Guys are jerks. But girls...?
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Everybody has been a jerk in one way or another. It doesn't matter what gender you are. I've been a jerk, my exes have been jerks. You learn to be a better person and move on.
In my social circle, near enough all the guys are lovely, trustworthy, kind, forgiving, and just looking to settle down with someone they like.
Near enough all the girls are manipulative, disloyal, hate relationships, and love to play the victim. Most of them are nice at heart, but jeez so many of them have been very inconsiderate and cruel to those that like them. Don't get me wrong, I don't think that there is anything wrong with one night stands, but when someone leads on another who so obviously likes them simply for one night, it's really nasty.
Near enough all the girls are manipulative, disloyal, hate relationships, and love to play the victim. Most of them are nice at heart, but jeez so many of them have been very inconsiderate and cruel to those that like them. Don't get me wrong, I don't think that there is anything wrong with one night stands, but when someone leads on another who so obviously likes them simply for one night, it's really nasty.
Oh a lot of things actually. It all revolves around honesty and trust, really. One girl I was dating kissed her ex-boyfriend right in front of me. When I wanted to end it and talk she told me she was drunk and it didnt matter and things had to change because of the way I reacted to her.
"IN YEAR 10 I BROKE INTO YOUR ROOM AND STOLE SOME HAIR FROM YOUR BRUSH SO I COULD PUT IT IN MY SHRINE AND YOU CALLED THE POLICE OMG WHY U SUCH A *****"
Anyway.. to be honest, not really. There are always assholes, of course, but on the whole I've run into far more obnoxious/dickish men.
Anyway.. to be honest, not really. There are always assholes, of course, but on the whole I've run into far more obnoxious/dickish men.
Sadly, I have to agree with this.Angry_squirrel said:
Men are simple about debacles with eachother; They throw an insult here and there, maybe a punch or 2 and they're done. Women will dedicate their lives to ruin another one's, and their hatred never truly fades.
Oh sure, there are exceptions, but the main stuff is pretty much what I just described.
Sounds to me like a girl taking mild advantage of an extremely obsessed stalker type. But then again, I've met stalkers who can't take a hint from being beaten up and left in an alley by the person they stalk.
The quality of one's character is not defined by their gender, race, creed, background or lifestyle. There are good people, and there are bad people, and they are distributed haphazardly throughout all walks of life, with little in the way of indicating what constitutes their moral fiber other than an awareness of the actions that person has chosen to make, and the circumstances those choices were based upon. You cannot point to a man and say "asshole" with any level of certainty if he is a stranger to you, nor can you do this with women; there is, of course, a statistical chance that you may be correct in your blind assumption since the world is undoubtedly littered with shitheads, but the gender of your target has absolutely no effect on your odds of being right.
And damned if I wasn't cringing as soon as I read the subject of this thread on a gaming forum, of all places.
And damned if I wasn't cringing as soon as I read the subject of this thread on a gaming forum, of all places.
Shrug. I can be a dick (I'm a guy), and I've only ever once hit someone (and that was another guy who put snow down my back on what was already one of the worst days ever).stefanbertramlee said:
OT: The question in itself is quite stupid. Of course girls can be horrible. People in general are horrible. There's no other way of putting it.
Guys are jerks and girls are... BITCHS!! I got right, right?
OT: Not really mistreated, but I after a breakup with this girl she would call me up out the blue to tell me shes dating someone new. Then called me a few weeks later to tell me she broke up with them. So I moved 3 states and 200 miles away HAHA.
OT: Not really mistreated, but I after a breakup with this girl she would call me up out the blue to tell me shes dating someone new. Then called me a few weeks later to tell me she broke up with them. So I moved 3 states and 200 miles away HAHA.
I've made this clear before, people are shit. Everyone can be shit. Some groups of people have unwritten, vaguely established ways of being shit, but there's always someone who breaks those rules, because they aren't rules. Trying to understand human behavior by breaking them into groups and devising specific rules is futile, because there really aren't any rules.
There are just as many petty, selfish, hateful, cruel, greedy, ignorant, poisonous, and yes, violent women as there are men. The more you buy into stereotypes, the more true they become. Don't assume things about people based on factors out of their control, that's basic reasonable behavior.
There are just as many petty, selfish, hateful, cruel, greedy, ignorant, poisonous, and yes, violent women as there are men. The more you buy into stereotypes, the more true they become. Don't assume things about people based on factors out of their control, that's basic reasonable behavior.
If she wanted him to stop, she shouldn't have accepted his various attentions. She did what so many girls do - took advantage of a poor sap that she knew was crazy about her. Friend of mine used to do this all the time. "It's not my fault if they want to give me things," was her line.JoJoDeathunter said:
Heh, double standards, I guess. I think humans in general have the capacity to be pretty horrible. But I have to say, I have a lot of friends who are male, and they seem to be much nicer and more considerate (on average) than some of my female friends, who can be outright vindictive and just terrible in general. It depends on the person. I don't think it's necessarily an exclusively feminine or masculine thing.
Honestly? It's impossible to say, everyone does things differently, there may be common traits but every person generally has their own way of dealing with things and how they do it is completely up to them regardless of race, gender, sexual preference, religious opinion or anything else. We're human beings, we're all pretty much just as prone as each other to the occasional mistreatment of another and whatever reasons are behind that (justified or not) should only be judged by a case-by-case basis and not by lumping everyone into a binary category just because they're part of a group.
At least that's how I see things.
At least that's how I see things.
I agree with guys being upfront and girls being subtle.
In my experience girls can become really malicious, as opposed to guys where if they really don't like you will just hit you or something.
In my experience girls can become really malicious, as opposed to guys where if they really don't like you will just hit you or something.
This is exactly true. I don't understand why people are calling that kid a "creepy stalker". He's making attempts to take her out and try to woo her and won't give up. It isn't creepy, it's persistent. She kept taking advantage of him, which kept giving him a bit of hope.Susan Arendt said:
Seriously, if you don't want anything to do with someone, just tell them. Keeping them around because you "like the attention" or "like getting gifts" is just wrong. It makes you out to be a horrible person.