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Flying-Emu

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Yeah, rule one of figuring out if a girl likes you or not. Don't ask the Internet.

I'm not trying to be an ass, but frankly, this has been done a million times before. I always give the same response too. Don't ask the freaking Internet. Ask your father; he obviously figured it out somehow, considering you were born. Ask your playboy uncle (everybody has one!). Don't ask the Internet.
 

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imacharginmehlaz0r said:
quiet_samurai said:
Well then invite her over to study and when she leaves hug her. Just do it, take control, and don't give a fuck about what everyone else in your dumb class thinks. And just because she's smarter doesn't mean you can't act like she isn't, seriously dude lay on the cockiness and she will love it.
thats what got me a split lip. i was cocky and she slapped me, HARD. i was spitting up blood for a good portion of the next hour and a half. also, since our school is closing next year, we're doing nothing at all. so no studying for me =(. but we are hanging out this weekend according to my buddy and my buddys GF, the four of us.
i dont think that many chicks like cockiness. i know i dont.
but as to the question of what to do, i've no idea. sorry :\
 

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Flying-Emu said:
Yeah, rule one of figuring out if a girl likes you or not. Don't ask the Internet.

I'm not trying to be an ass, but frankly, this has been done a million times before. I always give the same response too. Don't ask the freaking Internet. Ask your father; he obviously figured it out somehow, considering you were born. Ask your playboy uncle (everybody has one!). Don't ask the Internet.
This is some of the best advice I've seen.
That and "Be yourself" because if you don't, you'll pick up girls that will find out who you really are and they'll do things you don't want them to do to you and they'll be mad and you'll get dumped and she'll end up dating a slightly taller guy and make fun of you for being slightly shorter even though the guy is freakishly tall. That's disgusting who wants to be that tall? He's gonna die of a heart attack at age 35 the stupid prick.

Just kick her down the stairs now while you have the chance
 

ace_of_something

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Just ask.
Girls like confidence. Worst case scenario she says "No!" and some other people make fun of you for a week.

The first time is the hardest by far but after that every subsequent girl you ask will be a lot easier.

... that sounded dirty but I can't think of a better way to phrase it.
 

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Alright, man I got three girls who do this to me all the time, and one has a BF. Beleive it or not, but many girls are more sexual than guys, even if thats not what the steryotype is. Most of the time they're just messing around and its all fun, for both me and them. Except when they try and take pictures of my penis while I'm in class, thats not so fun. Anyhow, if you really like this girl (I mean like you'd want to date her) you could ask. But I wouldn't. Maybe it's cause I'd be worried about losing a good friend, maybe I'm just a chicken-shit coward. Either way, I wouldn't do it. Thats my two cents.
 

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imacharginmehlaz0r said:
quiet_samurai said:
Well then invite her over to study and when she leaves hug her. Just do it, take control, and don't give a fuck about what everyone else in your dumb class thinks. And just because she's smarter doesn't mean you can't act like she isn't, seriously dude lay on the cockiness and she will love it.
thats what got me a split lip. i was cocky and she slapped me, HARD. i was spitting up blood for a good portion of the next hour and a half. also, since our school is closing next year, we're doing nothing at all. so no studying for me =(. but we are hanging out this weekend according to my buddy and my buddys GF, the four of us.

gahahahahaha.... *breathe* ahahahahahaha

yeah asking this question on a nerd forum might not be the best idea eh? considering where they probably get most of their information.
As a qualified girl I have to say in a society full of social gender inequalities, cockiness is the worst turn off. unwanted physical contact is permission for well... unwanted violent contact.

*giggle*

apart from that no one here's going to be able to help eh?

last guy I went out with showed me he liked me by inviting me on his arena team even though I was a pre 3.0 feral spec. now that's serious affection. relationships are never normal. go ask her out.
 

soulasylum85

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u may be in the friend zone. if u are there is no hope. only way to know for sure is to ask her out seriously when u are alone with her. i made the friend zone mistake a few times and im still kicking myself about it
 

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Slowly transition your way into her life, if she accepts you then either she likes you or likes you as a friend, either way contact with the opposite sex can be healthy
 

The_Chief

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Flying-Emu said:
Yeah, rule one of figuring out if a girl likes you or not. Don't ask the Internet.

I'm not trying to be an ass, but frankly, this has been done a million times before. I always give the same response too. Don't ask the freaking Internet. Ask your father; he obviously figured it out somehow, considering you were born. Ask your playboy uncle (everybody has one!). Don't ask the Internet.
can't ask my faja, cuz ive heard what my dad did. he lied and acted nice till they were married for a while then became an ass. and the only playboy uncle i have is realllyyy weird and i'd rather not talk about annnnnnyyyyyyything with him.
 

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Curtmiester said:
Dude you have to ask. Sorry to any chicks on here but really girl minds are so confusing they put all of Middle Earth to shame.
This one million times.

Also check out the relationship thread thats floating about. You can get some good advice there, it helped me with a different relationship problem.
 

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Fightgarr said:
How could I tell as soon as I read the title of this thread that this was about a girl?
It could be that its extremely common.
It always is about a girl:p
 

crudus

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sonidraw said:
Kiss her and see what happens next?
that is how I got my passed 3 girlfriends. It is fun and shows a great amount of confidence which girls find sexy or something. I have known how to read people for years. That is all i can say. the cues are different from girl to girl. Give it a shot and if you strike out then o well you found out your answer.
 

The_Chief

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crudus said:
sonidraw said:
Kiss her and see what happens next?
that is how I got my passed 3 girlfriends. It is fun and shows a great amount of confidence which girls find sexy or something. I have known how to read people for years. That is all i can say. the cues are different from girl to girl. Give it a shot and if you strike out then o well you found out your answer.
that would be a good idea except she has a jacked brother i'm extremely scared of.
 

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Same prob here, I would just say ask. Only you are a coward like me and won't ask. If that is the case, then I am sorry bro, but me and you are in the same boat.
 

crudus

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imacharginmehlaz0r said:
that would be a good idea except she has a jacked brother i'm extremely scared of.
That is easy. Older brothers and fathers tend to be "guardians" of the younger females of the family for obvious reasons. There are a few things that will diffuse them. You want to not be visibly afraid of them but also respect their duty as the "protector". You don't want to project that you think you are "superior" or are trying to "usurp" them. Another thing you want is to project a sense that you won't hurt her, which you can do by having a good relationship with the mother(or mother figure, assuming she is friendly). This has worked when I was 17 dating a 14-year-old and her father being a Marine and her brother being on the swim team.

Note: this is just recounting of my experience and not guaranteed to work. I would have to know more details to give you more context sensitive advice.
 

The_Chief

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j0z said:
Same prob here, I would just say ask. Only you are a coward like me and won't ask. If that is the case, then I am sorry bro, but me and you are in the same boat.
can we be in another vehicle? i get sea sick.