Flirting? just talk to them. If they blank you, stop talking and go away. If they do start talking to you, make friends with them and then ask them out.
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I'm the last person to ask. I mean, a girl touched me in the tush with a follow of giggling at the food line. And I still can't figure out whether or not she was actually flirting.
PS: She had friends with her that backed her up. That's how she got the courage I guess.
PS: She had friends with her that backed her up. That's how she got the courage I guess.
All you've gotta do is not be a dick, chat a little bit and smile a lot. If she's attracted to you, she'll smile back and not walk away haha
Simple!
Simple!
Aunel's got it pretty much covered, especially the bass thing.
However, I'd recommend actually being nice and caring over pretending to be.
However, I'd recommend actually being nice and caring over pretending to be.
Nothing better than acting like no one is as good as you at life.Pimppeter2 said:
It hasn't helped me yet, but maybe that's because I do it naturally, or am uninterested enough to not notice them being interested.
It really depends on the type girl your going after.....but any subtle physical contact can be good....smile a lot...unfortunately most girls like dickheads so don't be afraid to disagree, but there is no reason you can't be respectful about it.....i know its easier said than done but be confident at being yourself...after all who knows you better than you....its basically a game so practice makes perfectFranzTyphid said:
There is really nothing to say except the same stuff everyone tells you, get to know her, treat her nicely, etc.
My pesonal twist on it though?
Actually talk to her and judge her as a person, not just as someone attractive, it's made me keep out of a few relationships that I can see would ahve ended badly.
My pesonal twist on it though?
Actually talk to her and judge her as a person, not just as someone attractive, it's made me keep out of a few relationships that I can see would ahve ended badly.
Acting confident(even if you are shy) but not arrogant, is very important. Other then that, I don't have any other tips.
It depends on your goal, all things considered. If your goal is simply to be affable and convivial, there's nothing really to "flirting". Be polite, considerate, listen to what she's saying, try to respond thoughtfully.
If you're trying to find a woman to sleep with on short notice, and with little commitment, I'm not sure what you should do. I've never tried it, but there's always the "shotgun approach" to it. Talk to a girl for a bit, ask for her number/to go somewhere private/to go to a movie, if she says no, immediately move on. Eventually, you'll ask out enough girls to actually find one interested.
If you're trying for a relationship, you have two choices:
1. Focus on being as impressive, intelligent, charming, witty, and everything we think makes us awesome, as possible. Assume that she'll eventually figure out you're awesome, and if she doesn't it's her loss.
2. Focus on being a friend. If she's interested in you, it'll happen. If she isn't interested in you, you get a new friend. Be comfortable, accept that she either likes you or doesn't, and that aside from acting like a gigantic douchebag, you can't actually alter her opinion.
Only one of these methods has worked for me.
If you're trying to find a woman to sleep with on short notice, and with little commitment, I'm not sure what you should do. I've never tried it, but there's always the "shotgun approach" to it. Talk to a girl for a bit, ask for her number/to go somewhere private/to go to a movie, if she says no, immediately move on. Eventually, you'll ask out enough girls to actually find one interested.
If you're trying for a relationship, you have two choices:
1. Focus on being as impressive, intelligent, charming, witty, and everything we think makes us awesome, as possible. Assume that she'll eventually figure out you're awesome, and if she doesn't it's her loss.
2. Focus on being a friend. If she's interested in you, it'll happen. If she isn't interested in you, you get a new friend. Be comfortable, accept that she either likes you or doesn't, and that aside from acting like a gigantic douchebag, you can't actually alter her opinion.
Only one of these methods has worked for me.
Best pick up line I've ever been on the receiving end of:
Some guy at a bar saw my tattoo (a feather) and screamed "WINGARDIUM LEVIOSA" from the opposite end of the bar whilst pointing at my tattoo with a deranged look on his face
Absolutely amazing effort right there XD
But if you're looking for a one night stand, just go straight ahead and be like "Do you wanna do it?". Seriously, it works if they're looking for the same thing
Some guy at a bar saw my tattoo (a feather) and screamed "WINGARDIUM LEVIOSA" from the opposite end of the bar whilst pointing at my tattoo with a deranged look on his face
Absolutely amazing effort right there XD
But if you're looking for a one night stand, just go straight ahead and be like "Do you wanna do it?". Seriously, it works if they're looking for the same thing
There's not a magical set of flirting behaviors. Successful flirting is unconscious. Instead, focus on being confident, keeping up a lighthearted conversation where you find out interesting things about the other person, and looking them in the eye to show you're listening.
As a girl I post a stamp of approval on this method; however, don't try to be the "friend" (note: the fake guy-friend hoping she'll eventually change her mind) if you really are not interested in friendship... Some guys get this mixed up, and it's to the detriment of both people.Seldon2639 said:
So, i'm usually a cynical person but really friendly towards girls because I was raised to be courteous and respect women (which is probably contradictory to all my "sammich" and "kitchen" jokes, but, eh) so i have a natural ability to get people on my side and to feel comfortable around me. I don't really know what it is, but all i'll say is be yourself, be nice, listen, know the right time for stuff (touching and words) and just generally try and be the best person you can.