I'm 22, I have male and female friends, and the few gamers in that group are male. But when I play against girls online, whether I beat them or they beat me, gender doesn't come into it. I may look at someone's profile on Steam or XBL if they're particularly good or seem cool when I'm talking to them in voice chat, and if they're female my response is at most "huh, a girl gamer. Cool." And then I move on and play another game. That's it. Why gender should have to come into everything is beyond me, but then again I'm not one of those sadcases who believes that every single girl online is secretly a fat perverted guy. Even if I was, I've met girl gamers, and there are girls involved in Escapism UK each year who I've met, and they're clearly not fat geek guys unless they're very VERY good at disguises...