Girl Magnets

[Paragon Fury]

probably confidence. I mean taking a look at your facebook profile photo, you aren't that bad looking however,

Well....thanks. I think that it is the first time anyone has said anything like that to me.

 

[Blow_Pop]

probably confidence. I mean taking a look at your facebook profile photo, you aren't that bad looking however,

Well....thanks. I think that it is the first time anyone has said anything like that to me.

.....REALLY?..... hm. welcome. Glad you could at least hear something nice regarding your looks?

 

[kouriichi]

Take it from a man with 18 charisma, who rolls 20 every seduction check.

Its all about the pickup line. Making a girl laugh is the best way to break the ice.
"Do i smell fire and brimstone? Cause your the devil i wanna make a deal with."

But really, if you want to find a good woman, dont try to pick women up. Find a girl you can be friends with. Let it evolve over time. Its how me and my wife got together. Friends for 2 years, married for 3.

oh god lets not go there....you know the "freindzone"

Oh yeah. I was in the friendzone with a dozen different women. I was fine with it though. Even if your in the friendzone with 9 women, at least you have 9 friends.

And each one of them probably has friends, who you may get to meet, alot of them probably women.

You may strike out a dozen times, but when you hit that home run, its all worth it.
Youve just gotta take you time and deal with the reality, that most girls arnt into gamers. Just gotta get lucky, and find that one that thinks your 360 quickscopes are sexy.

well I was just thinking of another thread on the issue

while I dont understand this whole freindzone thing and I guess it is kind of frustrating to like somone who doesnt like you back that way....

I found it kind of annoying how some people were like "why wont they go out with me? why do they like assholes??!! its WOMEANS fault! not mine that I cant get a girlfreind"

not sayign everyone is like that, but the whole "nice guy" thing seems to be a crutch for certain guys to blame women for them not being able to get one, and is it really so horrible to be freinds with somone of the oposite sex anyway?

Its not even that being a nice guy is a crutch. What it is, is that people like excitement in their life.

For women, the easiest way is to date a "bad boy". He owns a motorcycle, which is dangerous, he goes to seedy bars with strange people, which means he can get into fights, he probably drinks and puts his feet on the table, while hes wearing shoes, because he doesnt like to follow orders.

While a nice guy is usually stale. His shirt is always clean for work, he likes to be in bed by 12 so he gets a good nights sleep. He takes his coffee with sugar and creme because its to bitter any other way.

The "nice guy" is the safe, boring option. And many people, especially women ((not being sexist here, women worry about their age and weight way more then men.)) fear growing old, and living a boring life.

Eventually, people get over it though. Once they get dumped for the 50th time, and they find their 51st boyfriend in bed with their mom, they will start to go for nice guys.

 

[Chemical Alia]

And for god's sake dont call women `females`. I cant be the only woman squicked out by that.

Doesn't bother me in the slightest. Maybe it's because I was in the army, but I say males and females all the time.

 

[The Funslinger]

I just had to post this:

But seriously, if you just sit there and sulk that you're not being noticed... you're not going to be noticed.

 

[The Funslinger]

1. Be happy, girl's and people in general like to be around people who are happy.
2. Buy proactive.
3. Go to the gym.

Seriously, going to the gym will help you 10000000000x in getting girls, and not just in a superficial way, it makes you happy and healthy and gives you self confidence and that resonates with other people.
Also, learn some jokes. Most of the friends I have, boy or girl, I got because I'm funny. Also, hang around people who like you, who cares about random girls that don't like gamers/nerds/anime readers etc. Most of the people I know play games, in fact I introduced most of them to games myself, so you could try that.

In the end just be a nice, helpful and funny. Also, if you're a nerd (I assume you are) play that card, and play it all the time. Nerds are awesome these days. I know a ton of girls like love the whole 'geek' look, which is fine by me since I've always looked like a geek anyway. Its all about how you present yourself, wear this shirt: http://www.redbubble.com/people/foofighters69/t-shirts/7601504-whos-your-daddy,

these jeans: http://www.asos.com/Dr-Denim/Dr-Denim-Snap-Skinny-Jeans/Prod/pgeproduct.aspx?iid=532875&cid=4208&Rf-400=166&sh=0&pge=0&pgesize=20&sort=-1&clr=Rawblue

and this belt: http://www.asos.com/River-Island/River-Island-Nintendo-Plate-Belt/Prod/pgeproduct.aspx?iid=1611697&SearchRedirect=true&SearchQuery=nintendo

If you're happy, confident and present yourself well, theres no reason why you shouldn't get any girls.

TL;DR If you having girl problems I feel bad for you son. I got 99 problems but a b**ch aint one.

I like this guy's clothing advice. I've got a Nintendo controller wallet!

You just need to try and express yourself in visible means (ergo, the clothes you wear) this guy has it right. I've got my trilby and all that stuff going on, and people notice.

 

[Bloedhoest]

Ever tried to sit next to the silent nerdie looking girl that always eats alone?

They don't exist here. If they do, they get devoured because of the 7:1 guy/girl ratio here.

After reading most of the comments, I think the real problem is your low self esteem and confidence.
As stated above, girls literally smell this.
Don't give up your hobby's, games & anime, because in your mind this puts girls off. Bullshit, if you really, really have met a awesome chick she'll just except the fact you like to do those things. Be yourself, remember that.
Looking beefed up is one thing, it could be a boost for your confidence. But you think this really is the problem? I say it's all in the mind.

Oh and one more thing. Do you really want a girlfriend that looks hot but is an empty shell that goes 'derp' when you mention a first degree equations? Or, are you looking for someone that isn't model material but completes you as a human being?

 

[Tekkawarrior]

You seem desperate. I think women can see that. Or smell it.

I used to find it strange that women would do that but now I definitely agree, what is it about women that they don't want to know that a guy likes them?

So perhaps today was just out to get me, but damn I hate days like today. When everything seems to just exist to remind me what a sad lonely loser I am.

So after being mildly insulted in class by a female I had liked, watching everyone and their girlfriend/boyfriend out enjoying the nice day, and having to sit behind a group of women in another class discussing whats "wrong with those guys who play games" and "watch those weird Asian cartoons", I had the pleasure of having to watch some random sophomore (I'm in college) get to sit and eat dinner with no less than 6 different fairly attractive women who came up to him to sit with him. While I sat by myself for the 4 year in a row. And then watch as no less than three of them were almost sitting on him within 5 minutes.

Needless to say, I was just a bit irked. I mean, really, how the fuck can people be so lucky? I mean, did I just get shafted in that department? Here I am, can barely get the time of day from women and people like him have women basically throwing themselves at them.

I mean, I could accept that, yes, fine, some guys through no fault of their just will never have any luck finding women. But does life really need to remind them that they suck and that they've failed at something like that at almost every opportunity?

Mate, don't get irked over something like that. Girls like good looking guys and doesn't really matter about all the bullshit that's inside "nice guy". Take it from me, stop looking for it and one day it'll come.

Be your self and enjoy not having a girlfriend, it's not as grand as you think it is.

 

[Tekkawarrior]

Double post. My bad.

 

[Paragon Fury]

I just had to post this:

But seriously, if you just sit there and sulk that you're not being noticed... you're not going to be noticed.

I'll admit, I chuckled.