Girl troubles (Is there any other kind?)

[poleboy]

Life lesson #23, learned the hard way:

If you are always available and do your best to fulfill their needs, girls completely lose interest in you.

It's fucked up, and I don't get it. But it's true.

 

[shadow skill]

Life lesson #23, learned the hard way:

If you are always available and do your best to fulfill their needs, girls completely lose interest in you.

It's fucked up, and I don't get it. But it's true.

So basically you can't win.

 

[Symp4thy]

Trust me, I had a lot of "relationships" in high school, and I can tell you right now, don't bother. Neither you nor the girl are mature enough to know what love is (no offense). You think you do, but you don't. Enjoy your time with your friends, have a good time, and go off to college. My biggest regret is wasting time, energy, and money on "relationships" in high school. Obviously this girl is just taking you for the proverbial ride. You and your friend should be wary if you value your friendship, because the fact that she told you that she has feelings for him could tear you two apart. Bros before Hoes!

 

[shadow skill]

Trust me, I had a lot of "relationships" in high school, and I can tell you right now, don't bother. Neither you nor the girl are mature enough to know what love is (no offense). You think you do, but you don't. Enjoy your time with your friends, have a good time, and go off to college. My biggest regret is wasting time, energy, and money on "relationships" in high school. Obviously this girl is just taking you for the proverbial ride. You and your friend should be wary if you value your friendship, because the fact that she told you that she has feelings for him could tear you two apart. Bros before Hoes!

No, just no.

 

[Frank_Sinatra_]

Sameish thing happened to me. Forget her and move on its not worth it.

 

[DickInPudding]

I can relate man,
Trust me.

I'm only 15 but still.
Whatever harsh words you said to her will stick with her for a while, she will see you in a different way, talk to you, act towards and speak to you differently.
I've done this, i regret it. Badly, because the girl and i don't talk anymore. We went out for a month, i got attached, we broke up. I collapsed. That whole week was a wreck, we lost the biggest Football game my school will ever play and i couldn't do fuck all right.

Anyway, dude.
One thing i can say is. Being single is the shit, no pressure, no one to look after, no one to worry about. Sure, that's all good when you're in a relationship. But when you're single.
Don't think about a relationship, another girl will come, you're only 17 correct? You have your WHOLE life ahead of you, forget her. She's just one of many to come man.

"If you havin'Girl problems i feel bad for you son, i got 99 problems but a ***** ain't one"
I chose to live by that when I'm single. It helps.

 

[TheRightToArmBears]

Well, I found alcohol reveals secrets. Try not to get too drunk (keep a tight mouth!) and see hat other people say. How I know my girls not screwing around! That sounds a hell of a lot more evil than it is I'm sure. I just don't frink too much. But, if I were you, find someone else. You'll feel better.

 

[sequio]

To quote Joshua from WarGames (1983, "The only winning move is not to play."

If she doesn't reciprocate your feelings, then it's pretty much a moot point to chase her. If you think you can get her to feel the same, well good luck with that. I guarantee you she'll leave you the moment she finds someone she didn't have to work for in order to feel that way.

EDIT: More advice: women/girls hate clingy guys. But they pay attention to you if you don't give a damn about them. I know, it's weird and fucked up but that's what happens.

 

[Beetlejooce]

I have to agree with the other X amount of people. I've never actually been in this situation myself, but I wouldn't put up with it. Don't waste a second of your life, and wasting 2 years chasing after a girl who's not interested is a total waste. Just leave it and find someone else.

 

[Bulletinmybrain]

give up on love in my opinion. leads to pain and heart ache. week before christmas my (now ex) girlfriend spilt up with me and then i see her a few days later in my town, with her ex before me, walking and holding hands and kissing. if i see him again he will feel pain and i wont hold back until he is very battered and bloody

If hes dumb enough to get back with her, well thats punishment enough.

People are so stupid, we are irrational, we hurt the ones closest to us, and we can't keep our libido stable. Why have we all not died yet?

 

[KefZ_X]

Hmmmm Im no good with this situation but I can see three options lets put it tactic wise

Attack____ Confront her about your feelings.
Hold the line____ Remain friends with her and continue your friendship
Retreat____ All forces in the area retreat this is not a drill....(Aka Bail)

Good Luck

 

[hungoverbear]

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If you're thinking "No strings attached sex" there is NO SUCH THING. It's a very hard lesson to learn. I wouldn't waste your time buddy.

jokergrin, this by far is the wisest post for this topic, and any other conversation involving sex for that matter. but yeah i agree with everyone else, cut off communication, never talk to her again because in all honesty NO GOOD WILL COME OF YOU HANGING AROUND HER!!!!111 she is useing you. All she wants is for you to "snuggle" with her and have you say great things about her and make her feel great. but thats it, she just wants the attention, but the minute she finds another guy to do the same thing she will throw you out like last Tuesdays leftovers. yeah it sucks but trust me youll move on and find someone better in college.

 

[grunt-4-life]

i think that if we all stop having sexthen there would be no population problems and there would be no failed relationships to be quite honest.

 

[sirsolo]

i think that if we all stop having sexthen there would be no population problems and there would be no failed relationships to be quite honest.

This has nothing to do with my post. My post has nothing to do with sex.