How do you know you're being cheated on?

[Angerwing]

You don't know, ever. You could walk in on them both in bed bare as the day they were born and you don't know if it might have just been a colossal misunderstanding. Then you'd just feel stupid, now wouldn't you?

If they're both naked, they've been fucking, or are about to.

Hey, perhaps their clothes got wet

But, yeah, OP, is it a serious question?

After, say, a water balloon fight?

 

[Chogg Van Helsing]

Woe is the person who cheats on me! lol

But other than seeing it for yourself, you can't tell really. You can have suspicions, but that is it :/

 

[Sgt. Dante]

When you walk in on someone railing your significant other.

That's usually a pretty good indication.

well... thats pretty sound advice, i concure completely

Problem is that unless you see it happen, you will never KNOW. People could lie to trick you or she could just say she is to hurt you, so even testimony or confession isn't solid proof. Sorry, but if you suspect it to be true, then i'd just ask her... Not in an accusationary way, but try to be cool about it.

 

[DanielBrown]

When she/he seems to be busy meeting a friend a lot more often I suppose some warning lights should start flickering. I've always been "the other guy" though, so I wouldn't know.

 

[emeraldrafael]

When they seem more distant and not as into whatever you are doing with them (doesnt have to be sex, could just be anyhting you like).

Or when they seem to be making excuses not to be around you.

this person has the correct answer

XD Well, I would hope so. I've been cheated on before, and those were the signs, among others... *shakes head* anyway! yeah, just trying to pass on the warning signs knowledge.

 

[Stasisesque]

You don't know, ever. You could walk in on them both in bed bare as the day they were born and you don't know if it might have just been a colossal misunderstanding. Then you'd just feel stupid, now wouldn't you?

If they're both naked, they've been fucking, or are about to.

Hey, perhaps their clothes got wet

But, yeah, OP, is it a serious question?

After, say, a water balloon fight?

No balloons, Turk. No balloons!

I would have to agree with the nagging suspicion, and the physical evidence. The suspicion, however, is not always based in reality.

Can't say I'm proud of it, but I've been the cheater - and sometimes there simply is no indication until you walk in on your SO tagging someone else. I've also been the cheatee and there was a lot of evidence (change in personality, actions etc.) but I also have to state I have severe trust issues, so there is every chance I could've been wrong.

You can confront your SO, but be warned, it will not go well. The best thing to do would be to put the suspicion out of your mind, trust them and see where things go. No one takes accusations of cheating lightly - whether baseless or true.

 

[Jedoro]

When she's holding Up and B

OT: You really can't ever be sure. Some people are so good at it that they can act normal, and others give off false positives. Just look for several changes in usual behavior, one isn't enough.

 

[Ace of Spades]

You don't, and if there's one thing I've learned from reading Moliere, it's never to test the beloved. Better to err on the side of caution and be led on than have your partner leave you for being overly paranoid.

 

[katsabas]

When she/he starts being waaay nicer than usual.

Now that's not necessarily true.

They may just want you to buy them something shiny.

Well, in the whole being nice thing are included presents and stuff. Basically things that you do not see her/him do often.

But yeah, maybe she does want something shiny. Gotta get the One Ring replica out from my display just in case...

 

[Lord Xtheth]

No... But see my Zombie face? That's actually a better face than my real one

Edit: This was supposed to quote someone... lost the tag somewhere between verification and posting

 

[Ponce Master-General]

Hire Magnum P.I., and he'll uncover a whole mystery that reaches the highest ranks of the fucking Mafia.

No, but seriously, look out for behavioral changes, name mixups, suspicious calls and texts, and that kind of stuff. Also, try coming home at times when your significant other least expects it, and maybe you'll find what he who is master of his own reality said, then brutally murder them both with an axe. If all else fails, set up some hidden cameras around your home. If it's true, you might get some good happy time material out of it.

This is one of those topics that I just can't resist making jokes about, so I have to cross out some of my post.

 

[zHellas]

When you walk in on someone railing your significant other.

That's usually a pretty good indication.

Or some really in-depth Gynocology.

 

[Link_to_Future]

When you walk in on someone railing your significant other.

That's usually a pretty good indication.

Or some really in-depth Gynocology.

Being vigorously practiced on my bed?

...

Ok, yeah, you're right. I see absolutely nothing wrong with that explanation and I accept it completely at face value.

 

[TheRightToArmBears]

I've never been cheated on properly (I once dated a girl who got taken advantage of and cried to me about it, but it was hardly a consensual thing). Maybe it's because I'm such a charming guy (ha!). But then, it's happened to friends of mine before. It's probably one of the cruelest things you can do to someone without physically harming them when it's a serious relationship.

I guess when they keep making excuses not to do stuff, if they're always 'busy'.

 

[whycantibelinus]

but back on the topic of your question,the alternative is to be a prick to her and she will never cheat, women for some reason like pricks, I found I could get women so much easier when I acted like a big headed prick

Good, good. The ol' "treat a woman like dirt and she'll stick to you like mud" trick. I like it.

OT: You could be a kick ass detective and follow her around and snoop through her phone and email. Fun stuff like that, then you can feel like you're in a mystery movie!