It is somewhat, but who are we to judge? I on the other hand, have never dated, and the one time I had sex...well..I was too drunk to remember her name or how it happened. Not my best of moments.FamoFunk said:
How long do you usually go out before sex?
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Yes, you. And don't give me those innocent eyes. I have an desperate urge to do one of two things when I see innocence. Crush it mercilessly or protect it from the cruel world.Bara_no_Hime said:
I'm not sure which I'm in the mood for right now, I just woke up. XD
Ok, now I understand your situation a little bit more. I know school can be overwhelming when one or more teachers think that students should not have any social life because they didn'tSir_Auron_the_Badass said:
.I've got two advice for you:
1) The moment you've got a moment of peace from school, go crazy, have fun and, with luck, find a funny girl with whom you can be crazy !
2) Sometimes, losing some grades to keep yourself sane is the only logical decision (except if you've got a scholarship that you MUST KEEP, in that case, bah, sleep is overated anyway
Seriously, though, good luck
With first girlfriend where anything actually happened: one and a half years.
Since then, six hours is usually typical. New York will do that. Also hanging out with people who are more stressed out about their future profession (I tend to hang around a bunch of law school/med student types) than about being hung up on their perceived promiscuity or chastity. Often the people who work the hardest tend to unwind the quickest.
Protip: if you actually want to have sex, don't date virgins; the "first sex" hurdle is impossibly huge to surmount and virgins suck at sex anyway. Once someone's actually done it, they usually get over themselves and everyone can get on the same page about why we're all at a party tonight.
Since then, six hours is usually typical. New York will do that. Also hanging out with people who are more stressed out about their future profession (I tend to hang around a bunch of law school/med student types) than about being hung up on their perceived promiscuity or chastity. Often the people who work the hardest tend to unwind the quickest.
Protip: if you actually want to have sex, don't date virgins; the "first sex" hurdle is impossibly huge to surmount and virgins suck at sex anyway. Once someone's actually done it, they usually get over themselves and everyone can get on the same page about why we're all at a party tonight.
I have only slept with one girl ive dated (my current gf) and we waited til about 2 weeks, all my others were one night stands so im not sure on the apropiate length to wait. dont most people wait til 3 dates?
For me, it depends entirely on the girl.
Girl who's hard to get and insanely good looking, i'll wait for however long, and it would happen naturally.
Girl who's easy to get (And good looking of course, I have some standards dammit!) and not after any sort of relationship, within the week of dating or 'seeing' her.
Girl who's hard to get and insanely good looking, i'll wait for however long, and it would happen naturally.
Girl who's easy to get (And good looking of course, I have some standards dammit!) and not after any sort of relationship, within the week of dating or 'seeing' her.
Oh, well I was kinda meaning if I met you or someone like you the way you are now =D. But I was in the same boat for all of middle and high school (it almost seemed like I was part of the wall in the eyes of most people), and one time I asked a girl to the prom she acted as if I was trying to rape her by yelling NO at the top of her lungs, slapped me, and kicked me in the crotch as hard as she could...XD. It was easy going into college as laid-back and open-minded as they were naturally part of my personality, but I couldn't seem to fathom putting up a front that said I was even remotely sexually mature/liberated when I had suffered major blows to my self-esteem DUE to merely trying to get a date.Bara_no_Hime said:
Well, when one is and the other isn't, things CAN get dicey. Depends on the ages, the level of experience that the one has, the genders (to a degree), and how they are as a person in total. Many people are immediately gonna say, older exp. dude and younger V. girl, is only asking for trouble, and that the dude is gonna pressure her. I've honestly seen the whole pressure thing go both/different ways though. Best thing to do is, talk it out. You may feel pressured even if they haven't said anything, and you shouldn't just go for it if for that reason alone. (Unless you're eager to just get rid of the Virgin weight)Sir_Auron_the_Badass said:
Hahaha.... If only every girl I met was like thatBara_no_Hime said:
Actually my current girl friend basically jumped me at a friends party and then we quickly left for her place. So yeah... pretty quick.