I used to be a lutheran christian before becoming an atheist.US Crash Fire said:you'd think atheists would not have a religious bias twords anyone and be more open minded but all of the atheists i have ever met have always told me how stupid and ignorant i was for being a christian (lutheran. AKA catholic lite) and how i deserved to be ripped on for it. all they did was insult my inteligence and try to degrade me. even my roomate and friend for the last 5 years who was catholic and recently converted to atheism did this to me! this made little sense to me. i have had friends who are muslim, buhdist and pagan who did not care that i was a christian because i was cool with them and they were cool with me. (except for my pagan friend ripping on me every christmas because he said we were celebrating the same holiday.) the point is i have no problem with atheits and i do NOT wish to convert anyone. im not a religious nut job. hell, i dont even go to a church. but i would like to know why all the atheists i have met seem to have a sense that they are better than everyone else. i am sure this is not the case for all atheists but if anyone has any answers let me know.
The reason for your dilemma is simple: The change to atheism does not alter ones personality. If one was arrogant and know-it-all while religious, it doesn't change with 'conversion' to atheism. Or if one was raised to believe that all christians are dunderheads and illogical idiots, then that is what the person will likely continue to think to their adult lives.
I personally have many friends who are buddhists, lutheran christians, I know some catholics and even a fundie christian who is a YEC! I am not their friend because or in spite of their beliefs, but because they are my friends, I like their company and we have fun times together. Likewise, I've come across atheists who think that just because they have shed their former beliefs they are now suddenly the kings of the universe.
Personality and religiosity (or lackthereof) are not tied together. We atheists can be just as discriminating bunch of people as anyone else. After all, atheism is only lack of belief in any god, nothing more, nothing less.