rabidmidget said:
Flamezdudes said:
Many things in life are a waste of time, but for some reason Gaming is picked on heavily with this statement and i don't know why.
Flamezdudes said:
Many things in life are a waste of time, but for some reason Gaming is picked on heavily with this statement and i don't know why.
This is pretty much exactly what I was going to say.
a little off topic but I always found this interesting.
A lot has to do with social perception. it's always been believed that gamers are antisocial shut-ins who would rather spend free time playing a video game, versus going out and doing something social. and even with the advent of online gaming, to a casual gamer/observer there have been two things that have constantly been brought up.
1. I tried to play X game online, but when I signed on, I got killed left and right, and it wasn't very fun.
and/or
2. I tried to play X game online, but everyone was just swearing and calling me a fag. so it wasnt' much fun.
to one not as committed to gaming as many of us are, that'd be the end of it right there. Other activities, such as going out and playing basketball, or going to a club involve a social aspect, that we, as social creatures understand a bit more. What gives games and gamers a bad rap is that while many of us are socially well adjusted, with other hobbies and interests, the common depiction of a gamer is that of the overweight, unkept, antisocial and obsessed. all of which are viewed negatively by the general population, and honestly, rightly so. While many of the socially adjusted gamers I mentioned earlier don't exactly walk around with Gamer T-Shirts, and constantly spout video game quotes in social gatherings.
now before I end up TL/DR'ing myself, if gamers want to change the perception of their hobby being nothing more than a waste of time, it helps to have a more rounded out set of interests. social and solitary. Dont' deny what and who you are, but actually give people a reason to believe a gamer isnt' just a shut-in.
or of course you can say "I dont' give a fuck what anyone thinks of me." do nothing, and nothing changes. but since you dont' give a fuck, you never noticed anyways right?