Hetrosexual=wrong?
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Same here, except substitute Simon Pegg for Johnny Depp. But other than that, I am pretty much straight. I wouldn't say no to a guy just because they're a guy, and I consider myself straight but I have a fully open mind when it comes to relationships with either gender, even as far as me being in one. That said, the experience that the OP describes is something I've never had.Sasquatch99 said:
Admittedly though, my first kiss was directly the result of me refusing to play gay chicken with some friends. Basically, a group of us were drunk in our shared flat last year, one of my flatmates had her best friend from home visiting, and the girls suggested gay chicken. Us guys refused so my flatmate's friend decided to change it so she'd kiss me if her friend (my flatmate) kissed one of the other guys (bearing in mind we were all pretty wasted at the time).
But as I say, what happened to the OP has never happened to me. Then again, my friends are the sort who probably wouldn't mind if somebody is gay, bi, or straight, but won't expect someone to do things they aren't comfortable with regardless of sexuality.
It's not really that heterosexual is wrong...it's more that 'political correctness' has gone so far to the other end of stupid we now have to be super nice to all minorities otherwise we're sexist or racist or homophobic...
it's ridiculous, nothing you said was offensive, it was your opinion as a straight man, and as a straight guy it's a perfectly reasonable opinion. (assuming of course what you've typed up there was what you said XD i'd imagine if you were drunk and with friends it may have come out a bit ruder XD)
if a gay guy said the same thing about kissing a girl it would be ok, so the same applies to straight guys.
personally the most ridiculous thing is it sounds like a bunch of mostly straight people getting offended on the behalf of gay people..>< which just irritates me...
it's ridiculous, nothing you said was offensive, it was your opinion as a straight man, and as a straight guy it's a perfectly reasonable opinion. (assuming of course what you've typed up there was what you said XD i'd imagine if you were drunk and with friends it may have come out a bit ruder XD)
if a gay guy said the same thing about kissing a girl it would be ok, so the same applies to straight guys.
personally the most ridiculous thing is it sounds like a bunch of mostly straight people getting offended on the behalf of gay people..>< which just irritates me...
being openly uncomfortable with homosexuality is not being homophobic... people who don't get that are closed minded and thick, a.k.a. cut from the same cloth as homophobes
Sorry, I don't usually do this, but is there a need for so many threads on sexuality these days on the escapist? I've seen a few about homosexuality, one about playing a homosexual main character, one about lots of people being bisexual and now this . I think some people need to stop thinking about these things so much and actually come up with a thread that will provoke discussion that hasn't already been had a plethora of times before.
My boyfriend insisted all girls are bisexual, because they wouldn't mind kissing another girl, but guys wouldn't.
I can find plenty of girls who wouldn't kiss another lass, most girls I know wouldn't even be in the same room as a lesbian.
It pissed me off, it was so small minded of him to assume we're all bisexual.
I can find plenty of girls who wouldn't kiss another lass, most girls I know wouldn't even be in the same room as a lesbian.
It pissed me off, it was so small minded of him to assume we're all bisexual.
All the time, I've seen men kissing and I didn't like it at all, but I have no issues with Gay people (One of the guys kissing was a friend of mine).
However this is where men become hypocrites{I actually spelt that right this time lol} Because very few men I know (Including myself) mind seeing two girls kiss. So there you have it Homophobic men are hypocrites *Shrugs*
However this is where men become hypocrites{I actually spelt that right this time lol} Because very few men I know (Including myself) mind seeing two girls kiss. So there you have it Homophobic men are hypocrites *Shrugs*
Here's my question: were any of the people calling you a homophobe gay or lesbian? Because if they weren't, I'd say they're terribly misinformed and should stop trying to represent groups they don't belong to.
I have the same problem with caucasians who claim to know more about Asian culture because they watch those damned anime cartoons geared towards Japanese children and retards.
Getting back on topic: I have friends who are gay, and I'd prefer to not see them going at it more out of discomfort over public displays of affection. Likewise, I prefer not seeing a straight couple exchanging saliva either for the same reasons.
(Note: My gay friends are women and I'm a guy, so don't go saying I'd have a different opinion if they were lesbians... they are. And no, I'd never wanna get with them... they're my friends, but they're somewhat unattractive.)
I have the same problem with caucasians who claim to know more about Asian culture because they watch those damned anime cartoons geared towards Japanese children and retards.
Getting back on topic: I have friends who are gay, and I'd prefer to not see them going at it more out of discomfort over public displays of affection. Likewise, I prefer not seeing a straight couple exchanging saliva either for the same reasons.
(Note: My gay friends are women and I'm a guy, so don't go saying I'd have a different opinion if they were lesbians... they are. And no, I'd never wanna get with them... they're my friends, but they're somewhat unattractive.)
I think the problem was you said it was gross and to the minds of the other people at the party (Gross = you hate gays) which more than likely was not your intent at all.
I never kissed a guy but I've had gay friends that have had boyfriends and kissed openly in public (or at lease parties). One time someone called them out it addressed me and said...
Random Party Person 1 - "That does not bother you to see them kiss?"
Me - "No, there in love that's what people do when there in love."
Maybe I'm weird like that; you know accepting people for whatever, besides I got enough problems and issues of my own. I don't have time to judge other people or tell them what is right or wrong.
I never kissed a guy but I've had gay friends that have had boyfriends and kissed openly in public (or at lease parties). One time someone called them out it addressed me and said...
Random Party Person 1 - "That does not bother you to see them kiss?"
Me - "No, there in love that's what people do when there in love."
Maybe I'm weird like that; you know accepting people for whatever, besides I got enough problems and issues of my own. I don't have time to judge other people or tell them what is right or wrong.
Well, technically, in nature, being heterosexual is the normal thing. And seeing as heterosexuhlism is the more common sexuality, homosexuals being a minority, (Hey. Don't hate me. That's a fact ((Correct me if I'm wrong)) ) I'd think hetero is more 'right', seeing as more people are hetero. But what do numbers know? Sexual preference is relative to the person, and just like political opinions, there is no right or wrong.
I wouldn't want to kiss a man (straight), but if I see two guys kissing I don't care.
If they're properly getting off it doesn't make me pull a face of disgust anymore than a straight couple doing it. It is, after all, no fun to watch someone's tongue slosh around in someone else's mouth.
If you're not involved of course.
If they're properly getting off it doesn't make me pull a face of disgust anymore than a straight couple doing it. It is, after all, no fun to watch someone's tongue slosh around in someone else's mouth.
If you're not involved of course.
It was unkind for your friends to get angry at you, really thats not homophobic at all. I'm a heterosexual but i obviously don't like watching two guys kissing, it just looks weird to me. I don't hate homosexual's at all.
Alright, I hate to possibly 'blame the victim' on this one but I worry we're not getting the entire context, and typed dialogue doesn't exactly convey any of the inflection or emotion in what was said.i did it 4 the lulz said:
I'm only skeptical because I honestly can't imagine anybody being this intolerant as they were to you (as you put it) but as you yourself said, there was drinking going on and drinking can colour one's view of a situation, as well as make us overlook the way we may have said things.
As an example me and my friends were hanging out. We started playfully ribbing our friend Lindsay for a statement she made some night before when she was drunk: "Shut up the fuck up!". It was all in good nature, and I'm honestly in awe of that phrase, we all use it all the time now. Shut up the fuck up. She was drinking at the time we were giving her abit of shit about it and she took it as us actually giving her a hard time.
QFfuckingT. I've heard of this kind of thing happen before, but it's never happened to me personally.SirBryghtside said: