how can i tell?

[Nomad]

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Eh, sorry, but if she's told both you and her friends straight out that she doesn't like you that way, then she probably doesn't. More likely, her 'nervous' reaction is due to her being uncomfortable with the situation. That's what I'd wager, anyway, but then again, I don't know her or you.

 

[dstryfe]

ok well, we talk all the time in school, she always texts me, she always helps me when im sad, she play slaps me all the time, we argue ALL THE TIME, we take each others stuff all the time, and we stick up for each other.

She likes you. As for how much...take a guess. Based on your post, I'd say that, while she really does care, and you'll probably get a relationship out of it, I doubt it'll last.

I still say you should go for it.

NOTE: that's not to say you can't be friends for the rest of your lives. I just don't think a romantic relationship will last too long. Doubt me. Go for it and make it work.

 

[0p3rati0n]

If you even suspect she's flirting with you, that's good enough. Or, it is for me atleast. Ask her out. What's the worst that can happen?

find out she wasn't flirting and she doesn't like you and you get rejected. Three strikes and your out just like that. (OUCH!)

 

[NeedAUserName]

[img/]http://www.demotivateus.com/posters/ninjas-demotivational-posters.jpg[/img]

All I got out of that picture was that he was thirsty...and he is a ninja?

Its the girls drink. He is stealing it. (Sort of).

 

[quiet_samurai]

1. If she is constantly making eye contact with you. (Not the WTF are you looking at kind though)

2. Non verbal contact, as in, if you tease her or flirt with her and she smacks you shoulder and playfully hits you. Or if she just touches you out of the blue, all doing these things without being engaged in conversation.

3. Next time you sit next to her look at how she sits. A womans shoulders act like an arrow and will point right at the very thing they are interested in... namely you.

4. If you guys are in the hugging stage, next time, instead of putting your arms up high near her ribs put them around her waist and pull her hips right into your own. It's called the slow roast, it's where your bodies are touching from toes to tits, and if she lets this happen and she holds it there, well that a pretty good indicator.

Since you are in school together, go right up to her after class and say. "You know your lucky to be in this class with me. Now you have somebody that actually knows what's going on and can help you get better grades. We should study together. (insert time, and place here) would be the best time for me." She'll be all over it.

 

[The_Chief]

Well escapists, I have a question. How can you tell if a girl likes you? You see, for the past few weeks, a girl in a few of my classes has been, what i think, if flirting with me. But i need help to tell for sure. So how can i know if its just friendliness, or shes crushing on me?

An easy way is to be a bit hands on.
Don't get the wrong idea! What I mean is playfully poke/hold her and if you get a positive reaction that's almost a sure tell sign that she really likes you.

ok well you see, the problem with the holding is, i have a few inches in height and width on her, so i think that would be weird, im 5'7 shes 5'1. that wouldn't work cuz shes a petite little thing. i look like a a mexican jack black kinda. and she play slaps me all the time, cept for once she split my lip. i remember we ended up with my friend and his future girlfriend a few weeks ago at a resturant for some school thing, and she kept making me flinch and we laughed and laughed, it was fun.

 

[neuromasser]

How can you tell if a girl likes you?

When you put your hand in her panties it feels like if you were feeding a horse.

You know that there's teeth in there, right?

 

[ElephantGuts]

If you even suspect she's flirting with you, that's good enough. Or, it is for me atleast. Ask her out. What's the worst that can happen?

find out she wasn't flirting and she doesn't like you and you get rejected. Three strikes and your out just like that. (OUCH!)

That was sort of my point...what's so bad about being rejected? I'd say it's worth the potential gain.

And I didn't know there was a three strikes rule to dating.

EDIT:

How can you tell if a girl likes you?

When you put your hand in her panties it feels like if you were feeding a horse.

You know that there's teeth in there, right?

In the horse's mouth or in the vagina?

 

[Amethyst Wind]

Ask her to hang out with you, try to make it sound like it'll just be the two of you, judge her reaction, then follow it up by saying that there are some other people going too, then judge her reaction again. If she seems happy the first time then less so the second time, she probably likes you. If not, just hang out as friends.

 

[The_Chief]

1. If she is constantly making eye contact with you. (Not the WTF are you looking at kind though)

2. Non verbal contact, as in, if you tease her or flirt with her and she smacks you shoulder and playfully hits you. Or if she just touches you out of the blue, all doing these things without being engaged in conversation.

3. Next time you sit next to her look at how she sits. A womans shoulders act like an arrow and will point right at the very thing they are interested in... namely you.

4. If you guys are in the hugging stage, next time, instead of putting your arms up high near her ribs put them around her waist and pull her hips right into your own. It's called the slow roast, it's where your bodies are touching from toes to tits, and if she lets this happen and she holds it there, well that a pretty good indicator.

Since you are in school together, go right up to her after class and say. "You know your lucky to be in this class with me. Now you have somebody that actually knows what's going on and can help you get better grades. We should study together. (insert time, and place here) would be the best time for me." She'll be all over it.

when ever we sit across shes always leaned in. she hits me alot to get my attention or to just piss me off, she finds it funny. so do i. we don't hug, because all the dicks in my class cept for her think i smell. i dont. they just don't like me.

shes smarter then me, and since were in a small school we only have one class apart.

 

[Guitar Gamer]

If you even suspect she's flirting with you, that's good enough. Or, it is for me atleast. Ask her out. What's the worst that can happen?

find out she wasn't flirting and she doesn't like you and you get rejected. Three strikes and your out just like that. (OUCH!)

That was sort of my point...what's so bad about being rejected? I'd say it's worth the potential gain.

And I didn't know there was a three strikes rule to dating.

EDIT:

How can you tell if a girl likes you?

When you put your hand in her panties it feels like if you were feeding a horse.

You know that there's teeth in there, right?

In the horse's mouth or in the vagina?

isn't there in both?..............0_o

 

[quiet_samurai]

Well then invite her over to study and when she leaves hug her. Just do it, take control, and don't give a fuck about what everyone else in your dumb class thinks. And just because she's smarter doesn't mean you can't act like she isn't, seriously dude lay on the cockiness and she will love it.

 

[ElephantGuts]

If you even suspect she's flirting with you, that's good enough. Or, it is for me atleast. Ask her out. What's the worst that can happen?

find out she wasn't flirting and she doesn't like you and you get rejected. Three strikes and your out just like that. (OUCH!)

That was sort of my point...what's so bad about being rejected? I'd say it's worth the potential gain.

And I didn't know there was a three strikes rule to dating.

EDIT:

How can you tell if a girl likes you?

When you put your hand in her panties it feels like if you were feeding a horse.

You know that there's teeth in there, right?

In the horse's mouth or in the vagina?

isn't there in both?..............0_o

That's what I thought.

Well then invite her over to study and when she leaves hug her. Just do it, take control, and don't give a fuck about what everyone else in your dumb class thinks. And just because she's smarter doesn't mean you can't act like she isn't, seriously dude lay on the cockiness and she will love it.

Hug her? Come on, atleast kiss her. Even...what Kukul said is better than a hug.

 

[The_Chief]

Well then invite her over to study and when she leaves hug her. Just do it, take control, and don't give a fuck about what everyone else in your dumb class thinks. And just because she's smarter doesn't mean you can't act like she isn't, seriously dude lay on the cockiness and she will love it.

thats what got me a split lip. i was cocky and she slapped me, HARD. i was spitting up blood for a good portion of the next hour and a half. also, since our school is closing next year, we're doing nothing at all. so no studying for me =(. but we are hanging out this weekend according to my buddy and my buddys GF, the four of us.

 

[quiet_samurai]

If you even suspect she's flirting with you, that's good enough. Or, it is for me atleast. Ask her out. What's the worst that can happen?

find out she wasn't flirting and she doesn't like you and you get rejected. Three strikes and your out just like that. (OUCH!)

That was sort of my point...what's so bad about being rejected? I'd say it's worth the potential gain.

And I didn't know there was a three strikes rule to dating.

EDIT:

How can you tell if a girl likes you?

When you put your hand in her panties it feels like if you were feeding a horse.

You know that there's teeth in there, right?

In the horse's mouth or in the vagina?

isn't there in both?..............0_o

That's what I thought.

Well then invite her over to study and when she leaves hug her. Just do it, take control, and don't give a fuck about what everyone else in your dumb class thinks. And just because she's smarter doesn't mean you can't act like she isn't, seriously dude lay on the cockiness and she will love it.

Hug her? Come on, atleast kiss her. Even...what Kukul said is better than a hug.

you missed what I said above about the hugging thing, it's more of a test then a show of affection.

 

[ElephantGuts]

If you even suspect she's flirting with you, that's good enough. Or, it is for me atleast. Ask her out. What's the worst that can happen?

find out she wasn't flirting and she doesn't like you and you get rejected. Three strikes and your out just like that. (OUCH!)

That was sort of my point...what's so bad about being rejected? I'd say it's worth the potential gain.

And I didn't know there was a three strikes rule to dating.

EDIT:

How can you tell if a girl likes you?

When you put your hand in her panties it feels like if you were feeding a horse.

You know that there's teeth in there, right?

In the horse's mouth or in the vagina?

isn't there in both?..............0_o

That's what I thought.

Well then invite her over to study and when she leaves hug her. Just do it, take control, and don't give a fuck about what everyone else in your dumb class thinks. And just because she's smarter doesn't mean you can't act like she isn't, seriously dude lay on the cockiness and she will love it.

Hug her? Come on, atleast kiss her. Even...what Kukul said is better than a hug.

you missed what I said above about the hugging thing, it's more of a test then a show of affection.

A weak test. Sticking your hand down her panties is a much better test.

 

[Frank_Sinatra_]

Kiss her and see what happens next?

And she swings her arm for a slap... And his face is out of here!

the absolute easiest way to tell is to stop being a chicken and ask

This right here, listen to this man!

 

[quiet_samurai]

Well then invite her over to study and when she leaves hug her. Just do it, take control, and don't give a fuck about what everyone else in your dumb class thinks. And just because she's smarter doesn't mean you can't act like she isn't, seriously dude lay on the cockiness and she will love it.

thats what got me a split lip. i was cocky and she slapped me, HARD. i was spitting up blood for a good portion of the next hour and a half. also, since our school is closing next year, we're doing nothing at all. so no studying for me =(. but we are hanging out this weekend according to my buddy and my buddys GF, the four of us.

Theres a difference between being cocky and an arrogant asshole. And it doesn't have to be studying... it can be anything extra cirricular. She obviously must like you, you just gotta work on your material it sounds like. And quit the defeatist attitude, seriously man. Every piece of advice someone given to you has been counteracted with a negative reason or why you shuldn't do it. Maybe you just lack the confidence and she senses it in you.

 

[Glerken]

"Hmm... I need relationship advice. *snaps* I got it! I'll ask the Escapist."
Really now.