Hey, uh guys? Can I have some help?

[PiggyGamer]

Oh, early teenage relationships.

Well, seeing as I just sorta got my first girlfriend a few hours ago, unofficially, the only advice I can give to you is what I've learned from first-hand experience... even if she says no, but you don't wanna give up, try to remain friends with her. Be her nice guy friend, and, it might take her a year or so to come around, but eventually she'll come crawling back to you.
Assuming you're a nice guy. Don't act like a dick, and eventually she'll quit going after the bad dudes and realize that a nice guy is what she wants. Assuming she's the right type for you, anyway.

 

[Nouw]

One sec let me get BonsaiK's thread

Damnit Ninja'd! The first thing I thought was: 'That Cat avatar guy that gives advice. BonsaiK!'

So just PM BonsaiK.

 

[RhombusHatesYou]

And don't urinate in your pants when you're asking her out. That's all I can add.

So thats what I've been doing wrong

Don't urinate in hers, either.

 

[Tryforlive]

dude your 14 ask her out......

 

[Contun]

I'm also Fourteen, but I try not to get involved in all that Jazz...
[sub][small]That doesn't mean I wouldn't like a girlfriend though. [/small][/sub]

Just go with the flow... Good things will happen in time.

 

[joshuaayt]

Yeah, I had a girl I had an adolescent attraction too once. You know what I did? Looked at her as often as I could and repeated to myself how attainable her affections weren't.
Do this, and in three years, you will be just like uncle Joshua.

 

[timhouse]

OH GOD, I LOL'D SO HARD. "we're both 14", holy shit. what're you gunna do if you DO go out, close mouth kiss until you feel tingly, then decide that you're scared and stop. here's my advice: give your balls time to drop b4 you worry about women

 

[thevillageidiot13]

all i can say is be you, don't say anything incredibly stupid or insensitive, be there for her when she needs it, don't lie to her, show genuine interest, and otherwise just show that youre the best she can find. at the same time, give her a little breathing room.

that's all that's ever worked for me, and it generally works reasonably well.

that being said, i wish you the best of luck.

 

[Skoldpadda]

Sooo, i haven't been having much luck with girls lately, and there is a new one, that I want to devote all my time to. But as the story goes: I'm not sure how she feels about me. I myself believe I'm stuck in a rut. Does anyone here know any ways to sweep her off her feet, so that she may possibly fall in love with the nice guy I am?


P.S. We are both 14

Aww shit man, that takes me back.

 

[TheSpaceCowboy]

Your both 14 just relax and don't worry about it. Your too young to have to worry and stress yourself over relationship drama. Just be yourself and if you ask her out try and do something you think you'll both enjoy. If it doesn't work out don't stress over it.
Also if your unsure on whether to ask her out or not just ask, its best to do these things sooner than later.

 

[Chase Yojimbo]

Just do your thing... go with the guitar some more! booya!

In the end, the singer gets all the chicks, just to let you know.

Wasn't it the Drummer who gets most of the chicks? lol xD

 

[HT_Black]

Well, I can't offer a detailed guide, but I can tell you what I did when I dated a girl for the first time (I was 14):

I invited her over to my house to play Guitar Hero, eat popcorn, and watch Watchmen. Good times were had by the both of us.

 

[Ldude893]

No High School/Middle School relationship lasts past graduation. Remember that.

 

[S.R.S.]

Just do your thing... go with the guitar some more! booya!

In the end, the singer gets all the chicks, just to let you know.

Wasn't it the Drummer who gets most of the chicks? lol xD

Rob: You like the drummer dude?
Lily: Yah, whats not to like?
Robert: Well for starters his name is The Drummer Dude

 

[TheTaco007]

Ask her if she's dating, and see how she responds. If she reacts negatively, you can pretend you were just making conversation.

OH GOD, I LOL'D SO HARD. "we're both 14", holy shit. what're you gunna do if you DO go out, close mouth kiss until you feel tingly, then decide that you're scared and stop. here's my advice: give your balls time to drop b4 you worry about women

Oh, and anyone who feels this way shouldn't be posting. Just cause we know it isn't going to be long term, doesn't mean we want to screw over his friendship with someone he'll probably know for at about another 2 years.

 

[heyheysg]

I can't remember being 14

 

[BonsaiK]

Sooo, i haven't been having much luck with girls lately, and there is a new one, that I want to devote all my time to. But as the story goes: I'm not sure how she feels about me. I myself believe I'm stuck in a rut. Does anyone here know any ways to sweep her off her feet, so that she may possibly fall in love with the nice guy I am?


P.S. We are both 14

This question has been answered in the Relationship Problem thread, at the following link: ----> http://www.escapistmagazine.com/forums/read/18.117161-Relationship-problem-thread?page=30#5730103

 

[TelHybrid]

Just say to her "I can run faster horny than you can scared".

 

[snide_cake]

Yeah man, what everyone else has said... Just chill and go with the flow. Start by establishing a friendship and hanging out with her, learning about her. You're still going to be learning about yourself, too, at your age (hell you NEVER stop learning about yourself...).

If she doesn't seem to want to take it into dating territory then at least you have yourself a good friend. And who knows what might happen in a year or two or four or ten? Maybe things will evolve into something a bit more romantic. And maybe not. In the end, you would still have an awesome person in your life.