How long do you usually go out before sex?

[neonlampshade]

Go on a date? Before sex? seems a bit strange to me

 

[Cain_Zeros]

The first and only girl I've had sex with I dated for a week and a half first. Of course, we were aware of out mutual attraction for about four months before that, which sounds like a long time to wait for someone, but I barely even noticed.

 

[SckizoBoy]

Massages. Massages also another fantastic way of touching a chick, and chicks love massages.

Only just read this... and yes. If done properly: massage can lead to an FBO.

This happened with GF2 and, well, better than the drugs she was on, let's leave it at that...

 

[GroovyV]

Well, if you're a virgin, it might be best to just enjoy the flow of the relationship before sex complicates it. Assuming you both are virgins, that is.

If you've both lost the chains of virginity, then it truly does depend. I've heard that some guys don't want girls (or boys) who go too fast. Some people are turned off by people who are too quick to unzip.
Funny thing is, i've heard girls say that some guys just take way too long.

If you have standards, like not on a first date, then that can play into it too. Sometimes prolonging your pleasure makes it all the sweeter. Though, at least for me, sex is a very important aspect of a relationship. I don't wanna get bogged down too long with someone just for the sex to suck (badly).
Depends really, on how important that aspect is to you. Virginity at least lets you see things a little differently before the SEX MONSTER clouds your vision with hazy lust-tinted glasses.

 

[Sir_Auron_the_Badass]

Well, if you're a virgin, it might be best to just enjoy the flow of the relationship before sex complicates it. Assuming you both are virgins, that is.

If you've both lost the chains of virginity, then it truly does depend. I've heard that some guys don't want girls (or boys) who go too fast. Some people are turned off by people who are too quick to unzip.
Funny thing is, i've heard girls say that some guys just take way too long.

If you have standards, like not on a first date, then that can play into it too. Sometimes prolonging your pleasure makes it all the sweeter. Though, at least for me, sex is a very important aspect of a relationship. I don't wanna get bogged down too long with someone just for the sex to suck (badly).
Depends really, on how important that aspect is to you. Virginity at least lets you see things a little differently before the SEX MONSTER clouds your vision with hazy lust-tinted glasses.

Well, that's your stance on both being virgins or both not, but what would you say if one was a virgin and the other wasn't?

 

[ZtH]

Well having only had two sexual partners the average isn't exactly accurate, but it really depends. The first we'd been seeing each other on and off for almost 2 and a half years. The second we hit it off really well and were having sex by the two month mark. All depends on the relationship dynamic.

 

[Redlin5_v1legacy]

I don't know, lets find out! >:3

 

[similar.squirrel]

Why do you keep making these threads without divulging any answers of your own, OP? It's slightly creepy.

OT: Almost two years. There are no other examples. Didn't really mind, but I would certainly love to sleep around for a while now before getting involved in another relationship. Emotional involvement=bollocks.

I do generally answer, it's just hidden in innuendo and whatnot in my responses to people's answers. XD

If it makes you feel better though, I've actually never had sex. I've had plenty of opportunities, but they never felt right, and when I met my gf, she wasn't quite above the age of consent yet, but she is now, and of course with my mom having cancer and recently passing away occupying a great deal of my time for the last 4-5 months, we've never really gotten the chance to do so.

All right. Didn't mean to come off quite so nastily, sorry. It's strange how readily people [including myself] post information of this nature.

 

[MasterOfWorlds]

All right. Didn't mean to come off quite so nastily, sorry. It's strange how readily people [including myself] post information of this nature.

I didn't mean to sound like I was being snippy. I was just laying out the facts of my relationship thus far. Her dad also hates me but is warming up to me, her mom loves me, which is always a good thing, and her step-mom seems to think I'm a decent guy. Her younger brother has a man-crush on me because I promised to teach him a martial art's move (he's 12 so of course it's easy to win him over XD) and her sister (7 years old) thinks that I have a funny voice. XD

As for the information...people like talking about themselves. It's kind of part of human nature it would seem. Unless something happened that would cause them to become super secretive.

 

[Bara_no_Hime]

I'm tempted to say that you're not allowed to post in my threads because somehow it always feels like you're teasing me. XD

**blinks** Me? Teasing you? Why would you say that? **wide innocent eyes**

I gotta say, from all your posts I've seen around the site, you definitely seem like a fun, easy-going, open-minded, and sexually-liberated person. Where was someone like you all my life? Seriously, having a friend even remotely similar to you when at middle/high-school would've easily gotten me out of my personal insecurities long ago.

Wouldn't have helped you in high-school - I was a shy wall-flower who couldn't get a date to save my life. Senior year, I turned that around, but only outside my own school. In college, I went in acting like I was easy-going, open-minded, and sexually liberated. By the time I graduated college, I actually was. ^^

 

[Sangreal Gothcraft]

rarely go out.. just "Ringa ding Ding, i needs to release my frustration" and..there...i summoned females with phone calls who are my friends not Whores..

 

[pope_of_larry]

i'v been going for *checks watch* 16 years 4 months 17 days 7 hours and some odd minuets... not that i have been counting.

 

[Brawndo]

Depends on the girl, but usually 5-8 dates/hang-outs/whatevers.

Although my last girlfriend was my platonic friend for over a year first while we dated other people. Then when feelings began to develop she just plain told me "God I don't want to go out to dinner or the movies, just fuck me already!" It was pretty funny

 

[major28]

Well considering I have been with one girl. 3 months. I don't know if that is the average.

It's been too long I could say.
Last time was around 27th December 2010 with my ex.

.. I need to get laid.

pfft, I have you beat. May 4th, 2006. Dammit I made myself sad on the inside

pfft, i got you both beat the last time i was in a vagina was january 12th 1995 (day i was born tee hee)

 

[eternal-chaplain]

It was 3 months for me, but we both agreed it almost ruined our relationship and being gay we could have also contracted AIDS, so yeah, never again since then. Really I say save yourself until marriage; he/she will respect you for your self control and it'll be one less thing to feel pressured over!

As for a story. well my parents let him sleep with me because they thought we were straight at the time, and it was about one A.M. or so. It really just started with a quick lick on the "Head" and turned into 69.

 

[crudus]

pfft, i got you both beat the last time i was in a vagina was january 12th 1995 (day i was born tee hee)

Pretty sure it doesn't count if you have never had sex. It is like dividing by zero or something.

 

[Icehearted]

When it's right, it's just right. I don't like putting an egg timer on my feelings, and I loathe that in the women I date as well.

 

[Bara_no_Hime]

**blinks** Me? Teasing you? Why would you say that? **wide innocent eyes**

That post shot chills up my spine because i heard that being said in Talis voice...

^^ Well, I have practiced Tali's voice. I'm pretty good with it - I can sing "Misery's Business" by Paramore in her voice now (like when I'm playing Rock Band, or singing in the car on my way to work).

Whenever I want to master a voice, I try to sing with it - it helps.