Sovvolf said:
Being born white doesnt automatically give you the respect card or the privalaged, neither does being born black give you the opposite, you have to earn privalages, you have to earn respect, I'm white and I live and have done for the last 18 years in a small two bedroomed house with seven people, if thats privalaged then I want to know what underprivalaged is.
If you have to earn privileges, why are some kids raised in rich families with a mansion, a swimming pool and a holiday house and others have to share a small two bedroomed house with seven people? Some people are lucky enough to be born into privilege and some aren't. From there you have the opportunity to earn more privileges for yourself (or lose the ones you start with), but it takes a lot of hard work and good luck to earn the millions of dollars to go from the small two-bedroom house to the mansion. Meanwhile, a kid who started life as a millionaire and worked that hard could end up a billionaire. It's not all about money, either: it's easier to educate yourself if you're lucky enough to go to a good school.
It sounds like you have a bit of a tough situation, but it's not about how any individual lives, it's about how you're perceived. The average level of income, assets, education and so on for white people is significantly higher than for nearly any other ethnic group except the Japanese, so any poor white people would not feel as though their poverty is linked to their race.
It's about perceptions, not reality. It's the respect you get, not the respect you should get.