searanox said:
Unfortunately, videogames are lagging behind, and poorly. Sex is an issue that is treated childishly in videogames, and even the best representations rarely go beyond the James Bond film standard. Making that step towards proper queer relationships that are presented respectfully and meaningfully will take a while longer. Maybe ten years from now? That's a pretty enthusiastic estimate, but it could happen. This is one industry that develops quickly.
In its defense, video games as a storytelling medium is rather immature. Theatre is thousands of years old. The modern novel is well over 200 years old and based on even older works. Film is over a century old; television about 60 or so. Look at comic books: they've been around for about 80 years, and yet just over 20 years ago,
Watchmen was held up as a radical event in the medium, largely for having narrative techniques and depth that novels and films had been doing for decades already!
Compared to this, video games are, being as charitable as possible, less than 50 years old, and the concept of a detailed story in a game (as opposed to just a simple premise to explain why you're shooting or punching everything on screen) is maybe 20 or so years old. Even with that twenty years, how many games fall back on the two most ancient premises: 1) fight the alien invasion and b) save the princess?
I think your estimate might vary based on what happens with society at large. Surveys show younger people are far more tolerant of alternate sexual orientations than older people, and more and more "normal" people are becoming gamers through the casual games route (I just heard yesterday online gaming is up during this recession), so eventually the gamer dynamic will look similar to society as a whole, and not just the "hardcore" gamer demographic. For a while, game protagonists will still be straight white manly males and buxom third-person seductresses (hey, even films are having trouble getting away from that), but I think a lot of secondary characters will be more diverse.