How long ago was your last date?

[joshuaayt]

I've never been on a date, or had any event even remotely romantic occur.
I've had one serious crush, though- it kinda fell apart (ie is still there and hurts like a *****) when she left. See, turns out she was only ever going to attend for about a year, whilst her father was working here.
I guess I've never tried because
A) I have zero self confidence
B) I know that, if something serious does happen, sex is basically expected- even now, in Year 11, it's assumed. I don't want to engage in any sexual activity yet, maybe ever, and I know the person in question will (fairly enough) not want to continue when they realise we've hit a dead end.

 

[Tomster595]

Exactly 2 weeks ago. It was a double date with I girl that I've never went out with before.

 

[snappydog]

Seems to be a lot of people saying "never".....

Yeah, never.

 

[Arehexes]

It will be 3 years a week after February, life is interesting.

 

[The Journey]

Few months ago. I keep meaning to ask a few different girls out but always either chicken out at the last minute or come by the knowledge of them being taken at the worst possible moment. Usually just before I ask them.

I also hate being made a fool of by being rejected. Hasn't really stopped me trying, just pushes me to not try on more than one occasion.

I'm also somewhat infatuated with a girl who doesn't think of me on the same level either. Which sucks. Hopefully with time my damn psyche will get over it. Until then, I'm a bit of a slave to my unconscious desires unless I seriously watch myself.

 

[D Moness]

Like a few others said : never.

What is stopping me that is easy : no confidence , low self esteem , the few i did like and had the courage to ask turned me down.

 

[ExSandMan]

Wow, so many of you have never been on dates? its crazy, but trust me its worth the hastle if you find some one you really enjoying being with. my last date was last night, and next one is tonight. going to a concert, hell yes!!!

 

[Julianking93]

....never.

*goes crying in corner*

 

[thehorror2]

My last date was almost 11 months ago. My first REAL girlfriend, and so far only. I am single again, and for the foreseeable future, so it's unlikely to change very soon.

 

[child of lileth]

I think about a week ago. I'm very poor when it comes to a sense of days passing, so I never really remember things like that too well.

 

[Yopaz]

Never been on a date. What's stopping me?

Partially good old nervousness - though you wouldn't be able to tell - and partially that a lot all girls I tend to fall for eventually turn out to be really fucking crazy in one way or another.

Like the most recent fiasco: nice girl, instant click, same interests, then BAM. Superchristian. Thinks the earth is a couple of thousand years old. Doesn't even believe the theory of evolution. Tried to get me to reject the theory of evolution. It may sound shallow, but that's a major turn-off for me.

That would be a problem for me too. If we could agree to not talk about our religious opinions it could work, but if anyone even tries to make me unbelieve in evolution that would make me turn back into the world of loneliness.

Not sure if I've been on any dates, don't really know what counts and what doesn't. The reason is mainly because I'm either an ugly unfunny person or insecure or parts of both where the latter seems probable. I am not a person who likes to pursue and I don't like being pursued so that does keep me from trying. I am also a cynic person who thinks that love is just a part of the reproduction instinct.

 

[Dxz5roxg]

I'd say it was in like February. Had a nice week long relationship there.

 

[Simili]

Couple of weeks ago for me. but the next one will be in a month as its my 4 year anniversary.

 

[Ninonybox_v1legacy]

i never went on a date in all my 16 years of life.....im not in a hurry though.

 

[JanatUrlich]

One night stand or date?

Because my last one night stand was about 1 week ago and my last date was about 2 weeks ago.

 

[Crayzor]

I've never been on one. Mainly because I'm convinced I could never make a relationship work, so I don't try. It's why the few chances I've had at a relationship never came of anything.

 

[Dags90]

My last romantic date was probably a couple years ago. It was more or less a one night stand.

I've trying to focus on school and one of my exes keeps talking to me and bringing back old feelings even though he lives too far away.

 

[burningdragoon]

romantic outing type of date? no.

staying-in-kinda-pseudo-date-like thing? earlier this year, probably around March. I've had a decent amount of those over the past few years.

what's stopping me? At the moment I am perfectly content being a shut in. Or rather, I don't care enough to go out looking for something.

 

[Plurralbles]

a year and a couple months unless you count a girl cheating on her boyfriend w/me.....

Weezer concert then my room : (... er... ?

 

[Canadamus Prime]

Over 7 years.
What's stopping me? Several things:
1. Lack of confidence.
2. Very little to no idea of how to approach women I'm interested in. (the last one approached me)
3. Pure terror.