I didn't mean they were required to wear them. What I meant to say was "If this were true, then strippers performing onstage wouldn't wear high heels." Sorry for being unclear.Treblaine said:"If this were true, then strippers performing on stage wouldn't have to wear high heels."cobra_ky said:If this were true, then strippers performing on stage wouldn't have to wear high heels. In fact, heels are the one article of clothing a stripper will almost never take off. It's purely about sex appeal.Treblaine said:I have never gotten a straight answer from women on why the wear heels though I strongly get the impression it is not to be sexually appealing, it is so that they are in similar height to men, particularly on the same eye line so they are not looked down on. They may be uncomfortable and impractical, but high heels PURPOSE is empowering women to compensate for how they tend to be shorter than men. Height is a big factor in how people perceive each other.
If it was just about height, wouldn't platform shoes be a lot more comfortable?
Yeah... they DO NOT have to wear high heels. What are you talking about? Where do stripper HAVE to wear high heels?
I've seen dozens of actual strippers, and every single one of them has worn high heels. LOL at "associated with classiness", because if there's one thing strip clubs are known for, it's being classy. I went to a wedding a couple weeks ago where the bridal party were all wearing flat sandals, (beautiful, by the way) so why would women engaging in a physical performance wear anything less comfortable? You know what's classy, feminine, AND suitable for performance art? Ballet slippers.Treblaine said:I don't know how many strippers you have seen but the only one example I can remember is from the movie Striptease and she didn't wear high heels. It's hardly like high heels are an integral part of what makes erotic dance erotic, high heels are definitely feminine and associated with a certain classiness so I can see why if an erotic dancer would wear any footwear it would be High heels and not flip flops or crocs. And they wouldn't take them off as it's not like they are hiding anything and ... I'm not a dancer but there doesn't seem to be any elegant way to take shoes off.
Strippers find elegant ways to take everything else off. Shoes don't seem like an insurmountable challenge to me.
Good for you! Everyone has different tastes and proclivities. But I can tell you that it DOES make a difference for many, many men. Foot fetishes are among the most common kinks out there.Treblaine said:I can also tell you as a heterosexual man high heels make NO DIFFERENCE to me. It's not like 'What! Bare Foot? That's it, my boner is gone' it's not like high heels enhance a woman's distinct feminine curves like a thong might.