I remain sensible(ish) while drunk, my problem is nausea. I have issues with this while sober and I never drink fizzy drinks 98% of the time, so when I drink a lot of fizzy alcoholic crap all at once I become very nauseous and then make a huge mess.Kukulski said:
How do you RUIN your sex life.
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I ruined mine by telling her it had to stop (because she was getting super clingy, not that I told her that). The friends with benefits thing does not work. I am STILL dealing with the repercussions from this, over a year later.
In fact, she has cost me a potential relationship (extra rage because it also put me in the friendzone and continued my increasing frustration), but I can't bring myself to just tell her to fuck off.
In fact, she has cost me a potential relationship (extra rage because it also put me in the friendzone and continued my increasing frustration), but I can't bring myself to just tell her to fuck off.
It's not as bad as you think. I can climax fine, even as soon as 5 minutes but only if I do it myself. After the girl is done I would often pull out and finish myself off, not unusual but most of the time the girl is used to the guy finishing first or finishing him off themselves which never works.Kuhkren said:
Maybe I just sleep with really untalented girls....
I appreciate your time. Yeah, I think it's mainly just her. She's gotten to climax maybe four times in her life. Twice with me (I had a good day today. ;P) and twice on her own. She says that I'm better than she is, and that she really enjoys when I touch her. I guess it'll work itself out. And if it doesn't, I love her enough that it's not a huge deal.lisadagz said:Tell him I'm actually asexual and every moment he's touched me for the last year has made me feel dirty and I cry at night thinking about it.
I have a feeling he won't want to go near me after that.
On a more serious note
Firstly, some girls just aren't very good at climaxing. The female body is a weird thing. Does she have difficulties bringing herself to orgasm when she masturbates? If so, then it's certainly not your fault and you need to stop beating yourself up.That One Six said:
If she doesn't masturbate, this may be the problem, she needs to loosen up about her sexuality!
Secondly, if it's not her weird female body that's the problem, then have you got her to teach you what she likes? Get her to guide you in foreplay, tell her to move your hands where she wants them, let her take control.
In my experience, guys don't make a girl orgasm, a girl has to use a guy to orgasm.
(P.S. Any questions asked are more for your consideration than to find out the answers. Advice post end.)
ummm there's a list but I don't think i want to air my dirty laundry in this situation. but I will say don't get high before meeting up with your significant other...they tend to frown upon that. Another thing, despite what you may have heard being a jerk or neglecting your lady friend isn't appealing.
...if you're celibate... How do you know?Berethond said:By choice of course.Flare Phoenix said:Is that by choice or because you couldn't get anyone to agree to have sex with you?Berethond said:
I would have no trouble getting people to have sex with me.
Once, to get rid of a girl I didn't want to be with anymore I asked her if she was ever gonna let me go IDB or if I was gonna have to find a girl on the side for that. Needless to say, I was back on the market after that. To be fair, she was a whiny emo in disguise.
Really? Did her friend get scared off too? It seems like if you can get her and her friend then you have a fairly active sex life, to say nothing of actual relationships.DAVEoftheDEAD said:
I have been hearing a lot about drinking, I still don't understand alcohol.
