How long do you usually go out before sex?

[similar.squirrel]

Why do you keep making these threads without divulging any answers of your own, OP? It's slightly creepy.

OT: Almost two years. There are no other examples. Didn't really mind, but I would certainly love to sleep around for a while now before getting involved in another relationship. Emotional involvement=bollocks.

 

[Mr S]

Virgin alert. I tell people I wait for the right girl, but the fact is that most girls see me more as a friend. I'm too nice. Yeah that sucks.

 

[MasterOfWorlds]

I went out with your mom twice first.

you shouldnt have gotton probationed for that I feel your pain

Yeah, I was wondering who reported him. I mean, my mom was the target of that joke, and my only complaint was that it wasn't original. XD

 

[Blackmagic1515]

Well considering I've only ever slept with one person (my current boyfriend) and we started having sex before we officially started dating...I'm probably not the right person to ask. =p

 

[thylasos]

My last two girlfriends I slept with the first night. Otherwise, about two weeks, in my experience.

 

[MasterOfWorlds]

Why do you keep making these threads without divulging any answers of your own, OP? It's slightly creepy.

OT: Almost two years. There are no other examples. Didn't really mind, but I would certainly love to sleep around for a while now before getting involved in another relationship. Emotional involvement=bollocks.

I do generally answer, it's just hidden in inuendo and whatnot in my reponses to people's answers. XD

If it makes you feel better though, I've actually never had sex. I've had plenty of opportunities, but they never felt right, and when I met my gf, she wasn't quite above the age of consent yet, but she is now, and of course with my mom having cancer and recently passing away occupying a great deal of my time for the last 4-5 months, we've never really gotten the chance to do so.

 

[Effiey]

Granted I've only been with two guys and one was long distance... We TRIED to sleep together the first time we met after our online relationship had gone on a few months, we slept together the second time we met and that was my first time.

My second boyfriend I slept with on the second date? But they weren't "dates" per say and we only decided to go out after we had slept together. That relationship did last for 5 years though....

 

[thiosk]

If you still refer to it as "going out" then you probably aren't old enough for sex.

 

[MasterOfWorlds]

If you still refer to it as "going out" then you probably aren't old enough for sex.

For the love of God, I wish people would relax on the terminology. Going out, dating, fling, winging, pick your choice. How long are do you generally persue sex before you get it? Is it that hard to figure out?

 

[Wondermint13]

Never on the first date/meeting. That is a rule I have always followed.
Randoms endevours at nightclubs not included.

After that.. Anything goes.
From past experiences I'd say the second and third dates are rather fruitful. If its good, I'm open for something serious.

Quite simple..

 

[Continuity]

Unfortunately, I can't divide by zero.

In other words, I can't calculate an average time of dating before sex until I actually have sex.

Still, on the plus side with that hat and storm trooper outfit it shouldn't be much longer before you break your duck.

 

[FamoFunk]

ASAP.

Gotta know how good this Man is before I get with him, don't wanna be in a relationship with awful sex.

Shallow? yup!

 

[Gildan Bladeborn]

An unknowable quantity of time that is at once both infinite and nonexistent, because I do neither of those things, heh.

 

[Wondermint13]

ASAP.

Gotta know how good this Man is before I get with him, don't wanna be in a relationship with awful sex.

Shallow? yup!

Shallow but Understandable.. Salute

 

[ace_of_something]

Realistically: As briefly as the girl would allow.

 

[GeorgW]

Recently, damn long. I prefer a real relationship over some stupid one night stand.

 

[CoziestPigeon]

Usually a week or so. I'm university aged, and sex is what it's about. If you are interested enough in someone after a few dates, might as well start having some real fun together.

 

[cynicalsaint1]

This varies so much from relationship to relationship that its really a silly question to ask. Well at least of men - your average guy is perfectly happy to start the sexing just as soon as the woman is willing, generally speaking of course.

Also it really depends on what you mean by 'Going out' - do you mean how long have I known the chick? How long have I actively been trying to pursue her? Or something else? On that note I wouldn't ever consider anyone I wasn't sleeping with my girlfriend, because that's the point I start considering myself to be in a committed relationship. Up till then I'd consider any girl I was going out with to be someone I was pursuing.