get the hang of parenting'.

(Edited) Infact, that sounds like something a perverted group of parents would start just so they could see naked children who aren't their own. I'd have to question why they'd start that, as it seems completely pointless.
 

GodsOneMistake

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Yaa.... that 6 years olds sexing up seems like a bad idea to me... I'm just not sure why....hmmm
 

smokeybearsb

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I'm not saying I want everybody to randomly have sex with everybody, I just think people should be way more comfortable with it.
 

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Oh, and the whole idea in the second paragraph is awful.
One girl came back crying, saying that this boy would not engage in it, and he was sent somewhere for mental conditioning.
It may answer questions, it may be a good thing to encourage, but sending someone for "mental conditioning" because they don't want people handling them?
Yeah, that's just fucked up.
Kaijj said:
Meh. I don't see any problem with making jokes about it.
However, I do agree with this. But then, nothing is off-limits to make jokes about.
You have to understand the reasoning and the premise behind this book. It is against the conformity that is rampamt in society today and what would happen if it continued unchecked. Read the book it is an amazing read. =)
 

Seann

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I agree with you. 100%. I'm sure that if I thought about it, I could even add to your argument a little.
 

Thyunda

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I'm very comfortable with it. I'm sixteen, and my parents are the worst for sex jokes. Especially gay sex jokes.

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I think they're trying to tell me something.
Ah, dammit. My parents think I'm gay. >=(
 

Kogarian

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smokeybearsb said:
I'm not saying I want everybody to randomly have sex with everybody, I just think people should be way more comfortable with it.
I'd have to agree with you there, I'm really comfortable sexually. People who get all freaked out over sex jokes and can't even talk about the subject are annoying. But the kids who can making nothing BUT sex jokes can be annoying as well.
 

smokeybearsb

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I do find it a bit odd when adults crack sex jokes. Probably cause I don't want to imagine older people having sex.
 

Kogarian

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Kukul said:
MaxTheReaper said:
That is not fucking okay. If some random chick came up to me at any age and wanted to mess around, I would strangle her to death.
Sir, I'm afraid I'll have to revoke your Man Certificate.
So if a really overweight, slutty, STD-covered, old woman who once was a man offered you sex, you would automatically say, 'Hell yeah!'?
 

smokeybearsb

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Kogarian said:
Kukul said:
MaxTheReaper said:
That is not fucking okay. If some random chick came up to me at any age and wanted to mess around, I would strangle her to death.
Sir, I'm afraid I'll have to revoke your Man Certificate.
So if a really overweight, slutty, STD-covered, old woman who once was a man offered you sex, you would automatically say, 'Hell yeah!'?
Obviously you have to have standards. He said random chick and this implies a really hot girl in my mind.