Flirting

[Bat Vader]

I don't flirt because I have never had a need to flirt. I just don't see the point in a relationship. That is great if people are in relationships. A relationship is not for me though. I like the idea of being single.

Plus, it is obvious no women like me for more than a friend.

You are what 22? Congratulations on giving up on relationships.

You seem a bit angry with me for myself making a choice in my life that affects no one but me. Unless I misinterpreted your comment.

Yes, I am 22.

It just seems depressing to give up on something so quickly whilst hardly putting up a fight.

As depressing as it sounds it is my life and my decision to give up on relationships without ever experiencing one. All I ask is that you respect it. I don't mind if you disagree with my decision just please do not say whether it is wrong or right.

Like I said it affects no one but me.

i agree with sark. congrats! youre just gonna live a lonely life is all!

I don't think it will be lonely. A life without a relationship is a life I want and if it is a life I want how could it possibly be lonely? Sure, if someone wanted a relationship and was living alone they would be lonely. I myself do not care for a relationship and so I doubt I will get lonely.

 

[Amberella]

Be charmingly awkward.

Women surprisingly think it's cute.

Haha, that's how my boyfriend was when I would try to flirt with him before we started dating! And I thought it was cute! ;D

 

[RadioActiveChimp]

heh, don't really know how to flirt, but then again i don't think i have ever seriously tried. That, and even now i carn't think of anyone i would want to flirt with (and i'm a university student)

Oh well, when the time comes i may need to give this thread a good read over.

i've got the same problem
i'm rly good at natural/unforced flirting, but nobody to do it with

I suppose i am as well. I have been perfectly confortable with talking to girls whom i fancy, however this usually lends me into their friendship zone. Back in high school, i was nice enough to be respected, but too nerdy to be date material. Now, in university, i don't have anyone to flirt with (which has struck me as being a bit surprising). I only know one girl who shares enough in common with me to make a relationship feesable, most other girls i know are so mainstream they would'nt know the difference between a PS3 and an Xbox, realise that Rick Ashley is actually an internet meme and never looked beyond the realm of pop-music. Due to these lack of common interests with anyone i know, (spare but one, whom i have mentioned, but she has a bf, and i have enough respect and dignity not to complicate such things) i have not met anyone suitable to flirt with.

Funny old world, and what's your situation radioactive chimp?

almost identical, 'cept i'm more open than you sound. as long as she slightly understands nerdy internet stuff, and accepts my love for sports and video games (not too much to ask for, considering the amount of time i spend with these is acceptable), that's enough for me.

my problem is, i don't know any girls at my college even after a whole semester. there was one girl who sat beside me in math class last semester that i talked to (in class) every time i saw her. but, sadly, she stopped coming to that class about 2/3 of the way though the semester ended. haven't seen her since, and i never figured out how to spell her last name, so i can't find her on facebook.

idk why i'm in such a slump, i'm rather good looking, tall athletic build, goofy, etc. it almost feels like girls look strait through me at school.

if anyone has tips that'd be fantastic

 

[Bat Vader]

I don't flirt because I have never had a need to flirt. I just don't see the point in a relationship. That is great if people are in relationships. A relationship is not for me though. I like the idea of being single.

Plus, it is obvious no women like me for more than a friend.

You are what 22? Congratulations on giving up on relationships.

You seem a bit angry with me for myself making a choice in my life that affects no one but me. Unless I misinterpreted your comment.

Yes, I am 22.

It just seems depressing to give up on something so quickly whilst hardly putting up a fight.

As depressing as it sounds it is my life and my decision to give up on relationships without ever experiencing one. All I ask is that you respect it. I don't mind if you disagree with my decision just please do not say whether it is wrong or right.

Like I said it affects no one but me.

i agree with sark. congrats! youre just gonna live a lonely life is all!

I don't think it will be lonely. A life without a relationship is a life I want and if it is a life I want how could it possibly be lonely? Sure, if someone wanted a relationship and was living alone they would be lonely. I myself do not care for a relationship and so I doubt I will get lonely.

relationships are about company too. youll def get lonely

I may get lonely and I may not get lonely. No one really knows the answer to that. I have friends. I just don't want a relationship.

 

[ArchBlade]

It's weird, my friends have told me that I flirt with girls, but I sure as hell don't try to. I have literally come out of situations talking with girls where a particular friend of mine mentions in some context or another that I was flirting. I don't know if it's his judgment or my brain is subconsciously trying to get me a girlfriend. Either way I despise both of them.

 

[TransMando]

Be charmingly awkward.

Women surprisingly think it's cute.

Haha, that's how my boyfriend was when I would try to flirt with him before we started dating! And I thought it was cute! ;D

You get a high five for that comment.

 

[Amberella]

Be charmingly awkward.

Women surprisingly think it's cute.

Haha, that's how my boyfriend was when I would try to flirt with him before we started dating! And I thought it was cute! ;D

You get a high five for that comment.

Haha, I may not be able to reach! =P Only 5'2'' Lol

 

[JoesshittyOs]

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I'm aware this is a necro post, but this is pretty good advice.

Wish me luck peeps.

 

[PinkAngelKitty]

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I'm aware this is a necro post, but this is pretty good advice.

Wish me luck peeps.

Glad I could help