Another good way is to talk to your friends, particularly those you are not trying to bag/sleep with ect, friends you can trust your whole portions of your life with not petty acquaintances people call friends these days... I have had a few close female friends over the years just talking to them as a friend about anything alot can be shared, we once talked about what society wants from males and females, for males they want them to be strong, silent to the point of being unemotional and decisive and I am non of those things 0-o I am taint amount to a drooling imbecile whos a bit of emotional lush TMI aside "they" want females to be meek, wish washy and able to tell the difference in 200+ colors/styles(brain explodes from trying to comprehend it)... I mean seriously screw the stereotypes they went out of fashion ages ago.... we are human first .I.E. fickle individuals, at least that's how I was raised.....being dropped on the head repeatedly asideCloakedOne said:ZippyDSMlee said:I hate over done character designs either it be in muscle or breast, male or female, but I has issues with certain aesthetics some are ok some make my brains hurt especially anything over a DD...good lord..... give it a break already my back hurts just looking at them ><.CloakedOne said:There could be more female appeasement out there. True that the gaming industry is widely male-dominated, but that's changing and I think that the gaming companies are recognizing that little by little. Are they doing this enough? I'd say no, and that's true in so many other aspects of our society too. Women have come a long way, but they still have a ways to go to be equally recognized.
Real women are still not depicted properly in games. Despite a severe lack of muscles on most of them, women are able to do these amazing feats that require much more body strength than their character models would imply. Who do I blame for this? People like Angelina Jolee. She wanted to be a model for women, but I think she's hurting them. She looks like she can barely open a door let alone pull of martial arts with the destructive force that her characters can or pull off those impressive acrobatics. The supermodel woman is creating impossible standards. can women be strong and still look beautiful? Yes. Can a woman look like a tiny-bodied stick and still be able to take care of herself the way that games imply she can? Some yes and some no of course, but the point is that games and the other parts of the media provide only one example of what a woman can be (and therefore what she should be). According to video games, a woman must have breasts that are at least a C cup, a gorgeous face, fit (but not too fit, guys don't like muscles most of the time), feminine, and revealing. She can't be too deep, either, she can only inspire the protagonist to be deeper himself. A woman is a lot like a vase: she is meant to be beautiful and enhance the environment, but doesn't actually affect that environment.
Some may ask if this is a big deal. I say of course it is. Many say that there is no need for feminism because women are equal now. This is not entirely true, not by a long shot. We need to ask questions like what you've presented or we'll never move toward true equality.
For those who say "If I were a girl, I wouldn't care": You're not a girl so you don't know what it's like. And no, you can't really guess what it's like either, the same way girls can't truly understand what it's like to be a guy.
There, I'm done. I'm sure that will inspire plenty of flames to be spewed my way, but that's what I think about the subject.
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It really depends on the individual, some people are able to imagine all the steress'ers/stress points a person of race/color/creed goes though in life and can make an intelligent even if assumed opinion...but then again most people can;t think past themselves long enough to be let to make such a opinion. LOLFor those who say "If I were a girl, I wouldn't care": You're not a girl so you don't know what it's like. And no, you can't really guess what it's like either, the same way girls can't truly understand what it's like to be a guy.
I may be male but I tend to side on most arguments from a females perspective...simply because they have to put up with us males![]()
True, some people can come close to understanding some of the stresses that different peoples experience, but I still think that people simply cannot obtain the true understanding of being the "other" because they are not that gender/race/creed and in some cases could never be. It's just not the same; it's like you said: Imagining. one can imagine the intense pain of losing an arm or other appendage by comparing it to less intense pains that they've had before, but it still can't be duplicated and truly comprehended until it actually happens. However, I don't want to imply that we should never attempt to sympathize like you're saying that some can. I actually recommend quite the contrary. I encourage that people try to imagine what it's like to be the person/group in question. You're saying some people can imagine it. I offer that everyone should imagine it (to springboard off of a good point).
That being said, I respect your point of view despite my inability to completely agree with it. I definitely agree with that last part on a lighter note![]()
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We also had a good talk why girls love bad boys, if anything its the confidence, confident people are attractive. AS for what boys like well...anything with curves and skirt seems to work well enough =0-o=
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Agree, disagree it dose not matter much as long as opinions are heard and respected, I do understand that you'd like to see more muscle on females than there are I just do not like so many hard lines on either males or females, that and large orbs attached the chest area is also annoying to my core design aesthetic, but that's just what I'd like to see more of, at the least more temperance(less super muscled/ bulging chest either male or female) in modern designs. I do agree wholeheartedly that female designs tend to be based on generic male fantasy rather than anything else.