Grey Day for Elcia said:
You know, kind of like furry stuff I guess, if you're born that way, it's just how you are. Like, people who are born blind don't think about it being hard to be blind, ya know. Despite the thought of being blind to us average people sucking major ass, lol.
I could honestly ask you the reverse question with equal curiosity--what's it like to really "feel" your gender? Tough question.
Hey, being blind is only the loss of one sense--you have four (sometimes five) more, and depending on the length of blindness, they'll be hella sharper for not having sight. For me, the only thing bad about being blind is that I wouldn't be able to play video games anymore.
Anyway. I mean, I understand the whole "I was born this way" thing, that makes sense to me. What bakes my noodle is when you start trying to separate biological sex and gender. Take the
hijra, for example--they're described as being "third gender," but they're defined as male individuals that espouse feminine characteristics. But then you get into the question of "well, what
is feminine (or masculine)? Isn't it largely a social construct that's based on the days when we were little more than animals--yet it logically shouldn't serve much purpose in an advanced society like ours? If they're supposed to be a 'third' gender, why do we define them using gender characteristics that are by-and-large binary?"
Now, as to why do I feel male? That's a difficult question to answer without stumbling across the social construct of masculinity, which seems to be the point here. I'll have to get back to you on that one.